 Whenever I die, I don't want any f***ing reds. Not in any area of my life. And dude, we're gonna create our own f***ing life. In anybody that don't like it, f*** them. So... It's a big part of your brand, you know, always telling the truth. Yeah. Now, what do you do in situations where the truth will really hurt that person? Well, the truth sucks. But give me an example of like hurting them. Like hurting them like in a bad way or hurting them as in I can hurt their feelings. Because listen, if I was being a d*** to my wife and you're like, Hey dude, you're being a d*** to your wife. I'd be like, dude, what do you mean? No, dude. Like your wife, like you're being a d*** to her. Okay, like if you want her to treat you good, you need to be good to her. That's how this works, man. You guys are gonna keep running down this road. You're gonna get into abortion and look back, you're gonna regret it. Why the hell did you marry her anyways? Hey, there's an old saying that says, if you treat something like it's the beginning, they'll never be an end. Okay, remember day one when you all met? You're just dying to f***ing take her to dinner, take her to lunch and press her? Yeah, but like, come on, man. I mean, you're used to skip heartbeats and s***. You used to have that crush. Bro, that's the reason why you guys are fighting. You forgot about all that. You taking that for granted, man. Is she uglier now? Is she not cool now? No, she's the same person. Dude, you lost your perspective. Go back and treat her like it was the beginning. I promise you guys, we'll be back and love tomorrow. Okay, like that's the truth. Or I could just be like, oh man, I can't believe she's treating you that way. See, that's the world. Dude, if you had food on your face right now, would you want me to tell you? Yeah. I guarantee you this. Do me a favor. Put some food on your face and go walk around and see how many people won't tell you. Most people won't. Yeah, no, I'll f***ing tell you. I did you have s*** on your face, man. Like, I want you to know that I give a s*** about you and as awkward as it is, I want to tell you so I can make you better or I can help you out. Like, dude, I want to be around people that don't walk on eggshells when they're around me. I'm not better than you. Dude, I have no title higher than you. It doesn't matter how much money somebody has or what they have. Dude, it's like, dude, are we brothers? Are we really in to help each other? If we are, come on, man, let's tell each other the truth. So when you say, tell people the truth, what I believe is the reason why people in this world are all getting f***ing soft and being pussies and falling apart and being f***ing victims is because no one is telling them the truth. And what I've learned is that I tell people the truth in the beginning, they don't like me, okay? But then they go look in the mirror. They get over their pride, their ego and their entitlement and they realize that I'm f***ing telling them the truth. Hey, I don't want to be right. I just want to win, okay? So if you have the same goal as me and you want to win, at some point you're going to look in the mirror and say, hey, this guy was telling us the truth. So you change. And then they become my greatest fans because they're like, man, hey, this is right, man. Like everybody's been lying to me. Dude, I'm telling you, bro. We need more of the truth. That's all we need. So there's a guy that lives here locally. His name's Bradley, right? Three years ago when I started my business, I got close to him. Bradley goes, I'm gonna give you the greatest advice ever. If you want to really stand out, if you want to really be different, if you want to be in this game long-term, be really who you are. Don't go f***ing shoot content. You are the content. As you keep recreating, as you keep getting better, as you keep growing, that's the f***ing content. And by the way, he's like, be real careful about watching a lot of other people, okay? Cause you don't want to sound like them. You're you, you're who you are. Okay? I know nobody may not like you today. It's because you ain't really done nothing yet. Okay? And by the way, they need credibility. They need to see you grow over time. You got to keep getting better. And once you keep getting better, like it's exciting to see people that you can see in front of your face truly transform and grow. Cause then I'm like, well, f*** dude, if they did it, then I can do it. And by the way, who do you want to be around? People that have done it. You know, anything that you want right now, what are you going to do? You're going to go find somebody that has been where you want to go and that's who you're going to learn from. And that's why when you transform as being an influencer and you do greater or in any area of life, it inspires everybody to want to do more. So I can tell the truth. My family is 350 to 500 pounds. They're most of them are on their second stomach surgery. So when I talk about like, don't be fat, like I understand this. Okay? I'm a fat guy inside. I will eat boxes of pizza all day long. If I do, I know what's going to happen. I'm going to hate myself. I'm going to be just like the rest of my family and everybody who told me I wasn't going to f***ing make it is exactly right. And I refused 10 years from now for people to sit back when I f***ing quit and I gave up and then f***ing laugh at me and say, hey man, that guy got close, almost made it, you know? No ways, man. I'm going to burn their f***ing eyes out with my winning. I'm going to burn their eyes out with changing the world and I'm going to become something everybody else that I couldn't have. Dude, I'm