 Ya, we are okay. We are doing good and as I said, tukosawa and everything is fine. I can't say we are together or not together but everything is fine and you know, I thank God like everything went okay and it got really sheenie. And that has to see when you have to come to watch. Actually on our TV, to look what you can, you know, Google something like Abiyabuji and Google like Hukui West and you find all those sheets and I'm like, it's very disappointing, you know, because with social life, people don't know who you are exactly like. Aiyo mma wipimpezi, tizamadio SPMB is 2023 lukwambia awali tu kiazam mambu zaki pekei. So naza gumzi, exclusive interview mba wutu eza kui yona kumiyaka na miaka. Nimi mfatili eza na palikon yam tandao from the streets of Kitale to United States of America. Naza gumzi, abuji mba mma toka na Nairobi kwen daku sumali, shidrimiyake nambaka lohi ameza kuru dne mimpek life ya watu. Kimona panimre mba mba na pendeka, ame kubalika kaziake na uzanaleo, zungumza nae tu jomaisiake, ilkua wipi, janea kembaka lohi me kua wipi na familiar kemi kua wipi. Abuji, welcome back to Nairobi, welcome back home and welcome mostly on ASPM bars. Thank you so much, thank you for, I mean, warm welcome, I'm really very much grateful. Ulu kumimisi nini? Ugarli. Ugarli na ni? Ugarli, ugarli si na kuhu. Na kuhu ya kenyeji. Kamam, tizamadio ASPM bars, nasa mabutapum ziki dogo taftamaji nini, nintuna ndiai exclusive interview kwa zia keshu media saanine satano utafraia. Mapema, do best, ame wipi. Sawa kabisa. Shikran sana. How do you feel to be back home? I feel great, I feel I'm in motherland so I really feel so great. And before you left to America, how was the feeling like now you're leaving Kenya to America? How was the feeling? I remember the first time I was leaving Kenya going to America. Firstly, I didn't think like U.S. is somewhere where we can explore and I mean yes, some good things over there. I thought U.S. is just like Qatar, like Europe countries and all those countries. I can name them like Saudi Arabia and you know how people think and people are being taken care of and complaining about some issues. So I was so nervous about it. Say it was a chance, not even a chance but it was a luck, good luck anyway. I never thought about America. I wanted to go and study outside the country but not in the U.S. of course. So I got a green card and you know a green card, it just came. I didn't know what a green card is. My friend just asked me to apply the green card and I applied the last day and I won. So after winning the green card, it took me a few months for me to accept to go to another country because I was so proud because I used to lose my funds and everything. So when the guy told me like come and see you have won the green card, I was very, I mean, I took it a different way because I just knew losing funds and all that stuff. Maybe this can be a coin person or whatever. But now he was a nice person who really took me through the application for the visa and I mean for interview and all that stuff and I went. So after going there now, that is when I find out that it's a very different thing compared to I mean Saudi Arabia and other countries that I actually hear about. So the place was nice for the first time because people were driving as a like a car was like a basic. So I and it really inspired me like oh how am I going to be driving all in these roads and all that stuff. So and also people are having I mean they were having like more than two jobs which was very I mean different in Kenya but I was really struggling and trying to sell some air tail lines and safari kum lines along the Mojave new area. So it was so inspiring. How was the reception in America? The reception was nice and it has been nice even up to now but I don't like the weather. The weather really changes too fast especially when it's very hot summertime and when it's very cold I mean winter time but the place has been very nice. Abhi you've been sharing your experiences with the people living in Kenya sometimes and maybe what we're doing here in Kenya when we're living in the US any one of us has a life. Sometimes we're not able to do anything. Maybe we're feeling homesick. Sometimes when we're living in the US we spend most of the time on the internet or on the experience. Is it because you're homesick and you enjoy your experience with the people living in the US? Number one is social life in America is not that much as in Kenya because that's your social life Kabisa. You tend to come from work and house and house school work you know unha zungu kia tuwa up so it's very hard that unhendakutem belam to like a friend I'm looking for a friend and I have to go for an appointment just a friend I'm going to unhendakutem belam unhendakutem sangati 4 if it's not 4 okifika 430 I waited for you and I didn't see you so it's not as easy as in Kenya where we have social life like we communicate with people also when you go to shoppings and all that stuff we tend sometimes some things are not they are generally done different as in Kenya you can be served you can serve yourself while maybe doing some shopping you can serve yourself and I mean pay and go like gas you can put gas on yourself