 What if I were to tell you that I have a girlfriend? And let's say after you got over the initial shock of me actually being in a relationship, I mentioned to you that we only talk about once a week. I mentioned to you that I try to read her texts every morning, but most mornings I decide to do something more productive. I have a lot to do after all. And what if I were to tell you that when I'm with my single friends, I act like I don't have a girlfriend at all. In fact, I hide it. To be honest, I'm kind of embarrassed by her. I mean, if I'm honest, I'm really only with her because of what she gives me. I don't really enjoy spending time with her. I just like her gifts. I hope you agree with me in saying that this is a toxic relationship. Unfortunately, this is what our relationship with God often looks like. Still don't understand? Think about it this way.