 And it says are you happy with your results? Do you want more work done? Love you girl I love you too boo, and I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I'm not gonna lie Poppin welcome back to another video if you're new here, my name is Cara Do not forget to like comment and subscribe to this video. So today we're gonna get into a sippin spill girl I'm gonna call you a homegirls. Okay, so one of my homegirls hit me up on Twitter She was like, how are you need to start a sippin spill? And I'm like, oh my god Girl, you it's all right. I love that So shout out to her cuz this will not be happening without her baby So shout out to her her Twitter will be on the screen. She hit me in the Twitter dm and Send me video recommendations all the time y'all. I look at my DMs. I'm very active. So yeah, so let me know So I wanted to start this little series So we're gonna start it off with a BBL edition Q&A cuz I haven't really touched the base with y'all about my BBL and it's coming up to a year girl. It's coming up to a year. I went so fast She's an ace game. Oh She's an ex game. Oh shout out to my doctor because he did that he understood the assignment period Okay so if you want to get the tea on my BBL experience and recovery everything my ups and downs just keep on watching before we even get into the Q&A I want to apply my 10 me overnight sleep mask hydration treatment because girl honestly after this I'm gonna sleep I'm laying it down. So I want to get prepared to go to bed So I'm gonna apply my overnight sleep mask and this has two main ingredients that I use in my daily skincare routine already Nice in my hyaluronic acid I don't know if y'all know what nice in my does but it does exactly what it's supposed to do It promotes collagen in your skin making your skin look very youthful and glowy And it also has hyaluronic acid in it which is going to basically hydrate your skin I love a good glow. Okay, and this also does happen here vitamin C is going to even out your skin tone I love vitamin C is my best friend because I really love a good even skin tone It also has butterfly tea in here, which is going to help rejuvenate your skin of a glow And I do not play when it comes to my skincare. Okay, so this is basically like my Glow maintenance to help my skin say rejuvenated glowy and just youthful looking you know I'm saying and this mask also does help with Calming the skin so when my skin is very irritated or dry and dull looking this helps really bounce back my skin Making it look so glowy and just so bomb so bomb and I'm about to show y'all real quick So I'm gonna apply this so right now the consistency of this mask is very thin and like I said It does have two main ingredients in here that I do love in my daily skincare routine So basically when I use this mask, I literally just wash my face apply this mask and go to sleep Basically one and done and that's what I like about this mask because it has so many great ingredients in here y'all I'm telling you y'all are about to see this magic happen once I apply this. Okay, so we're gonna apply it My I don't have anything on my face So I'm just gonna apply a thin layer all over Girl look it. It's already making me look low. E on its own It's gonna apply on the forehead And like I said, this helps me keep that glowy youthful Hydrated Looking skin that I want Especially in a summer time girl because in the summer time I Just don't like wear makeup. I don't like wear makeup. Honestly, it's too hot and I live in Atlanta So my skin has to be one point And girl, I'm like running low on this but it does last a long time But girl, I'll be using is this like my secret weapon Especially when I'm lazy and don't want to do my nighttime skincare routine I just plop this on one and done like I said wash your face and I'm good to go Once you apply this mask and wake up Girl, your skin is going to look so Good And then next I'm gonna apply this eye cream girl You're never too young to start treating your under eye bags Eye circles or anything like that. I've been using an eye cream for Since I was like 18, that's why my under eyes look so good And this one does have a matrixel 3000 any which is gonna help keep your under eyes Looking so plump because that's what baggy eyes are because the plumpness of your under eyes Go down like the volume of your under eye goes down. That's why you get under eye bags So this is gonna help keep it plump and nice and youthful looking so I'm just gonna apply this as well So I'm just gonna take a little bit and I'm gonna start from the outside And go in my finger and then just go on the top I love how lightweight these products are like they're not heavy at all I don't want to go to sleep with anything heavy on my face honestly Because I don't want anything to clog my pores y'all be able to get this overnight sleep mask and The under eye cream from Tammy blends all you need to do is click the links down below And then you can also get some money off by using current 20. Yes, we love that So so yeah y'all make sure y'all get