compared to here like unhendakutem belam but up people as much okendekutem belam so some things are totally different at some point did you feel like maybe life is not good it's difficult because now a few you've said okendekutem belam okendekutem belam and compared to Kenya okendekutem belam now you're getting tired of that life feel like you should come back home the only thing that makes someone get tired is when now you sometimes you can work a lot and that money is not there you work day you get paid tomorrow and money has vanished or maybe sometimes you can be all at home like me whenever I'm there and I find the number like 254 someone calling me more than twice I feel so nervous and I'm like no who is this calling me this is an emergency at home maybe it's 2am at night or 3am I have to wake up and you know and call back and see who is this calling me I just want to say hi so that is sometimes it really makes someone feel like I want to go back home especially when you find a call of someone who is sick and you find a call of someone maybe died you feel like you want like when I was there first time friends died those corona times my friends died I have neighbors and other people who died so you know you feel like I want to go I remember the last time when I came I was putting flowers in different people because I lost the beloved ones and you know yeah Abuji let's talk about your adaptation in America because understand when you left Nairobi you had your dreams you wanted to achieve so and so you wanted to go to university you wanted to live now the American dream yeah I really wanted to achieve a lot and I thank God that I have really compared to what people say I would like my whole community like in my community I think I'm the only one who has who is in the US which is very I mean like it really takes people to feel like okay they want to come to the US too and they don't know I went with the green card they just know I studied really good and I got a maybe to do a PhD master's in the US which is not true but the thing is that the adaptation in the US has been really good because what I have achieved in the US as compared to when I was home because number one thing that I wanted really to achieve is to build my mom a very big mansion and I mean that was the first the first thing that I did even before I got my first car so I remember my first car I worked in Amazon which is Amazon is like a supermarket you have to stand and you know putting things in the pallets and all that stuff so that was my first job I did that was in Amazon and it really paid me it pays good but it's so tiresome people don't like it so some people they were like why did you go to Amazon for three months, four months people go there like two days in the pitch but I stayed there for almost three months and that was the first job that gave me the first car so I bought the first car which was also really I mean people say like how can you buy a car of because the car is almost like 3,000, 4,000, 5,000 for the person who is coming to drive it for the first time because you know you don't have money so I bought a car of around 4,600 which was really good I honestly like God I sit with it for the first time when I was driving but that was the first thing I achieved building my mama mansion which was really good because when you come back to my home I came from a very lowly background the background that people cannot understand because it was very lowly and I wanted to achieve more especially taking care of my parents I mean what are some of the challenges you faced in the US because we understand in every place everything that you do there must be challenges what are some of the challenges you faced? I mean sometimes it is long less because you feel like you want to have your beloved one like mom and dad and other families and people that you love but now you come from work and you come home and there is no one and you just sleep give a call and video call and all that stuff that's the number one thing that have been a very big challenge number two I mean I like being born and as an African lady I thought maybe washing clothes and doing other things like you know how shows they have to you know kwee nama na kufanya but it really sometimes when I come home and I come home and I come home because I feel like I came home and sometimes when I wash the clothes I mean in a in a wash or maybe in a dry or dry the clothes I feel like haji jangara those are some of the challenges but challenges kubua I can say no because it's a very busy place that you really need to work hard every single day Abuji let me take you back a bit I understand you come from a very humble background you know you being the first person in your community to go to America to live the American dream do you remember the first that night when your parents were with you at the airport the last one maybe they told you the inspiration the message that keeps you going up to now because understand you so well for your community my parents they never knew more about America but I have a friend who had applied for me the green card so he was invited in my party sendaway party when I was going to America and also he accompanied