 When you can't take any more the narcissist does this And how many of you? You've been through a lot with the narcissist You've been through all of these things You've been through the love bombing the manipulation The devaluation and it went back and forth a lot of times and then you were discarded And you were hoovered And that went back and forth a lot of times as well and Yeah, at some point you couldn't take any more You got fed up They drained all of your energy And maybe all of your resources as well you felt like you were down and out It was all over for you or at least That is what you might think If you are dealing with a normal person Someone who knows when to stop Someone who has empathy and they recognize when They see that you just can't do it anymore many of you You may have been pushed to the edge Where you were in tears Where you may have even felt suicidal Where you just didn't even want to live anymore And you may thought that at this point Where you couldn't take anymore You may have thought okay Now they're finally going to get it now they're finally going to understand No When you can't take any more it is not the end In fact, it is only just the beginning Because by this point Now there is no incentive for them to act right You were doing all of these things for them the entire time and that gave them a reason to stick around and to Maybe not to treat you right but It wasn't as bad as it could have been They held back at times Because you were still able to do things for them You were still able to give them supply But when you can't take any more At that point you have nothing to give so They have no use for you Other than to just completely Annihilate you after that That becomes Their only purpose for you by that point and by that point there is no reason for them to hold back Because they know they're not gonna get anything out of you anyway They know that by that point you haven't got anything left to give and yes I know this may be hard for you to hear Many of you I know you may have been in this for 10 20 years You've been Through hell and back with this person and you'd like to think okay The entire time they just wanted me to give a little bit more and then a little bit more again And you gave more and more Until you had nothing left You gave all of your time Your entire day every day revolved around this person to where it was like you had no other purpose in your life They always came first They always had to be the number one priority So you invested everything you had into them All of your time energy effort and money and you think that once you've given it all Everything that you had You think that they're gonna go easy on you you think that They are going to suddenly take care of you and Nurse you back to health No, that's never Going to happen Not where they narcissist It's never going to end up like that And actually it's going to Injure them Yes, once you've given everything you've got and you have nothing left to give they're not Just going to suddenly realize that they were the cause of it and that they just need to treat you better No, that's going to injure them. They're going to see it as an attack on their life and They're just going to want to destroy you and in fact Despite everything that you may have invested into them. They're gonna pick it apart and And Anything that you were doing during that time no matter what it was maybe Some days you would take out an hour maybe 30 minutes To watch one of your favorite shows or to read a book or whatever it is that you like to do and And Maybe sometimes you spent money on other things Maybe just Basic things Essential things they will pick apart all of that and Then they will blame you and Say It's your fault Because you were spending your time energy and money on these other things instead of attending to them and The relationship That's how they're gonna see it in the end It's never going to turn out the way That you might think the way that you might expect if you were actually dealing with a normal person in The end they're always going to blame you It doesn't matter if you're laying on the floor Doesn't matter if you're dead and yes, I have experienced this in the past where Narcissists that I've known that Sources of supply ended up dead Yeah, they acted like they felt bad for them, but in the end they still blame them So even if you sacrifice your life for this person and You literally give hat everything you have It's not gonna make a difference it's not gonna make them see sense As I've said so many times before they cannot change They will always be this way And there's nothing that you or anyone else can do about that They don't have empathy Or they lack empathy and their narcissism overrides it And there's nothing that you can do to change that So yeah, of course, this is very important for you to be aware of Because it pretty much tells you that there is no light At the end of the tunnel There just isn't a lot of you may have thought that maybe there is that's why you stayed in it for so long That's why you gave everything you had But if you are actually dealing With a narcissist or just anyone who lacks empathy and they're unable to check themselves Because at least with someone who is Mildly narcissistic, maybe they have Just two or three traits A person like that. Yes, you can get them to see Sense you can get them to see your perspective and At times They may seem self-absorbed. They may seem like they lack empathy, but if you check them if you confront them They're not gonna twist it on you. They're not gonna get mad. No, they will actually Self-reflects and listen To what you are saying I'm not talking about those types of people I Am talking about real narcissist the ones where No matter what you say to them no matter what you do. It doesn't change Anything no matter how long you've been with them those types of people they're never going to change And it