 What's going on, you guys? So, seven traits that women find irresistible. Now, you know in life that there are different women of all shapes and sizes who probably have different preferences. However, the things that I'm going to give you in this video I've seen are pretty unanimously attractive to women. I've been working as a dating coach for a long time and these traits, I've never had one woman come up to me and say, oh, I don't like that or oh, that's definitely not it. If a guy has that, that's not for me. Pretty much unanimously, I get a positive response when I bring up these traits around women. These are the kinds of guys that they're looking for to date, sleep with or even marry if that's what you're looking for. So, let's get into the first one. All right, the first one is going to be unshakable confidence. Now, when I mean unshakable confidence, I mean, you don't get thrown off easily because let's be real, we throw around confidence all the time. But unshakable confidence means you don't lose it that easily, okay? There's going to be situations in life. There's going to be problems. There's going to be things that come out of nowhere. There's going to be even times where the woman that you're trying to date will do this intentionally to you. She's going to try and throw you off your game. And if you get thrown off your game, if you let these things bother you, if you let these things upset you where you start overreacting, where you start overcompensating and acting insecure, that's going to show her that you're a guy who's not very confident. So, when these things happen, sometimes in the old pickup community, they call it a shit test, the way to pass that test is to basically not get thrown off by it. To stay the course, maintain that cool, calm, collected smile, and then just keep moving on with life. Like that is the kind of thing that women really enjoy seeing in a guy is someone who doesn't get thrown off easily. That's unshakable confidence and that's an irresistible trait. Two, driven towards a purpose. If you're a guy in life who's going somewhere, that is going to be seen as extremely attractive. There are a lot of men, and some women, if you're watching this video, you probably dated them, where they literally just wake up, sit on the couch, watch TV, and they're heading nowhere in life. Maybe their highlight of the week is going to the bar and drinking beers with a couple of their buddies, and that's really all they have to look forward to. And yeah, sure, if you're young and you're a little bit lost, it's fine to do that, but just so you know, you'd be a lot more attractive if you were heading towards something, if you had some sort of goal that you were going towards. And look, you don't have to be the best in the world. You don't have to be just trying to make as much money as possible. You don't have to be the world champion of whatever, but you know, have a creative endeavor. Have something that you're heading towards. Have like a goal or something that you like or something that you want to improve in. If you're heading towards those things in life, if you're moving the relationship in a certain direction, that's something that women are going to find irresistible because any guy who's just staying put, who's not going anywhere, is not seen as attractive, but a guy who's heading towards somewhere, that's someone that women can picture themselves being with. Okay, so if you're not doing those things, well, expect to be resisted. Number three is attentive or your ability to pay attention to someone. How well you listen to them, how you make them feel when they're talking to you. Politicians, like Bill Clinton, for instance, I brought him up numerous times on my channel. He was one of the best at this. If you look at the way he looks at people when he's talking to them, how he listens to them, it makes them feel like the only person in the world or the only girl in the world who wouldn't want to be talking to a guy like that, who wouldn't find that irresistible. So when you're talking to someone and you're paying attention to someone, it doesn't matter who it is, give them the time of day and you're gonna be seen as more attractive. I was on a date a while ago and I remember I walked up to the counter and there was an older lady who was trying to talk to me about something. I don't really remember what it was. But the point is, is she was trying to talk to me. She was like, oh, young man, she's saying something. And I leaned down, I looked at her, I smiled, I nodded my head, I showed her that I was paying attention to her. And then when she finished, she left and I went up and I got the napkins that I wanted for the tables, came back, put them down. And then as soon as I sat down, my date looked at me and she goes, wow, it was really, really cute the way you were talking to that older woman. Like, that was really nice. And I was like, oh, okay, I didn't even notice, didn't even occur to me. But you have to see how paying attention towards other people, making them feel important is an irresistible quality. Not just the person that you're paying attention to, but please, obviously, if you're dating someone, you should pay attention to them. You should give them the proper attention that they deserve. And that's gonna make you into a more irresistible person. Number four is positivity. So, and especially high energy too. So what I mean by this is people love positive people. And now there's this kind of like, I guess, trope or archetype that we've gotten from the 80s, like the 80s action stars like Clint Eastwood or whatever that just like never smiled or never laughed or really showed any sort of like positive emotions. They were just serious all the time. And