me to go to the US the guy I remember he told me like in the US you can work very hard every single day but now you need you need to take care of yourself especially you know people he was telling my mom and my dad like people will be arguing about money I'll be sending my brother money and I haven't sent my sister money so there'll be a quarrel of cash and all that stuff so he told me when I go there take care of myself number one is myself first before I take care of anyone any other person number two he said I can work minimal time I don't have to maximize because when I work like I'm going to work like 24 hours 16 hours then tomorrow I'm so tired and I work maybe 16 hours again then again I'm tired what happens maybe I can knock myself in a road accident on all that stuff and lose my life so he told me to just work very smart to make sure that little I get I can share but even if it's not right for me like if it's come and work 8 hours or if I'm feeling tired I don't have to I just have to work according to like PM Konangina Fika so that was the advice he gave it to me and my mom told me also he was like come back home and get married here so and he told us like he was like you know when you get married in Kenya you're going to invest in Kenya you're going to invest in Kenya and you'll have even visiting of course we have people who go in there and get married there and they just forget about their family you know yeah we know Africa to precise in Kenya we have a lot of culture what is that one culture shock that you saw in America that you don't have in Kenya and again how do you deal with homesick I mean I can say the one culture that I have encountered in the USA so far is the lifestyle like lifestyle especially in terms of I can talk about in terms of like making a family I have seen people who are like 90s 80s and they are called boyfriend and girlfriend come back to Kenya whenever you go to a mom's house and you stay there for a week then what is that that is marriage right but in the US you can stay with a man for 20 years 30 years even can have kids together and you call yourself boyfriend and girlfriend I work in a health care and I've seen people coming to visit their beloved ones and they are calling they say that 80s 90s this is my boyfriend this is my girlfriend not married so it's really amazes me because like in Kenya we say like you have to get married and you have to marry even when you stay with someone for more than a week more than 2 weeks parents will say that is marriage so you come and say marriage is it true that in the US you marry with contracts like contract marriage mostly actually some people they are like they want to get married like when you start a relationship your person will ask which relationship do you want do you want to stay I mean a long term relationship like getting married as couples or do you just want a lifetime like let's just be friends be friends and just courtship and all that or can I just do this and do this I have kids of course I have like 3 kids and you don't have a kid can we just have that friendship with benefit so mostly they will be asking you like which kind of relationship do you want are you ready for this so you have to be and whenever that thing comes out when you say maybe like the relationship will be like a long term relationship you have to add that to the whatever that is added from the first angle number 2 that is something that shocks me a lot in Kenya you can as well I mean if you have like like let me say you have a boyfriend or girlfriend and you guys you have maybe misunderstanding and I can go in my boyfriend's house and just knock and say you know I have come let's talk and you know and can we have a talk or can we meet somewhere and have a coffee and talk but in the US now whenever someone says the relationship is done is done you can go in his house and say like you knocking and you asking for the second chance they will like I'm gonna call for you the police or maybe this I mean this area is under restriction for you coming in so yeah Abhi can you tell us ila kutoka kwenda US umesema yuwaki na in a healthcare facility how is the experience like and can you share I have seen online so much you really take your time to share with Kenyans how they can migrate to the US give them tips and maybe encouragement can you tell just share with Kenyans what kind of jobs may be good to do for Kenyans and how is your experience compared to jobs right here or at home Jobs are there and as the first person who can come in the US like the new come let me say that so kupuja maria kwanza of course you have to start from down I did my I did economy since I was in KU and graduated and um when I went there nikazakfanya Amazon Amazon nijobzan zanini zamkono so I started doing that and secondly I did I did in healthcare of course taking care of them I mean the old age doing just home care like maybe washing their clothes washing them taking care of them feeding them and all that stuff making sure that we change the diapers and all that stuff so it's only kupuja US kupuja US ways of what you see with job so mostly you have to to start from down so kunaizu jobs zam I mean kukutekia mashosh manyanyaz