telling you that f***ing fuels me when people tell me I can't do sh***, it fuels me. Hey, don't trigger me. It f***ing fuels me and I put that sh*** in the bag and I'm telling you, dude, when I feel tired and I don't want to get up or I haven't f***ing slept in days or I'm building something great, dude listen, I just take a little bit of that out of the bag, man. That sh***ing gets me back in the game because I'm going to f***ing prove them wrong, dude. I'm not letting them f***ing prove me wrong. I'm not going to let them win. Yeah, so, hey, everybody has an edge. You got to figure out what fuels you, okay? You know, and that's what fuels me, man. Sounds like you really figured out your why, your purpose. Well, I know me. See, most people don't know themself. Like, you're good at talking to everybody else, but a lot of people really don't spend time on themself. Every morning for an hour and a half I go to the gym. I f***ing work on me. Hey guys, what's going on? It's Andy. A lot of you leave comments telling me that you need help. Do me a favor. I'm going to tell you the best way to get a hold of me. Shoot me a text message right now, 918-210-0254. 918-210-0254. I'll help you with whatever you need. I got your back for life. Let's get back to the video. I work on my mental health. I know this is the reason why a lot of people are mentally broke. If you drive around and you look in cars, everybody's on their phone. Everybody's watching social media. They're on a podcast. They're trying to figure out who they are. I know who I am. I work on me for an hour and a half every morning. I f***ing know my darkness. I know my weakness. I know my points. And my mental toughness gets strong because I work on me in the gym. And then when I leave, I bring good sh** to my family. I bring good sh** to my clients, my customers, myself. I'm in a better mood all day long. I know who I want to be and I have to reset every f***ing day. So I know what my why is. I know what my purpose is. I want to change people's lives. I want to be the best at whatever I do, right? I work from a state of madness. You know what I mean? I want to get my family a lifestyle I never had. Also, man, I want to f***ing win, man. I'm sick of f***ing losing. I don't want to lose anymore. And I'm ready to die. At any point in time whether I live a long time or now, whenever I die, I don't want any f***ing regrets. Not in any area of my life. So I'm just like, dude, let's go hard, right? So I said, go to bed tired, right? Wake up f***ing starving. If you don't go to bed, dude, the second I lay down, I'm out. I'm out like a light. I've grinded so hard. My eyes are bloodstained because, dude, I've literally, and people say, well, that's not healthy. Hey, dude, I'm pretty f***ing healthy, okay? But my point is, is that when you start maxing in, I mean, why did God make us to be able to even do this? You know what's unhealthy? It's f***ing living to the end of your life, right? Being comfortable, being put in a corner, being fed three times a day, had no f***ing problems. And then sitting on a bedpan saying, I wish I f***ing woulda. I wish I could, man, f*** that, dude. I'd rather live another 10 years, go hard as hell and be a legend in my family, change as many people's lives as I can. My life actually counted. Dude, imagine this if your life didn't count. You just showed up, you did it and it's over. No ways, man. Live a life that f***ing counts. It's not about how long you live. It's about if you really lived. That's it, man. So, hey, I'm telling you, dude, my eyes are blood-stained. I mean, one time in my life, like, hey, get these lume-fied drugs, I'm like, dude, they don't work. I am, and by the way, you know what it is? I'm chasing a dream. I'm chasing a dream. You know what my dream is? Is that if I can do it, so can everyone else. So I'm just gonna f***ing keep chasing all these people down and we're gonna call our own shots. We're not gonna be crowd pleasers. We're not gonna kiss anybody's ass. And dude, we're gonna create our own f***ing life. And anybody that don't like it, f*** them. Look, I don't hate you. One day, you're gonna come around. One day, all of our haters end up being our biggest fans at some point, okay? They all do, man. So that's why I would tell you that if you really have a good heart, two things, have great intentions and have a great heart. And if you have a great heart, by the way, I wanna tell you something. If I tell you the truth and I don't have a good heart, like, you know I don't have a good heart. Like, I'm telling you because I'm being a f***ing, man, you're fat, man. No, listen to me. Dude, your children are watching you. Like, dude, like if you don't get healthy, your kids aren't gonna be healthy. And I know that sucks, but I know that your kids are the most important thing to you in your life. So let's be a good example, okay? Dude, if one of your kids got diabetes when they were older because their parents let them eat whatever they want, how would you feel? Let's make a change now. Okay, like that's the truth. And you know my heart's in it and I got good intentions because I care about your family. That's why I'll tell you. If you got good intentions and you got a great heart, you can be this leader that can tell people the truth. Hey guys, that's what I wanna tell you. You're the true one percenters. You made it till the end of the video. Do me a favor, share it with the friend that wants to go to another level. Make sure you like the video, comment below so I know who you are. Set your notifications and then subscribe to the channel. We got daily sales training videos dropping. I'll see you soon.