y'all masks and make sure you maintain a healthy glow for the summertime by using that Overnight sleep mask though. So yeah y'all so we're gonna get into the questions now I'm so excited to we answer y'all questions cuz I just love talking y'all I love spilling the tea on what's been happening. Okay, but anyways y'all like I said, this is a sip and spill So I'm gonna wait a second so you can go get your little drink grub. I'm drinking coffee. I'm drinking coffee. I Don't know why I'm drinking coffee at this time of night I just want to drink coffee like so I'm gonna wait a second So you can go get your drink girl cuz I want you to sit back relax and just let me talk to you about my So I'm gonna wait for you Girl hurry up grab your drink. I'm giving you time Okay, you got it period. Okay y'all. So y'all asked a lot of questions So I'm gonna scroll to the bottom and see What they said at the bottom first and then work my way up Okay, so we're gonna start off with the first question. It says are you happy with your results? Do you want more work done? Love you girl? I love you too boo, and I'm not gonna lie to y'all I'm not gonna lie. I do want to get some j-blast month just because I feel like I have a loose skin from the Lipo which I don't really like I don't like that. I know it's normal, but like I Want it tight. I want it tight and right. Okay, period So I am gonna be looking into like a skin tightening or like J plasma or something like that I am in a gym right now. I am in a gym, but the gym can only do so much Obviously, that's why I gotta be yell cuz it could have fixed my dip hips So I am probably going to look into doing that procedure and also You know, I'm in a gym. I already told him like I want to keep I'm gonna get my stomach tight Hopefully in the gym. It'll make some progress. I see progress right now I like I like how my body is like Toning up and stuff like that. So we'll see we'll see But yeah, I love my results. I'm very very happy. I'm very very satisfied I love my shape me and I love how my butt matches my thighs like I just love that so So yeah, I love my results. Would you do it again? Would you recommend it highly recommend? I Recommend if you want to get a BBL get it done like do it for you Don't do it because you see a another girl on Instagram like oh you want to look like that You should just one genuinely for you, you know, I'm saying so I definitely recommend if you want to do it but it just is a lot of Maintenance after the fact just know it's a lot of maintenance to after for the aftercare for after the BBL How long was your recovery? I feel like my recovery as far as me dealing with pain was a good It was a good Like it was it was just me being uncomfortable. I really wasn't even in pain like literally this first day Um, I got out of surgery. I was walking like I was walking the nurses that to carry me was like Cardi you want to get up and walk and I was like, yeah, let's do it like I was literally good But as far as me being uncomfortable Girl, I feel like it doesn't stop right now. Currently. I'm in my ad war right now And my binder and my fire and the fire is very uncomfortable. It's tight Um, and so I feel like as far as like pain, I really wasn't just I really wasn't in pain The only thing that was painful was the massages and I feel like after you get all that extra fluid out of you Is when you start to feel like okay? So that lasted like a good Two weeks because it was a little no it lasted like a good month for me to start feeling like I Am not in pain when it comes to like getting massages So at least a month or massages after the first few weeks essential 100 because your massages definitely contour you and you really need to find a good massage person I'm sorry, but some of these people don't know what they're doing And I'm so happy and blessed that I found a girl in the beginning in the beginning I found like a good massage lady back at home She was like she was teaching me all the proper techniques on how to Properly compress like she was like you need to go get this that in a third So you can look how you want to so you can you know Compress this so this can be down so you don't have to have um that extra fluid build up Like she was just teaching me a lot of things obviously because I'm new to this um So yeah Massages are definitely essential and finding a massage lady that knows what she's doing Is even more essential so make sure you do your research before you even give any of these people your money Because sometimes they don't even you know what they're doing and they don't really compress hard enough I feel like some massage people don't But was arm lipo worth it y'all i'm not gonna lie to y'all Arm lipo is the same thing as you know Wanted to control your body, which is like wearing your fire eyes Compressing and stuff like that just as much as you want to compress your Your waist you need to compress your arms if you're gonna get arm lipo And that's kind of a mistake that I made I got arm lipo. I loved it. It's definitely worth it But I wasn't