babuz you know kunaizu le jobs zaku fanyakuwa ya house like medical assemblies kunaizu le jobs at truck but now that one you have to be having maybe a DL na kukuru suku driver at truck I mean driver so kunaizu lot of jobs that you can do but mostly jobs mostly nizi jobs zaku linda wanyanya so to know I think that to know I think that to know to my best Kenya that is what we do and that was that was my second job I was doing taking care of them and I loved that because you know you keep on growing and all that stuff okay I'll be right now to be since you're any celeb ono kinga palia tiktoku kinga live people are really saying muna pata 1k watching 1.0 something watching maybe to kuna waka tushi ulia fikiri akwa skumodza utakwa inspiration kawa to when the politic tukamunga tubahali like people are really following you ulia fikiri ekitukamali no I never thought about that but I wanted to be to do medium that was my first I wanted to be and I wanted to be a nurse of which God have helped me in that but mostly I wanted to be like a midi you could find myself just talking to myself nikuwa na jipenda kujiongelisha and I used to do I mean some poetry wherever in school so nili kwa na penda kwa yasana you know it is a medium nili kwa na penda sana even when you come in my home I have a studio I have a small studio at my home so nili nili ndatu ni kasama okay I don't have a social life what I would do I have just I have a small studio some light ring lights and all this stuff I play sometimes keyboard anytime when I am free so nili nili sikuwa jwa that I can talk to someone someone can listen to me I never knew about that but whenever kuna time nili kuja I was talking about how to come to the US and how to apply the green card and that is when I felt like okay people really want to to explore life people really want to I mean to get a better life than the life I am staying so ni kanza kuwanbi about the green card about the visas that you can have most visas za kukuja US sila zi mamutua kujena green card sima zi mamutua walewe we have student visas we have I mean we have also I mean that green card visas we have visit visa wana za kuja puni tembele apia na muatuna kuja US puni tembele kama wanyu wazungu wa nakuza wazungu they come to Kenya kuja embe also PRCC tuni za kuja US kuja embe just come and get good money but you just have to know what you are coming to do and also you have to have tails like if you have a family at home oki wana ka leka yankid kana kuja embassy sometimes kana deny wa visa because wana juaka kata kuja tukabaki but you see kwa namutumu kumu like my dad ake umba visa kuna around 99 chances of him getting a visa because they know he can come back to I mean to the country abhi abhi let's talk about now your adaptation your transition now from Kenya you arriving in America trying to survive going through your your college courses leaving your dream becoming abhi because understand there is a big number of Kenyan community living in America maybe they impact your life in one way or another we? okay afuza jinda se manili because you know wana kuja kama kona wana kusapot waka kulea waka konesha hi hi jia hibina nafa wukainawa tushiri yani hibi barabara ni hibi I had a host who is Ibrahim Ibrahim Alini host by the way and I really give him thank him he is a hero to me because he really Alini inspire a lot gave me a job show me how to drive you know and all that stuff he has been a nice person in terms of hosting Welcome to Missouri and I really thank him so much whatever he is he ended up in Karebisha, U.S. and you know I can imagine this is how it's supposed to be done and this is this is now U.S. and this is you know it to be as a Kenya to watch a Kenya and using it to be as a U.S. you know he let me a kuchela I used to be where they are let come and he called a pedakutile job kabisa so I was 2 AM 2 AM 2 AM in Africa so I used to keep time now in number 2 honestly Englishia Kenya and I was I was floating a lot because he was really translating for me so I used to work together and go look for a job and he told me and I said I will do it and he said I will do it and he just said come up again so if that came up again it was too much but again again that courage he came up and you know I laughed it was it was that's the reason why I don't work when I'm talking English is one day I need to come together what is water and I need to come together what are you saying I don't understand what you're saying so I need to come together and say maaje CLA completely but so I just talk the normal English because the moment I talk I tell you what are you saying I don't understand what you're saying so English fail is hard I laugh I laugh I laugh I laugh there is a day when I was working I was going to work I lost almost like and I was using actually a GPS I got lost like almost the whole day almost the whole day there is a day when I was working almost 7 hours you can drive too you can drive too you can drive kupotea was like I never I could drive I could drive at the same time at the same time I was like who are you talking to because you have just kupoonga laugh forward so kupotea and the second the third thing also when I was working I felt like okay I can do it first