 Next question is from folvio castle. What's the best way to attract someone into fitness when they seemingly don't care? Oh gosh boy, that's a be the example. Yeah No, it really is it's like it's like talking to somebody that is like a Bible thumper, right? And you're like, dude, you're a way of leading people to Jesus is the wrong way You're going to hell trying to force it down people's throat. It's always rejected the same thing goes with fitness man Like if you are trying to tell them all the things they're doing wrong or even all the things that you can do I know a lot of people come from a good place Like this question always stems from somebody who has a partner or a mother or a father Who is frustrating right who they care about and I I totally understand this because the first half of my career I was asking the same question like man. I want to I want to save my family, you know Just like I think some of the Bible thumber people are thinking too. I think they come from a good place I don't think they're trying to seem self-righteous, but it comes off self-righteous And so do you when you try and push people on fitness and the best way to do it is to exude it Is to be the person who lives the brain? It's not a guarantee. It's only it's a successful way Yeah, exactly. It's not a guarantee even then it's just but it is the only way that I think it's going to catch Yeah, I've done that because I was like you I would just try and force it on everybody and I'd go in my parents house And clean out the cabinets piss them off and never worked and then I just stopped and you just kind of do your thing And then what you find is and it doesn't work on everybody So again, it's not a guarantee. It's just it's just if it's gonna work this the only way You'll get people ask you like man. You got so much energy or man You look really good like what can you you know, can I do something to help me? You know my shoulders more developed or to build my back better or you know, I got pain here Can you show me some exercises now? They're receptive and you can kind of help them out The other thing too is if it's a partner You know make it something that has to do with connecting over the with the two of you and it doesn't and don't make it structured Workouts is a mistake like hey, honey. Let's go spend some time together. Follow my workout. It's not gonna work How about like let's go in the hey Do you want to go to the beach and do this hike and we'll have a nice lunch Oh hikes. Yeah Yeah, and then you're active as a side effect of kind of something that they enjoy and then they'll start to Maybe find more enjoyment out of doing it But you are not gonna force somebody to do something that they don't want to do if anything You'll actually prolong the time it takes for them to try and do it so true. It's a hundred percent Yeah, you just have you have to wait though. You have to wait for them to come to you It's like it's like sales until people listen sales like you can push somebody into a sale And then they're gonna have buyers remorse and they're probably want to return it afterwards But if you can pull them into a sale make them feel like they're asking for or they want it It's a total different experience for them. The same thing goes when you're trying to sell them on the idea of Working out being fit and eating healthy It's like the best thing to do is to to beat to live it by example Allow them to see how it carries over into your life and how it makes you such a better person without you having to say Anything and then eventually they ask not all like you said But if you want it to stick and it to really change their life the best way to do it is through your own yep Hey, if you enjoyed that clip You can find the full episode here or you can find other clips over here and be sure to subscribe