consistent as far as me keeping my um What is it called arm compressions on I don't know why I wasn't consistent with it like I am with my stomach It's just I don't want anything on my arms tight Which that is what I'm in a mistake, but I feel like it's worth it Because I feel like if I had that extra fat on my arms that he didn't lipo out of me I would look crazy like I feel like I would look you know bulky So I feel like it was worth it in that area But if you are gonna get like arm lipo you need to compress like I need to start wearing my Things like why I'm telling y'all I need to Do it myself and make sure when you get arm lipo Tell the your massage lady so she doesn't skip that. That's another thing too Like I wasn't really focused on my arms. I was really just focused on my stomach um, so yeah, I just need to make sessions on focusing more on my arms and Musta make if that makes sense What made you choose the surgeon that you chose and who were you all considering? So y'all I don't know if I told y'all this but 305 plastic surgery actually wrote me and this was in the process of me not even thinking I was gonna get surgery I was like considering it, but it almost like I got that good. I'll like I can still do my little hip pose and get away with it Then I started getting tired of it Okay, anyways, like I was saying sorry my light went off. Yeah, they actually wrote me when I was like Wanted to get the surgery, but I was looking at different doctors. I was looking at one in california um, another one in miami, I'm not even really sure remember these names, but um So yeah, they hit me in the DM and I looked at their doctors They were trying to make me go to this other one this other doctor and he actually passed away R.P. To him. That's crazy Um, I forgot the other doctor's name, but um Oh my god So I was looking at their doctors and I seen dr. Williams and I was like, oh my god, like His work is very very good. It's very consistent Some of these doctors will shake these girls like this will be their body. This will be this. I mean and then this will be they Their hips like it wasn't flowing. It wasn't it wasn't going good So I found dr. Williams and he made the body like contoured so Bomb and I was like, oh my god I want to go to him That's what made me go to dr. Williams because I like how he shaped the body I have I liked how he made their waist to flow with the The hips and it didn't look like crazy. Like it was just like plop on waist and then you know The hips I like how he made it made sense. You know what I'm saying? So that's why I chose dr. Williams. His work is very consistent Um, he doesn't do wish picks or anything like that I just had a trust that he was gonna make me look good And he understood the assignment. Okay, period. That's what made me choose him Because he knows how to shake the body. He's gonna tell you what it is Then I really liked and respected that about him. What do you love most about your transition? Girl that I got a big booty a big booty notice land No, I really love that my hips just fell out my clothes. I'm more confident Like my clothes fit how they supposed to my also looking good I just love like feeling good once you look good and feel good your confidence Like nobody will be able to tell you nothing. I just love how my body looks now Do you have any medical issues during or after your procedure? I don't have any medical issues But the only issue that I have noticed is that when I sit down for A little bit, you know how sometimes you'll Sit in a position where your legs start to get numb But it's for like a long period of time and that's when your legs start to get numb So right now I'm noticing that In a shorter amount of time my legs are starting to get numb I just feel like it's just the extra the extra fat back there on like a nerve or something So I really need to watch that because I don't know that's like dangerous. So yeah, that's the only Issue that I have noticed. Um, I don't know if anybody else has that problem I haven't seen anything but that's just my experience personally Um, so yeah, that's the only like after issue Um, is it heavy? girl, of course No, just kidding. Well, I mean, it's just regular. It just feels like my normal body It's just like But when I run upstairs, I ain't gonna like That thing bouncing back there. Did your stomach and back burn? If so, when did it stop? Yes, absolutely It's from the light bulb Your stomach and back is very sensitive. So After a while it starts to go away. Like I kind of still kind of feel it a little bit But it's slowly starting to sensitivity is starting to go away. Um, but that's definitely normal. I feel like it's stopped. Um After a good six months, like it's still very sensitive, but it's still starting Like I said, I'm 10 months. I can still kind of feel the burning sometimes when I press In certain areas on my stomach. So Yeah, my stomach is still lumpy some days two months supposed to stop Yeah, I still have like I mean if you feel like lumpy as far as like scar tissue Um, I have like