day of driving was really crazy because I went you know in Kenya we drive with right hand so I went I went wrong way so I was talking to and I was like ma'am where are you going so I was talking to ma'am because by then when I got to work I was like what are you doing so I went to work I was like I was happy I was like I went to work so I went to work because I was serious so I went to work so from that day I was like oh this is a good idea so now you have gone to work by yourself and from then I started to drive when I was working Nimona you've been sharing a lot on social media as I said inspiring what I want to go in the US how has it been maybe for you life on social media in Kenya you've gained like a celebrity status that's what I want to be I want to post my name I want to do what I want I want to be happy I want to do what I want I want to do what I want I want to do shopping maybe what good thing I will learn from social media and maybe what bad thing I will learn social media is good but again at the same time it depends what you're doing on social media and I can say I'm one of the I'm one of the the person when you need to go on social media is not a joke you need to be very careful especially what you're saying what you're passing through and also what you're you know what you're talking with people you need to know what you're doing on social media what are you putting are you putting something that you know it's no social media doesn't forget and if you don't realize if you don't understand Kevin if you don't post your name as soon as it's over I have to pay you number one number one I have to pay you for you kwa itua and number two what was your share so someone have already shared and I cannot be able to kwa itua kwa itua aki for real itua ikitu in your na posifil po so that is again something that I also learned number three of land in social media in a negative way actually like in social media whatever that you post really tells a lot especially in personal life like actually tonight because I can talk about my my previous video actually I didn't want to talk about that but I can talk about that little bit because I remember when I went online and I was talking about this and this and this I thought people will be like oh this is what you about through I'm sorry about this no but now upon what was happening remember itua fana itua fana itua puzu na fanya you know you can as well talk is between injia ukon yuma and the river I thought maybe people like oh and this and this it's not all about brand but it's all about who are you I was like I am Abby but now this Abby is passing through this can I just share sounds like I could call mom and tell mom my shame and shame I want this and this but now these online people they'll come to your home others want to cook kungalisha kungalia what do you usually cook and all that stuff so I find it very hard because people they all kuni bombeleza by the way everyone was like inyupu zia bu na fanya and even my dad my mom they were siku jokama zito wafikiya zila wafikiya anda you know sometimes when you are okumad you can talk anything right so I was talking anything because I was really mad kungalia maybe kwa jikoni and I bring them maybe in the living room which was really I mean I mean I mean disappointing but you know that is a lesson too and that is the past though but it's a lesson that whatever that I pass through I want to pass through to people I mean kitu nyo inza fuza amtu you know and if it's something that I'm really feeling I want to do and this goes to everyone if you having something that you do because everyone has shortcomings I can say with my mom and my mom anafanya kitu nyo I don't have to bring kwa special life mamangu nyo anafanya evi na eviapana sometimes it was also your IQ ina ina ribu kila kitu okumad whatever you are sharing was all about you and Ibra and maybe you tell us relationship yako nye se ziko wipi kusawa yeah we are ok we are doing good and as I said to kusawa and everything is fine I can say we are together not together but everything is fine and you know we I thank God like everything went ok and it got really shini and as I said we need to come back to watch actually on our TV to come back now we Google something like Abiyabuji and they Google like Huku US and you find all those sheets and I'm like what it's nanzaku it's nanzaku cheka it's very disappointing because with social life people don't know who you are exactly like to be met nene leo meju habi nene but before then me una tu habis on the social media how do you habi anaka how do you habi anapitia life gani that's now people don't know about that and some people they even commend in Sibabu because maybe they are stressed up and they want to finish they are stressed up so if you are not strong you can even get depressed and all that stuff here ok outside that story Abiyabuji it's made me personally but I love to ask because of the fans they were saying maybe webendo we will come toxic now we want you to clear this at least we want it too because now Abiyabuji is here and Abiyabuji muna una kijibu ma suali she is so nice so kulinganabili ola kwa nase ma Abiyabuji nene leo meju habi what can you say about that I