some guys think that that's like what all women want. It's just not true, okay? People wanna be around positive people. Like laughter, like smiling, being able to give positive energy towards other people. I find that low energy negative people, they never do well with women. I'm a guy who's telling you right now, like I have angry eyebrows, okay? So if I look angry all the time, yes, some people think it's interesting and intense, but most of the time it does not help me. But when I smile, when I show that positivity to those people, then they like me that much more. Okay, post a picture on your dating app of you smiling versus if you're dead serious and see the results almost unanimously. People are gonna be choosing the smiling picture a lot more than the very serious, very negative ones. So if you're including a lot of negativity in your life, I encourage you to take the positive route because that's gonna make you a lot more friends and it's gonna make you more irresistible to women. Number five is integrity. So you basically do what you say you're gonna do, okay? A guy with low integrity, not seen as attractive. I don't really think I need to spell this out too much, but sometimes it can get confusing, especially if you're a younger person, okay? Because people are very wish-washy, they don't really know what they want and there's not as much responsibility going on when you're younger as when you're older. So the older women get, the more they're looking for this quality, but even for younger people as well too. This is a very important thing because subconsciously at a biological level, even though they might not be thinking this outright, what makes a guy attractive is, is he going to be a guy that can protect me, that can raise a child, that can be around when things get tough. Those kinds of things are very important. And if you're a guy of low integrity, you're not showing those qualities. So even if it's someone that you're meeting initially, if you show poor integrity, that's gonna be seen as very, very attractive. You don't do the things that you say you're gonna do. You say you're gonna show up at a certain place and do something and you end up not doing it. You end up doing something completely different, okay? That is low integrity and that's not seen as attractive. Thing six, playfulness, flirtatiousness, just having that confident sexual energy about yourself. This is basically game, all right? I've talked a lot about this on this channel. How to turn a conversation from being this platonic friendly, okay, with just an acquaintance to basically possibly even a sexually arousing conversation. This is something that's playful. This is adult play. If you're looking for a guy who does this perfectly, I recommend you check out some of Russell Brand's interviews like those. Sometimes he goes a little, he goes a little crazy with them. But if you're looking for a guy who exudes masculine energy, although he might not look that masculine with his decor and his appearance, that is the guy that you wanna check out. Now, this is not something that everybody can do and that's totally okay. But if you practice being playful with others, if you practice flirting, you're gonna get a lot better at it, okay? So I have tons of videos where I talk about how to do this exactly. So if you wanna check out some of those, I highly recommend that you do that. But just start practicing in your everyday life being playful with people. That's how you start flirting. Number seven, ability to take charge. This is gonna happen a lot in life. There's gonna be a situation that happens and it kinda relates to the first one that I was talking about with the unshakable confidence. But your ability to handle situations, especially when they get tough, is seen as extremely attractive, especially to women. I don't know if you've ever dated somebody for a while or been in a relationship where the woman, like, something happens, something crazy happens and she will look to you, she will grab your arm, she will do something to indicate that you need to take charge right now. And if it's just as simple as, okay, baby, get behind me, or hate, let's get out of here, or hate, let's do this, that ability to take charge is going to mean the world to her. But if you're not able to do this, you don't step up, you chicken out, or you get scared, or you start getting insecure about it, or you start looking to her to figure out what to do, that's not gonna be seen as attractive, okay? As men, we have to step up when the time counts. We gotta be the leader in certain circumstances and that's just part of the game. So you have to be able to do this at certain points in time and if you're not able to do this and you chicken out, then you're gonna be seen as someone who's much less attractive, but a guy who can step up when the time is right, who's not afraid, that guy is irresistible. So it's okay, and by the way, it's okay to be scared in those situations too. You can be scared, but what I would encourage you guys to do is be brave, be courageous. Those are the kinds of things that women are looking for. A guy who's brave and courageous because if you're not those things, if you can't face your fears, then that means she's gonna have to face them all the time. She's gonna be taking care of two children at this point. Not something that she's looking for. Cool. All right, you guys, those are the seven qualities. If you have all of those or if you feel like I missed any, put them in the comment section below. Would love to see. This is something I coach guys on on the regular. So if you wanna get access to some of my free trainings, I recommend you click the links down below. Thanks a lot, y'all. Good luck out there.