 You know, pickiness might look something like this, you're five foot two, and I refuse to date someone who's under six foot two. That's being picky, given that only 2% of the male population is over six foot two. That'd be an example of picky. I'm not big on expectations, but I am big on standards. For example, actions matching words. That's a big standard for me, actions matching words. I'm also a big fan of people who have victor consciousness and not victim consciousness. A lot of people are suckling on the nipple of victim consciousness. That's a standard I prefer that be met. I'm not big on expectations, but picking this is like, okay.