mean talking about toxic is a very is a very hard is a very big word but I can say I don't know how people rate me because people don't know me personal but I know the friends who know me and the friends who know Ibra they know what I was talking about so people from from social media I mean from the netizen they don't know who Abiyabuji is they don't know who Ibra is so for people who are who are around as like friends they know exactly who we are because upon you na kibiliangan na se mo we are not akunifanya ebi ni oko e so you see before we share how you want to na share now and how you want to so I can't say I'm toxic I don't know I cannot rate myself and I cannot give myself maybe a hand clap and say I'll be doing a good job people are the one who see me and you know and they say who I am and I I put off the funds so we never knew that that one can be a brand name and it become something nice until now what wakanzaku actually the the funds do what we want the word which was which was good but he's really doing good and one time he gives hapu is like I don't want to do anything anymore because when I do sometimes binyalkwan na sumasiji ma funds for limu limu saliti and all that stuff but he came up again as like no I have to do this because this is what I like doing and sometimes he will come even out from kwa nyumba na toka butuzaka na toka toa na enda so it's me I end the job and I postpone kwen na job and na kupiga ma video you know all that struggle of making videos to make the funds happy which really anapenda media kabisa anapenda media completely and ata binyalkwan na sumasiji sayzi post anything until 30 years I think he was just hungry but after that he came up again yeah I will raise again and I'm really much I mean happy that Akosawa kabi lemi ask you just in terms of content creation konele and I know there was that incident that happened there was a problem obviously e how do you feel that at some point maybe kuna watwali chupua maybe kwaile video kwaile video kwaia kwaia live waka waka it was even on classic 105 people were talking about it how did it feel how did it make you feel maybe I mean I couldn't CJ feel visuri hadi waleo because you know the funny thing is that media is funny people only take some funny things and it's funny something funny in yana chukua naipos so you know people who don't know you they will just they just come on your classic 105 it's really yana nashanga what is this like the whole narration that I just made wange chukua 2 only the akatu kwaike 2 this is a stinginess really you know it's like nashanga did I talk the whole like almost 5 I mean the live was almost 5 hours so did I take like 5 hours and talk about stationers or talk about something so kichinani sumuwasana is like why they don't talk something that I wanted to pass out that I was feeling like inanimu masana they take that dogo doona 2 man but now I came to realize now that is how media is because people maybe they want likes people they want comments people they want views so anasama inu poos because they don't know what it is exactly at some point did you regret maybe sharing that story yes I do I do really regret and I was actually telling my brother you know what I don't know what happened to me that day because I'm not that person who should talk a lot especially my personal life now so nearly I mean see never someone like I do regret kabisa because I wish I could call I mean his uncle and talk to them and also maybe I could call someone maybe at a kwa church kubu kwa church in Semeno I'm having this and can you help me and I think kwa to kwa poa sayizi and I could be you know everything could be fine we have ladies abi maybe the wana pitia the same thing what you went through your time and maybe wana shinda what you did do wana nyamaziya wana filua fanyanini mawe wa sayizi you know how to go about it you could at least advice the much they do maybe Muna kwa kwa kwa wana Hisuter L when Steve Sometimes when respect is in a cut of, then everything is just cut off Respect matters in wherever, relationship is everything You have a choice, you can say I love who is doing it, or you can quit so you can choose whatever you want to do I'm just fine. I'm just having homesick. But that was not the thing. The thing was life was poor. But now, I think that is the time. After that, when I came on live the second, I mean after a week, everyone was asking, why were you crying? People were commenting also in the comments. So that is the first time, when I got to personal life in the social media. Because even people are saying, kukuiwa samifanya yo kitu. So it was like, this is the time, when I came on live, when I came to a social life, and when I came on live, personal life was not in the social media. And I was like, I won completely. I used to warn me about personal life. Because sometimes I could be like, I could be saying things and I wanna, people ask like, wong or sad, I just wanna prove. I was like, why do you want to prove to people? So now, when I came to personal life in the social media, I mean I won for a long time. Some of the videos, some of the videos I made, because now I made those videos in a so personal zitoe. So in a zitoe, but even after