scar tissue in my lower abdomen And it's kind of like a lumpy Feeling at my lower abs just because of scar tissue and I'm still compressed until this day I still have my abward on right now and my binder and I wear my firehawk. So I feel like With compressing, I guess it keeps going down and you're only two months. So you're still early. You're still fresh, baby So keep compressing do what you have to do go get your massages Tell your massage people like I said, you need to find a good massage person And you need to tell them your problem so they can know how to massage you and Sure that you are recovering in the right way. Would you recommend dr. Williams? Yeah, I do recommend dr. Williams I really like him. He definitely makes you look natural helps helps the You know wasting hips make sense and he doesn't make you look like A ant How much money would you recommend someone set aside just for post-op care? Girl you need to set aside at least 10k. I'm not even gonna lie to you girl I was out of 3k the first day When I got to miami Because okay, if y'all have seen my bdl blog me and my mom Had got an airbnb But we we thought it was like in a good neighborhood. It looked a real cute on the airbnb Girl when we got there that airbnb looked like The ghetto was a broken down fence. It was no brass like it was dirt Um, it was in a little Haiti and I don't I didn't know miami was that hood. Okay. I didn't know it was like that So when we got there, I come to find out we was in little Haiti And mama was like, no we cannot stay here and we I was out of my 3k for that Airbnb I couldn't get my money back. Um, he wouldn't give it to me when his dusty cells so Um, I had a go get another I got to get a hotel Um in brickel in a good area and I had to pay for that. That was another 3k So that's six right there food Um, uh, if I needed it because you in the beginning stages, you don't want to get a loose fire Because you don't want fluids to build up. So I had to pay for some extra fires foams at board um Massages first aid stuff like just stuff like that I would definitely set aside 10k for real because you just never know what's going to happen You just never know the situation. So Set aside 10k for sure Do you think your bbo looks as good as in person as in pictures? girl, yes, what of course Of absolutely absolutely Ain't no cat fishing these ways. Okay How long did it take for your butt to soften up girl? That takes a while. I'm just now starting to My butt to like start softening up. It's still farming some areas But like my butt is still kind of fresh because some of these booties out here are kind of old and they like moving like water Okay, my is not doing that. Okay. It's a little jiggly, you know, I'm gonna show y'all in the end But it still takes time so I'm still seeing so but it starts to soften up probably At seven months. I feel like seven months, but I like how my booty was looking firm. I didn't I didn't mind the issue How long did you take off for work for the four or six weeks? um, I took a month off because I had Covid before my surgery and then um After that I took a month off um From my job for my nine to five Then after that, I was like, you know what? I'm not going back to work. I don't need to That's how I quit my job Because I'm like, I don't need to go back to work. Like I don't want to I'm making way more like I'm out So I would definitely recommend recommend a month though. Um, I would have took um At least a month and a half Because girl, it's just so uncomfortable. You and y'all fire high and you need to wear y'all Abboard and just uh like uh like you don't want to get up And then you have to wear your fire day And then you got to pee through the thing and then something on the pee It's on a fire high and you then you all the wrong work smell like pee like no Month and a half or a month Are you happy with your results and your regrets? I'm very much happy. I'm very much satisfied I'm very happy. I love the way I look. Um, I just want my um stomachs to get tighter. You know what I'm saying? I just wanted to get tighter How much fat did you end up losing from your butt? I feel like I haven't lost any but fat Honestly, I just feel like I haven't I feel like my butt was very consistent. Um, I measured at a 45 inch all around My waist I have to measure again to see if it's still consistent But visually I feel like I haven't lost any but that but measuring I haven't measured in a while But um after like two months, I was still like consistently getting up 45 inch Like all around Is it hard to maintain the weight after surgery? Was it hard to change your diet? Absolutely, absolutely girl So this was the mindset I was in but after surgery obviously you need to eat healthy fats Like avocados turkey bacon eggs stuff like that like stuff high in protein So girl, I was doing that and like I was doing good Then I started to notice that my metabolism was like fast Like I was going through the bathroom like a sat after I ate so I'm like, um, I can eat whatever I want I don't care. So girl that