 very first tip to giving someone mind-blowing kind of lingus, you want to make sure that you take your time. Now, in order for the clitoris to truly get as sensitive as it's going to be, the clitoral hood needs to peel back, the area needs to fill with blood, and all of this can take some time, which is good for you, because you can take your time elsewhere. Now, arogenous zones are anywhere where there's a cluster of nerve endings. So for example, this is an arogenous zone, mostly where joints are connecting, but this, the general area, is a hotbed of arogenous zones. What's up, lovers and friends? If you have been craving more content from me that informs, inspires, uplifts your voice, and gives you tangible takeaways on how to have better sex and better relationships, well, you are in luck. I have a daily show called Sexology with Shambudram, only on Quibi. I'm about to show you an entire episode that we shot all about the G-spot, or as I like to call it, the G-region. Now, we are shooting well over 100 episodes of Sexology with Shambudram, and as of today, you can go and binge like 75 that have already aired, but first, I wanna get you up on some G-gain. Now, as a special note for this episode, I do wanna say that I use language like women and men, but what I should have said are people with vulvas, and those who want to pleasure people with vulvas. Enjoy. All right, team, so we're talking about the G-spot today. In celebration, I actually dressed up like a vulva. So, there we go. The G-spot is a highly debated topic, and a lot of people wonder if every woman has a G-spot. What do you think? I think it depends. I mean, we can't look into every woman's vagina, so you never know. My middle school health teacher told me the G-spot feels like a walnut. I've never had that personal experience. I'm sorry, what? The prostate is actually described as feeling like the walnut. Interesting. Because the prostate is a little bit larger, and it can get a little harder. The G-spot is often compared to the roof of your mouth, that rigid feeling there. Raise your hand if you touch your tongue, dear. I just did. It's not really the G-spot. It's really more the G region. Now, our genitals are rich with nerves, they're rich with beautiful parts, they're rich with tissue, and all these things can be pleasurable. So the G-spot can speak to either one, the clitoral legs, because the clitoris, as we know, is a lot larger than just that little button at the top. It can speak to the skeins gland, which would be the female prostate. It can also speak to the erectile tissue between your urethra and the vagina, and that erectile tissue between the urethra and the vagina can get really engorged with blood and become pleasurable to touch. I'm learning so much, you guys. I think it's crucial to not to think about it like it's confusing. Really, at the end of the day, we all have the same body parts are just organized in different ways. So if you think of the G region, so you've got that erectile tissue, that's like the shaft of the penis. You've got the skeins gland, that's like the prostate. Then you've got the clitoris, and that is like the penis. And the clitoris, again, is that long network that is shaped like a wishbone. So now it's not confusing, it's just organized in a different way. And stimulating it is all that frontal region. I'm sure you guys have heard the putting your fingers in and moving it towards the belly button. That's usually if you play around there, you'll get, you'll strike gold somehow. I'm sure some dudes and me included have trouble finding the G spot, but sometimes that's because I feel like the woman or whoever your partner is, maybe isn't comfortable enough, like vocalizing what they want, you know what I mean? Like, I love communication in bed, you know what I mean? So if I'm doing something wrong, tell me. I will say though, a lot of guys do get very sensitive when you critique them in the act. They tend to see it as something personal about them rather than, no, I'm uncomfortable. It ain't about you. I don't feel good right now. I will say though, Lindsey, I have had so many people sit in this couch. I've spoken to so many men and all of them really do say I want to be told. I think maybe the way you tell somebody can be the difference. You're doing it wrong. That's probably not the right tone in the bedroom. But you probably would say something like, oh, when you thrust shallow, it feels amazing. Oh, it's so good that pressure feels right. Do that again. So you can still guide the person without making it into a critique. I mean, I've also had women like take my hand and like move it like an inch though after an inch to the right, which is lovely. It looks lovely. It's like a Pac-Man game, like up, down, side, around. And I think it's important to note some people may genuinely not have that sensitivity there. Again, if that tissue is too thick, if the clitoris is way too far from the vaginal opening and you don't have a skeins gland, which women don't need a skeins gland, it's kind of like men don't need nipples. And so some people just didn't get it produced at that large amount that needs you to feel something. A lot of women who have a larger skeins gland have an easier time squirting, for example. So I think it's important to say if you've tried the gamut, you've played around, you've played with toys, you've done penetration, you don't feel anything, it may not be there for you. And that's okay. So what do you all think are the best positions to hit the G-spot? Definitely being on top, because for me at least, I feel like I have more control and I feel like the angle specifically just really hits it and just feels awesome. I think missionary for me. Missionary with closed legs, apparently is a holy grail of missionary for the G-spot. So next time just put those legs together. Yeah, see if that helps. Right and tight. It's so funny because like every time I come, like when if I squeeze my legs together, like I feel like I'm gonna come again. I don't know if you guys ever felt that before. Because you're squeezing the clitoris, right? Even after though, like after you're done. You can have multiple orgasms. Oh my God, I thought it was the only one. Not the only one would have multiple orgasms. I'm a one and done as well too. So I think it depends on the person. Rachela, she keep going. I gotta learn, yeah. She got time to kill. Has anyone had to help their partner find their G-spot? Yeah, 100%. I'm such a big believer in ladies having vibrators, guys having vibrators, cause I don't expect someone I'm sleeping with to find my G-spot if I don't know where it is myself. I love the equal opportunity, but just continue. I'm with it. If I could get myself there, I could just put my partner's hand exactly where I know I like it because, and it depends on the day. Some days I'm just wanting to do a fast and quick, clitoral orgasm. And a G-spot is a lot of like, you know, physical effort. So a vibrator I think makes things so much easier and so much more pleasure for both partners. So let me ask the guys, do you want guidance on how to find a woman's G-spot? Yeah, absolutely. I mean, it takes two to ten go, you know what I mean? So it's like, if you're trying to get off, like tell me, let's go, you know? Thank you so much for sharing your truths with me. And if you are watching this show and you are curious about the G-region, start to play around. Don't think of it so much as a spot, but a lot of beautiful possibilities that exist within the woman's vagina towards the belly button around the lower third area. When it comes to positions, try to prioritize that in your play, but at the end of the day, finding a position that allows you to touch other areas might also be your go-to. And last but not least, if you do not experience enough sensation from G-spots, that's okay. Not everybody is gonna have sex the exact same way. It's about finding what feels good for you and playing in that space. Thank you for watching Sexology. We'll see you next time. And that's a sneak peek of our show. If you have any experience with the G-region, go ahead and comment down below. And while you're going down on me, make sure you make a pit stop on the info box because that's where you'll find the link to download the Quibi app. So you can get started on watching Sexology. Every episode is around five and a half minutes long and deals with a different topic having to do with sex, love, and relationship. So if you enjoyed that, then you're gonna enjoy me on Quibi and I will see you tomorrow and the next day and the day after that. And also the day, as you can see, it's a daily show over there. So we're gonna spend a lot more time together. What was your first prostate experience? Just a cucumber and a prayer.