doesn't matter how much you give to them You're never gonna get anything back Never If you do If they do manage to reciprocate back to you Something of equal exchange something of equal value And this is consistent over a long period of time There is no possible way that you were dealing with a narcissist if that is the case Maybe it was someone who was narcissistic But there's no way that that was a narcissist So yes, these are important points to keep in mind and I'm not saying this to crush anyone's hopes or dreams. I'm just saying this to Put it out there so that People who see this will be able to protect themselves Because you do need to be aware of this You do need to know that yes There is no light at the end of the tunnel if you are dealing with a true narcissist There's not going to be any empathy for you any consideration any Compassion any understanding They're only ever going to see things their way And it is their way or the highway just checked into this new room. It's quite late here tonight But of course I knew that There would be people waiting for me to put a video out So despite how tired I am I Knew I had to get on here and share this message. I don't always enjoy doing videos so late at night But I do often look back at my older videos and I Can see that I have made some pretty good videos at night as well So I thought I would give it a go and put out this message. I think it's been Pretty good, but let me know what you think down in the comment section Little balcony here for Nala to go out She likes being high up and as you can see I am somewhere In this City I know some people probably wouldn't appreciate This view so much But it doesn't bother me. I actually like it seeing the cars Going up and down It makes me laugh sometimes Got the Mercedes Benz car garage there AMG As you know, I've shown a lot of those in my videos always a fan of Mercedes German cars And I do like Japanese cars as well Toyota and I also like English cars too But yeah, as you can see we are just Enjoying our travels Just chilling out Relaxing in this room tonight Having a good time Just gonna have a shower And then we're going to Get into bed and get some sleep Just me and Nala So yeah, that's all we're doing Just making the most of every day Just enjoying the travels Of course, as you probably know, my Number one priority is my work this channel My studies, my research Putting out this information Whether it's on my website or my YouTube Or on my TikTok That is my main mission in my life And Yeah, it's one of the things I enjoy the most always being fascinated With these types of things. I don't know Why exactly it's probably because It's difficult for me to understand Well, at least it was a long time ago Of course, there's still some things I don't understand, but I'm learning new things every day But yes, I have always been Very fascinated with the human mind and psychology And also spirituality my entire life since I was a child I've always been fascinated by it and I've always been fascinated by narcissists All kinds of narcissists I've always Tried to help them, tried to help their victims as well And tried to understand them. This is something that I've always tried to do My entire life. It's just something I've always been Very curious about and despite everything that I've learned over the past five years That hasn't changed at all. I'm still Just as fascinated about it as I was When I first begun the channel five years ago and I think it was back in March February or March 2018 That's why I was searching about energy vampires on YouTube watched a few videos and Then I learned about narcissism from Sam Vaknin That was in March 2018 and then as many of you know, I began the channel just a few months later In August 2018 So yeah, it's just a couple of weeks now. It's going to be the five year anniversary for the channel I'll have to do something special for that. And yeah, I'm just so proud of this community My work everything that I've accomplished It really is something To look back on, you know what I look on my old videos and yes, even the older videos I am very proud of those as well. Some of them are quite Simple and basic But even now when I look back, I can't believe just how right I was Even back then Even when I was First stumbling upon this information So it just shows that I kind of knew this stuff all along. I was already ready to Put out this information from the very beginning and I'm so glad that I did Even though at times I felt like maybe I'm not ready. I Remember I ordered this 20 pound microphone from Amazon and I was just sitting on my couch with my laptop Setting up the microphone Recording and listening to my voice Which I didn't really like so much at the time and I don't think I ever imagined that Tens of millions of people around the world Would be listening to my voice every day. I don't think I could have ever imagined that and also to be Doing live videos like I am right now and right now we've got 80 people watching this And yet I am able to speak so authentically and Confidently and it's just completely natural for me It really is at this point Although it wasn't back then So you see when you practice something every day Believe it or not. It actually becomes a part of your identity It really does Now that can either be a good thing or a bad thing it depends on what you're practicing of course But as long as it's something good then Yes, I'm sure I will help you and it will help other people too and Yeah, that's what this is all about. That's what I promote That's what we should do That's what we've got to do and I hope that you will help me to Spread this message and get this out there and you can do that by sharing the video Giving it a thumbs up down below that all helps. So yeah, that's it for this video. I Just like to thank you all for joining me as always. I appreciate the support and I will talk to you in another one very soon