caught up to me quick. So when you get in surgery, that's the only one thing that I regret that I started eating bad and I shouldn't ever do that because I gained weight. So obviously the weight is going to come back. Obviously getting surgery is not gonna permanently Help you keep weight off So make sure after surgery girl, you keep being consistent as far as your diet Just eating healthy fats salad stuff. Um Yeah, that's the only thing I regret is eating bad. Um and getting in that mindset and just And now I'm in a gym. I'm having a little lifestyle change And I'm working with my trainer right now. He is literally I told him I was like, I don't want to look bulky. I want to just slim down maintain my weight He doing his thing. I'm seeing changes. So we're gonna stick to it. And yeah, we're gonna do what it's do Where's your faha from the girl the faha's I actually wear are Actually from the girls that took care of me after surgery. I'll link their Um, instagram and the description box below. They have a faha company. So make sure you all check them out they have the faha's that have, you know, the, um the The rise in it. So it's like a corset which I like personally just because it makes you, you know It shapes you so and then also on their faha's is a bit more seamless so you can wear under your Um clothes and stuff. I personally like wearing my faha's under my clothes sometimes Um, just to give me that snatch look especially if I'm like wearing a fire outfit and I want to take a fire fit I still wear my faha's With that and also I still wear my faha's on a daily with my ad board I have it on right now with my binder girl wearing your faha is so important And that's another question and up in here. It says how long do you have to wear your faha for? I feel like people think that you have a limit to wearing your faha and it's not like that I feel like you're gonna wear your faha for The rest of your life probably until you don't care about how your body looks I feel like because your faha just keeps molding you and keeps shaping you So I feel like if you're very consistent with you wearing your faha's all the time Your body is going to start to look how you want it to look Without you having to wear your faha on you know what I'm saying? So There's really no limit to it because I remember asking my massage lady I was like, how long do I have to wear this faha? And she was like girl until you want to look how you want to look like there's no limit to it And also I had us back off of it a little bit because I was very very consistent with wearing my faha is my binder And my airport and it was kind of making a lump on my butt like a little hill and I was just like no, I can't keep wearing it because I don't want that lump to stay there So I kind of cooled off on it a little bit like wearing it every single day So I started to like, you know limit to wearing my faha So I like to wear it. Um when I'm not doing anything Just lounging around the house or in the daytime when I just have sweats or anything on like that But with my faha to this day, I don't wear it alone. I wear it with my ad board and my binder So, yeah, there's literally no limit to How long you can wear your faha like you can wear for the rest of your life Like I know it's so uncomfortable to wear y'all in but wearing your faha is the key Wearing your faha and the massages that's going to really shape you Would you go for round two or are you happy with them results because you look fire Thank you boo and no, I probably wouldn't do a round two of Um inserting that back there because I feel like it's enough. I don't want to No, I don't want to look like and my butt is a good size for me. My little petite self. I'm not tall I'm very short. So that that's another thing too Like my weight catches up with me fast because I'm short and I don't want to look like I'm stuff So I really have to maintain my weight because I don't want to look stuff chunky or nothing like that. So That's what really made me start going to the gym. Do you still swell? Yes, I do Um, I don't know when the swelling is going to stop and you stop because I'm tired of it Honestly, I'm very tired of it. I don't know what this is going to stop How long before you started to love your results, um I started loving my results really and then it's also to back up that question Somebody asked hi. I'm four weeks. When did you start fluffing? I had a bbo with dr. Williams and it's not giving lol So y'all I'm not gonna lie. I wrote this man literally after the first week because I had dip hits and I was like, um, sir I Don't see anything like I was just like what is going on like I didn't see results like the first week Um, I think I don't know it's because of my size or something like that but I didn't start seeing the results that I wanted until like after A month and a half because with the swelling, um, you don't see your shape So once you start compressing properly and going to your massages consistently you start seeing your shape and your body contour your Waste is going to go in and your hips are going to flow out So that's when I started seeing my results and that's when I started loving my shape a month and a half girl I'm not gonna lie I was I literally cried. I think when the first week I was like, I don't like it But I don't like it. What did I do? But now I love it. So It's very you have to be patient. You have to you rave about your post op nurses Would you recommend your doctor? I recommend my doctor and I recommend those girls because Chastity um, it's crazy because I didn't talk to her ever and we lived in the same um City we were from the same state. Um chastity the girl that is like the owner cold owner. Um, because it's two girls so her Knowledge and because me and my mom didn't know what we was doing My mom never went through any type of helping somebody recover through surgery like this I never been through surgery like this. So I didn't know what to expect So having somebody that knows what they're doing and knows like The recovery process of like a bdl and what to do like what to take I feel like it was necessary to have because It just made it 10 times easier for my mind because you know, she's stressed out She was already stressed about what we were saying and just like having somebody there to help, you know Give knowledge on what is happening. Um, it just made the experience so much easier and just not As stressful, you know what I'm saying? So I do recommend getting some recovery nurses. I recommend the girls that I had They're so helpful. So nice. I love them Very caring and yeah, so I definitely recommend using a recovery Nurse because it's very essential I'm telling you I'm telling you it makes the experience 10 times easier. Um, so my incisions are so ugly Like let me show y'all. They're so ugly. I hate them So if y'all can see So this is one how my incisions look on My back. They're so ugly. They're keyloids I don't like how this looks It's just like a lump So I need to go to An injector or something to flatten it out and like get it faded or something because I don't like that my trainer Hey y'all say to me He was like, what is that mark? Um, a lot of the girls that come to me had that mark on their back And um, what is that? I was like, they had a bbl So I'm just like ill uh, like You can definitely tell somebody had a bbl from their mark center to Like on my upper back and then in the middle and then on my lower I do want to look into getting those Marks faded, but the ones in the front are fine. They're fading just fine But the ones in the back no and I do want to add one more thing. Um Somebody asked what I get anything else done girl. I want to get my boobs done I'm not gonna lie I'm with my homegirls to sit up and perky and cute because I don't like wearing a bra I'd be free balling. I know y'all started seeing me without a bra But I do want to get my boobs done Like that might be next in the works and I do want to look into My teeth. I don't want veneers. I want them to look just bright white So I'm gonna look into getting like a whitening treatment. I go to my dentist Um next week back at home. I love her. I'm gonna ask her Where can I go to get like a whitening like white like money or white? So but yet or I want to get my boobs done I'm gonna be out here looking cute, you know with the girls setting up So and I feel like I just deserved it. I don't want anything crazy. I don't want to implant Or anything. I don't think if I don't need to I just want them to sit up nice I guess I'm gonna have to get an implant, but I just want them to look cute. So So, yeah, that's um another procedure. I want to get that But my camera is dying So I feel like I touch base on a lot of things. So I want to show you all my body with my um faha on and um My faha on my board And just show you all like how my butt is looking right now So let me go put some leggings on and open right back This is how I look with my Abward one faha And yeah the girl who's looking Sitting just right 10 months So like I said, she's still getting she's still a little firm Not gonna lie But she's softening up Slowly But yeah, this is how I look. I love it hips Glower even with the abward in She's looking real good And I'm just trying to maintain my weight especially when exercising and stuff like that So I'm very much happy with my results. Like I said, I love how she shaped me I love my shape with time my waist is gonna keep shrinking So I'm gonna keep wearing my faha and my ab board and you know working out so I saw her And that's what she look like She cute she cute All right girls, so that wraps up this video I hope you guys enjoyed this q&a bbl edition sip and spill So if you want to you know, let's continue this series Let me know what topics y'all want me to talk about list them down below And you know y'all and then also do not forget to check out the temi blends overnight mask and the eye cream y'all Look at my skin When I wake up glow Periods. Okay. I'm just so happy. I just love this mask y'all But anyways, I love y'all so much and I'll see y'all next video