 وَأَقُولُ فِي القُرْعَنِ مَا جَاءَتْ بِيهِ أَيَاتُهُ فَهُوَ الْكَارِيمُ المُنزَالُهُ وَأَقُولُ قَالَ اللَّهُ جَلَّ جَلَالُهُ وَالْمُصْطَافَ الْهَاديِ وَلَا أَتْ أَوَّالُهُ سلام على عبد الله ورسوله نبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين لذلك نتكلم في المساعدة أن سلط الرحمة تستخدم لكل من يجب أن يكون هناك أجمع لكن كل مستخدمة تتواجد أن يكون هناك أجمعات التي تريد أن تتواجد مثلما، أجمعات التي تكون هناك مع أبوك وكثيرا أن تتواجدهم وكثيرا أن تتواجدهم هل سيكون سيكون نفسها؟ دعني أخبرك أنك أخبرك إنها صحيح أن بعض الأسكارلات تفضلها إلى أمامهم أمامهم أو أمامهم الذين يتواجدون لكن هؤلاء أخيانهم ليس الأسرائيات من الأدوات لأخيانهم الأسرائيات الأخيرة التي تتواجد على كل أسرائيين مع whom يوجد بلد لكن إيه أحد أحد يتتواجد أسرائيين مقيمة إليهم مثل the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم، أقرب فأقرب Then the closest one then the next closest one حديث about who is most deserving of my good treatment and the Prophet said your mother your mother and so on your mother and then your father then the closest one then the closest one so each family member according to their closeness and nearness so yes you do have to keep ties with your cousins however the ties you keep with your cousins are not going to be the same necessarily as the ties that you might keep with your siblings or the ties that you might keep with your uncles or aunts for example each one is going to be according to their nearness and according to their need also and that's why القاضي إياذ رحم الله تعالى he said he said that keeping ties with your relatives is of different levels some of them are higher than others he said the lowest level of it is to leave off abandoning them not to cut off from them and to keep ties with them with speech even if it's just giving سلام ويختلفوا ذلك باختلاف القدرات والحاجة and this depends upon the ability of the person and it depends upon the need of the relative also depends upon their need and it depends upon the person's also the person's ability so this is a matter where yes you do have to keep ties with all of your blood relatives but each one should be trapped in according to their nearness and according to their need and according to your ability so also the second cousin that you live with for example is not going to be the same as the second cousin that lives on the other side of the world because your ability is different and likewise the second cousin who is in desperate need right now and the second cousin who is absolutely fine is not also going to be the same so that means that we can look at it through three different lenses the lens of closeness the lens of ability and the lens of need so in terms of closeness how close are they to you in terms of ability how much ability do you have to actually keep ties with them in a certain way how easy is it to visit them regularly for example and then in terms of their need because there might be a relative who's more distant like a cousin is more distant than a sibling but the siblings are absolutely fine right now and the cousin's going through a hard time so each of these three things are going to affect the way that you keep ties with your relatives and Allah is our general best how can you do a two-second action right now that will give you a share of the reward of everything we're doing on this youtube channel simple like this video and click subscribe why it will allow youtube to recommend our videos to other users and imagine the huge amount of reward that could be waiting for you on the day of judgment if you did that with a sincere intention of spreading the deen of Allah you'll be rewarded for every single person who benefits from one of our videos as a result of your like or subscribe that's an easy two-second action that you definitely don't want to miss out on do it now click like and subscribe and don't forget to make that intention