 Every life must have a trash can. What do we put in a trash can? Trash. There are things you cannot tell anybody. Aside Jesus, aside the Holy Spirit, you need a human being that you can confind in. You know that this person got my back. Every human being needs it. When it gets very difficult, things you cannot tell anybody. At least there should be one at least person that you will be vulnerable and break down before. If you are a man, it is encouraged. It must be a man. If you are a woman, it is encouraged. It ought or should be a woman.