 Without her, the whole is bigger than you could possibly imagine. Now, is that contempt for his girlfriend? Or is that contempt for the situation that he's in? One thing I want you to think about, something in body language called a fellow's error, some of the signals that come up in a situation, you mistake for another situation that you have a bias around. If grief is the situation that he's in, you have something called the stages of grief. One of those stages involves anger, resentment and blame. I think the contempt here is the contempt around anger, resentment and blame, very probably for his missing partner here to have resentment and blame and anger for your missing partner is a standard element of grief and it would be easy to mistake that for something nefarious when it's actually part of grief.