short argument, so when I came on live, I was like, why do you want to be in the social media? Because if you want to personal life, if you want to personal life, you don't know even about personal life. But I think I lost some, I lost some track in the personal life which have really cost me a lot. Abilemi, just to ask you, because I know we are all human, as you say you have learnt from the mistake you made. Maybe has it affected you in your personal life, in your work life, in your relationships at home, maybe kawazazi, saizi maybe kuna mental issues, kuna hwana kutrol, maybe waliunga wibai. Has it affected you in any way and even in your personal relationship? Before then, yes it did. I was really much depressed. I was really much low. I wasn't even, I was sick when I got a job by the way. Almost like two weeks I never went to work. And I was just home. And what I think, jidukuana niwari sana in some videos that people are, they download, actually they downloaded the, I mean, I don't know how they record it. I don't see what you wanna find in it. I mean what is screen record. So they were just telling them come to Ndaho. So I was like, I wanna give it to them. So I was like, what is screen record? So it didn't come as it was. So that was the worry. And now I had to come back in Kenya to explain. Cause I couldn't be able to explain why in the US, I mean ma, this and this happened, you know, and this and this happened. But I thank God, they really, I mean, ma, they did understood and, you know, work on your level and we had a meeting, we talked as a family and, you know, yeah. My dad was like, unapenda social media, my brother, unapenda social media, yeah. If you love social media, then personal life keep off. Just keep off personal life. And you don't have to come even right now. As you can see, I've uploaded my videos for quite some time. Cause I was, I was like, okay, let me just cool down. Yeah. I just understand, for whatever what happened, now can you trust, can you trust in your friends? Do you have people you call friends right now? You're trying to keep your social life very close? I mean, ever since that thing happened, actually, I lost friends and I gained friends. I gained a lot of friends and I, I want to tell you that this girl called, I mean, Beauty Sol, Beauty Sol has been, has been the best friend. She's a really spiritual girl and she called me from nowhere. She's in Italy. So she called me and told me, can we talk? I'm like, son, it happened, trauma, but now the girl was really a nice girl and we talked a lot and we met together and we had a coffee and we talked. And you know, sometimes I was like, when I was young, when I was young, he was like, can we pray and then we pray just in the phone and we cry and we pray and we cry. So I gained friends, but I lost other friends. Yeah, whom I cannot even tell because I lost them because of some, like, they, I think they were waiting for my downfall. When someone who is just waiting for you to fall, because maybe you have been doing things that yeah, fani, sana wajatu ufo, and you know, sometimes, the reason why I lost them when I went to the comments, maybe took or uploaded a photo of me, I mean a post, when I like a post up and they're like, you know, this and this and this and this. Then you go to the comments and your friend, your friend just commenting bullshit, you know, a friend who is not even calling and telling me, are you fine? He ask you, friend, maya kuna nambayako, haizi kupige, kwa mbe, asha kumend, a man nda kwa groupia, ono nda kwa kwa groupia homes, you know, whatsapp group, unapatatu whatsapp group me pop up, then someone a kupige simu, a kuna nambayako, he doesn't call you, but now he goes go to the comments, haizi to sana gani anapana maybe, kama AM, ama emoji, loving emojis anacheka, you know, and you feel like mbona miskiya about kitu kama hi, mbona hezi kupige simu, aabi are you fine? Are you okay? I'm putting in mind, I'm in a foreign country, are you fine? Are you okay? Are you doing good now? So you want to catch what I'm like, okay, this is a friend who has my number. Mbona hezi nipige simu, you know, yeah. Do you think whatever happened ilikwa, everything happens for a reason, maybe God takayuki to happen to the kind of friends you have, right? Exactly, so yeah, sometimes I feel like I feel like just as in ok, as I'm fine, so I feel like maybe it was God's plan, but it could have been in a way, anyway. Now people have pasts, and you know, people have pasts and the first thing I wanted to have, I wanted to have to get you people as fans in a positive way. But anyway, I got some of them, my God, kuna yosu kunilipata a lot of followers especially on Tik Tok just because of that stuff. And I remember I was having like 36,000 followers and I got like almost 45,000, so around 10,000 people which was like, you know, I didn't want which is really sometimes in an frustrate cause I wanted to get followers in a positive way. Talking about Apokidoku, talking about friends kuna f reaching friends and maybe friend andera at some point and picks a troll and me and now at some point and figuring out very well how did you feel about some of the comments that he made maybe. Number one thing