 When you fix everything that the narcissist complained about The narcissist always criticized and put you down They devalued and degraded you They treated you as unimportant As though you were worthless and beneath their consideration As though you were less than other people and this may make you want to prove them wrong It may make you want to prove that what they said about you was incorrect You may want to prove to them that you're better than they think you are You may try to win them over You may try to gain that acceptance Because you want them to respect you so you may try to become something better But it's not going to change anything You're just expanding effort with no result You're wasting time doing something That doesn't achieve anything Because no amount of money power or success is going to change how the narcissist feels about you It's just going to make things worse It's going to make things even more dangerous for you Fronting your achievements and success is not going to make them like you It's not going to make them approve of you And it's not going to make them accept you The narcissist pushed you away By being unpleasant and unfair to you They made you feel like you're not good enough of them They made you feel like you're nothing So you may think that if you become something They will realize how amazing you are You may think that if you become showy flashy glamorous or virtuous then maybe they will accept you But it never works out that way Because they don't hate you for something you don't have They didn't reject you for something you lacked or for something that you were deficient in They bullied hated and rejected you because of the things that you do have Because they're very envious and jealous And that is why they isolated you That is why they pulled you away from your friends That is why they pulled you away from your hobbies and interests That is why they destroyed your goals and dreams Because they despised everything that you do have They despised everything that is good about you Everything that made you who you are Everything that made you free from their control People don't hate on others for things they don't have They don't hate on people who don't have money a job or a place to live The narcissist didn't resent you for things you don't have They resented you for everything you are Everything you have Your money and possessions Your friends Your personality They resented you for that So everything that you have Everything that you achieve and obtain Will just make them hate and resent you even more If you become something better and greater They're not going to stop and accept that they were wrong The last thing they want to see is you getting more money and more friends It's just going to make them even more mad and frustrated They are resentful of anything that makes you free from their control Anything that causes you to not depend on them for your livelihood Because they see those things as a threat Your hobbies and interests being liked admired and supported by other people your money and possessions It destroys them it makes it difficult for them to control you So no matter how much you achieve and obtain They're not going to accept you They're not going to change their minds It's just going to make them worse than they were before So don't ever try to gain that acceptance Because they just want to control you They just want to maintain that authority over you So if you're becoming successful You should keep everything hidden from them You should only share it with people who support you Because it's not going to change how the narcissist feels about you Nothing good is going to come out of it And you shouldn't be doing it for them anyway You should be doing it for your future They shouldn't be involved in it Because they're just going to keep you off balance So don't display your achievements and success to the narcissist Stay away from them Continue on your path to purpose Fulfill your potential and go beyond the limits of your capabilities Thank you for watching I hope this video ends with you I hope this video ends with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coachingatlarksurvivor.co.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon