 What's up you guys? Welcome to the Single Guy channel. I'm Lloyd and today we're gonna be talking about a subject that I get asked a lot and it's not necessarily the subject that I want to talk about but I get asked this all the time and there's Lloyd What conversation topics lead to sex? Like what sort of things should I talk about in order to get this girl to want to sleep with me? Okay, so first of all the thing that you should know and this is like the basis of my entire video is that it's not the Conversation that leads to sex. It's the person having the conversation that leads to sex So if you think there's gonna be some magic topic that you're gonna come up with that Oh now that I'm talking about this now. I'm gonna get laid. Um, well, you're looking in the wrong spot But I can't give you some topics that in general I find that I've talked about them with people and more often than not they'll lead to sex But it's again, it's not the conversation. It's not in the way that you guys think so the topics that I would say that generally the lead to sex are like alcohol recreational drugs Traveling partying hooking up like crazy stories All of these things I would say they're the subjects that I talk about that more often lead to sex than other subjects The reason why they lead to sex is because if a person is really comfortable talking about those sorts of things or she has a lot of stories associated with them or she's really into that sort of stuff Then she's probably open to hooking up with a random guy and that random guy could be you So it's not the conversation topic that led to sex again It was the person having the conversation that led to sex if a girl's really really open to talking about that sort of Stuff she probably does that a lot. She probably parties a lot and she's probably hooked up with guys before She'll hook up with guys again So if you think that oh if I bring up these topics is gonna make her want to sleep with me No, you just found a girl who's more open to doing that sort of stuff And if you're looking to hook up and find a girl who's down to hook up with you as well And that could be a good way to find that girl like if a girl it has all tons of party stories that she loves talking about Yeah, that girl's probably open to hooking up and if you stick around her long enough She might hook up with you so this is what kind of I think people are talking about and so sometimes people say well Okay, well talking about hooking up talking about partying talking about all that stuff that's gonna lead to talking about sex, right? Well, yeah, it could lead to talking about sex You could start talking about sex stories and exchange them and tell them to talk about like what the two of you like and that sort Of thing and I've had those conversations a lot. I don't want you guys to think though that Talking about sex is always gonna lead to sex a lot of times it can actually shoot you in the foot It can actually jinx it and the reason why is because talking about sex is like a double-edged sore On the one hand if you're talking about it and you're doing it, right? You're getting the girl more turned on She's getting more aroused because she's thinking about sex when you're talking about it You start thinking about you're thinking about it too So you're both getting more aroused as you talk about it Which is awesome and it would be great if you had some if you guys were alone And it was just the two of you and she was comfortable with you But a lot of times those things aren't happening at that moment And the biggest thing here is the comfort area because if you don't if you know anything about going out Anyone who's gone out a lot will tell you that comfort is actually a little bit more important than Attraction and how horny the girl is okay If you have a place to just have sex with her right then yes sure it can work But in order for you to have sex with a girl a lot of times you need to get her in a cab You need to have a drive back to your place. She needs to come in with you She needs to get comfortable situated Then she needs to have to be comfortable enough to take her clothes off Then she needs to be comfortable enough to like let you put it in okay all of this stuff All of those steps take comfort if you don't have that or unless the the attraction is so great Then she that overcomes it but a lot of times it's just not there so if By talking about sex with a girl you end up sleeping with her a lot of times It's because you you met a girl that was really really open sexually with strangers That that's why she did it okay So just because you talk about sex with it with a girl doesn't mean she's down to have it with you and Actually, it puts a lot of pressure on her because now she's thinking oh what now this guy is expecting me to have sex She feels like she has to She feels that she has to live up to your expectations or you know You're gonna feel like that too like I've had talked about sex with girls and then had sex with them And I felt like the whole time they were judging me to see if I was like as good as I thought I was you know So the sex wasn't all that great But it's happened before and the reason why it happens because again these women were very very open with their sexuality Those are in the minority not the majority the majority of women are a little bit scared They're if they really like a guy they're gonna be a little nervous to talk about that sort of stuff with them because they're gonna feel like They have to live up to it But if they're with a guy that they don't care about sometimes They'll be open to talking about sex and like we've had sex with them stuff because you know They don't have any They don't have a stake in this guy. They're not they're not interested in them So when I talk about these subjects as you can see I'm trying to look for the question within the question The reason why I think guys ask me these questions because they feel like the conversations that they're having they need some magic topic to take The conversation to the next level to take it from this like normal boring platonic thing to something That's gonna be sexually arousing that's something that's that's actually gonna turn her on and make her want to sleep with you And I've already done a video about this because that's basically flirting But the thing about flirting guys is that it doesn't need a single subject or it doesn't need a particular Topic for it to lead to sex. It's the energy between you two Remember, it's not what you say It's how you say it and if you can say something like I could be even talking about the weather But I can do it in a flirtatious way where it's got that man-to-woman connection where you're leading the conversation where you're showing motion Where you're showing passion where you're expressing yourself in the right way that's actually gonna get her turned on not just in general But turned on by you because if you're just talking about sex sometimes they can just get turned on and some other guy can Swoop her off her feet that she's more comfortable with I bet that happened tons of times where I've talked with a girl about sex And then she's just gotten horny and hit her up a hit her up her boyfriend or hit up whatever dude She's looking up with at that point Okay, this is gonna make her turn on and want to have sex with you and what you have to have is you have to Have that man-to-woman connection the man-to-woman connection basically involves teasing involves making her laugh It involves kind of leaving the conversation a little bit being commanding having that presence there where You know you're securing yourself with whatever you're talking about whatever it is and you're expressing it to her I talk about this thing where I it's called the power of passion where it's basically you give like a one-minute spiel Any topic any topic that interests you or maybe doesn't even interest you can be passionate about something that doesn't interest you as well But you just show passion show emotion show that sides of yourself that are really gonna turn her on Women do not care about the logical side. They do not care if it's this topic or this topic They care about the emotion behind the words and if you have strong emotion behind your words That she's gonna feel that emotion as well And if you communicate the right emotions to her then she's gonna feel those emotions Towards you and you know be turned on by you And that's really what you're looking for you're looking for someone who's gonna like you For for who you are not just because you talked about a certain conversation topic But because you're expressing yourself in the right way So if you want to check out that video where I talk about how to go from a normal boring conversation To sexually arousing I have that video just search for it On my channel it should be there I also came up with a video with a list of ways to tease a girl's he teasing is huge being able to tease them in the Right way it makes it should make them feel girly. It should make them feel good. So I Have tons of examples where I talk about that in those videos as well But one thing that you guys can start doing right now is just play playful games, so Todd and a lot of these other guys They do like playful assumptions or they have little lines that you can use which is like oh you and me like we never get Along we're too alike. We'd be at each other each other's throats at all times like it just wouldn't work out or You look like trouble like you're bad news for me. You got to get away from me Like there's you're just gonna ruin my life if I come near you like those sorts of things where it feels like Scandalists where it feels like we shouldn't be doing this those sorts of things a lot of times Can lead to sex as well also having that aura of mystery about them again This is not so much a topic, but it's more of a vibe So you have to start seeing yourself as a sexual being someone who's capable of having sex and be okay to talk about any sort of Subject again, I could be talking about the weather, but it could have that man-to-woman undertone beneath it And that's enough to get her in the bedroom Or you know, obviously there's a comfort level too. So you got to put in some time But that's that's enough to get her to like me so a lot of times I see you guys talking about themselves a lot I see a lot of guys like expressing and they just want to communicate all of who they are to a person and they feel like if they Show everything that who they are to the person then they're just gonna like them well women don't really respond to that They maybe just tell her one or two things about yourself. You don't need to reveal everything, but keep a lot of stuff a mystery Okay, she's gonna be more turned on by your confidence by by you expressing yourself Then the actual stuff that they're telling her and on top of that you people usually don't believe what people tell them because a Lot of times we tell people what we want them to hear about it It's not so much who we actually are you are where you're you are with your actions and what you do in life And so it's gonna take her a little bit of time to figure that out And so the way you talk about things is what she's gonna be looking for not so much the content of what you're talking about So again, I don't think this is gonna be the Answer to the question that you guys wanted I gave you a few conversation topics where you can see if the girl is more open to hooking up or having sex But it's not necessarily the conversation topic that leads to sex. It's the person having the conversation Thanks a lot you guys. Good luck out there