when before East Tokese ya niıjil niy probo b으a niyisha niyeh zaHome mto na eyesink свi family hasu ni isiki na nan me Ghil Hia bakio kwa maizukandu Sohinti kwama. Sohinti anapela? Yawa, hia inakutu. secondo kwa maizutu. Tmkadeh yawe ngeiao ita. Totei, ngeiiawe. Totei, na kutu kwa maizutu o kwa maizutu. Yawba mula napikiramia. Kwa miizutu. Ntaka, na kutu. Kwenye kuva kuva kujaan. Na kutu kwa maizutu. Ntaka, na kutu. Na kutu. Kuchene niya uzo Ame kwa kwa kufanyani ini Nifia kuji eggitewa na Iisha Tbh kwa kwa kwa kwa nifia kwa kwa Lasil When the year ends, you need to Una gianlase, una katsuna juli I hage nabijatizu Some of the things Tuntubu kwa kwa kwa kwa ala What I wanted to Me wande kwa ama Ii pili afirahoul Una kwa tela uzi Ii kwa anna nabibi Kwa wa tego kwa kwa wasa We see some people staying in a good life So, in the next five years, I'm seeing myself, I mean, basic in mind my past have taught me a lesson, so I feel like, I mean, focus. Ya ni kufokas too, kufokas is whatever that I wanna do, because these things they gonna come, you know. If it's a husband, atchakuza too. If it's a husband, kumuwa kupia 90 years, in getting married at 30, so if I need 90 to 30, you're staying with that person, so why should you be in a hurry? I'm, I tend to like lacha to ni, ni struggle kufanya witu zingine kwanza, so that when this guy comes, atata wana ni kitu ma pesa mingi nyu banya zemi, umzara nitu ma tu pesa nyu banya kwao, balla wu tu jiji jenge, so, ita fili vizuri kama ni ata nipata kama ni koredi, you know. I have my things and I have encountered my things, and the best thing that I wanna do is, I wanna finish school, of course I'm still in school, so untakanimalize shule and other things can follow. And just on that, I use maybe seeing yourself wuka in U.S., wufanya kazi, pege kazi, then you relocate back to Kenya, obviously na jokona green card, so when im tu wa wuko, na badu on im tu wa apa, do you feel uta fanya kazi, wu relocate ama life here kwa tu ita kwa ni U.S., Kenya uta kuna kujatu ku visit? Um, my plan is maybe in 40, life studies in 40, isn't it? My plan is in 40s, I feel like I wanna come to Kenya, kama ni misha fanya vitu mizuri, mizuri, you know, and I wanna come, I mean invest in Kenya, of course that's why I wanted to get married to a Kenyan man, because I wanna invest in Kenya, so that I want to come back home and do some things and in the U.S. na na tu vacation, wait for vacation fall, for some few months, some time of course na kuna joto, six times a winter to kid, she let you freeze, freeze, freeze all the time now, so I'll just be going there, I mean kama ku vacation of course and coming back home and doing my businesses and all that stuff. I really want to be an entrepreneur, I want to be a very big business person. I was thinking about setting up, I have a friend who just set up, I mean a hostel somewhere in Kising, which is really doing good, and I wanted also to do the same in Bungoma, so maybe in the next five years they're gonna have maybe the abuji nursing hostel, who knows, yeah. Thank you very much, a message to your fans, to Kimalizia, Wambie Kitu, those sorts of supported you, maybe one will control, one will grow, just a message to your fans as you go forward. See, for my fans I can just say thank you, because for the folks who have the positive and negative, I mean negative, I mean comments, whatever, I can just say thank you, people have, as I said, people have choices and people also have whatever they have in mind. I just want to say what you have in mind, so whatever view that you view me, and you put it across, it's okay. But the thing is that I really thank you so much, and I hope you guys, you'll hear the best from me again, and then you may raise up with not that stupidity, but with good things, I mean pass across, wherever that moliskiya, I mean maybe it was too stupid, but now I, that stage in Mepita, I was up coming in social media, I just literally raised up, and I mean I'm coming up with the best things, and I mean making sure that at least what we are making, U.S. kuna jobs mingi, and every break they are hiring in every place. Mepita kila place, we are hiring, so mukuji kawingi, people should come, because however much you come to the whole village, you cannot finish all those jobs. Ziko kila pahali, employmentiko kila pahali. Your dream wedding is still on? No. So Abuji, it has been nice having you on our shows. We really appreciate the interview. We make wafiti, we make jibu maswalizatu vizuri, and we wish you all the best. Thank you so much, we got expanded, and we will continue to work in the U.S. But then we will work in the U.S. U.S. is the best place so far. We will continue to work in the U.S. and I know you guys can do a good job. Where should our fans find you on all social media platforms? My name is Abigela Abuji, but I'm a B.A. Abuji, U.S.M. and on my Instagram is Abigela Abuji, U.S.M. on my TikTok is Abigela Abuji, on YouTube is Abigela Abuji, on Facebook, kumaji na kubali, abigela Abuji, that is my name. But that Abuji is my name ever since I was a kid, so that is just my name. So Abuji, even my village, they call me Abuji, but now they don't pronounce it as Abuji, they pronounce it as Apuji Yeah.