 The deeper purpose of relationship is to grow as an individual whether it goes the distance or not. So the purpose of relationship is to share the best version of yourself and if he's lost, not to suggest you ladies aren't lost, are the two of you willing to do the individual work and come together to grow as a couple. And then I said is love enough. This is really critically important. The deeper purpose of relationship is to grow as an individual whether it goes the distance or not.