 Hey you guys so look let me tell you something, baby My whole day has been just all over the place. I was supposed to have been that is even that's not even proper grammar Originally, I was supposed to Recart several different videos for you guys, but the day got ahead of me It's like a day before a holiday typically is slow It's typically slow at my job But for some reason everyone decided to get on Vivian's dango nerves, you know what it is to y'all Oh lord, see now. I got the wrong hummus, but that's okay Christina's out all week, and I don't have to let her know this can't happen again. First of all, it's boring as hell working without her Girl look I'm gonna send this video to you We're gonna start taking off the RPTO days off together, and I don't know what's gonna happen Who's gonna be able to cover it? That's not my problem This can never happen again. I'm bored. I'm having to actually use my mind my brain and answer these questions Sometimes I'd be like girl, you know, I do help people I really do but sometimes I just don't Care I'm just being honest you guys not necessarily. I don't care sometimes I'd be frustrated and I just say some stuff to get them out of my inbox, but today I have to actually think For Christine and I and dango. I'm tired You know, I'm silly and I am kidding you guys. I'm not serious. Please do not take that You know Christine knows I'm kidding too Anyway, y'all this is a chit chat video. I was opposed to chit chat and do my hair But I watched a video by another youtuber mr. Likeful She had the reason why I'm doing an attitude is because I spent about 30 40 minutes tracking down this stuff It's not even that serious, but I did she posted in one of her last videos a recipe for keto friendly Alcoholic drink now my ass is not even on no keto. I'm about to have a bunch of carbs right here in front of me but What she described in the drink I was like I need to go out and find this stuff and make my own because that sounds good so I'm a put put it below. She sent me something just a second ago This is root beer, it's a clear root beer soda, okay vanilla vodka just a little bit like Literally a little bit because I gotta go pick up JP here in about three hours just a little bit And some cherries. It's supposed to have whipped cream too. This is my first sip. Let me mix it up here Yeah, that's probably gonna. Yeah, let me go get some more soda. Oh, yes Ma'am, let me go ahead and respond to her text. I'd be like girl. Mmm. Yeah, let me stop it being extra So let me show y'all what I'm eating I'm eating relatively healthy today because yesterday I acted a fool and I'm gonna act a fool later on tonight when I eat This is my first meal of the day and it's two o'clock So this is my lunch. So I have here roasted chicken pita bread carrots barbecue sauce and I have some hummus here on the side and The referral drink by Rhonda. So y'all know what we do about this. We talk about what's in these streets We talk about person life YouTube. Hold on Yeah, I'm not good at this. You want to know why I have a mirror in front of me. I'm very particular how I eat These rusted chicken with barbecue sauce is good JB's over at a play date down the street and drink his bum So JB's over at a friend's has another reason why I'm not I can't really have anything right now Right down the street. They live right around the corner y'all JB my child is six years old. So is those of you who don't know and Look at that age where he still has imaginary friends for child He could talk to his imaginary friends for hours, which I like that he could play with him Spank them point out. Let me know. I'm gonna get their girl His imaginary friends are kids are his kids to Well, how old are they? He has seven-year-old twins child Imaginary twin imaginary friends. Excuse me. So he told me of the day I think it's been a couple of weeks ago because my I told my best friend I've been telling a couple of people in my family about this my best friend and everything and they're like, um, I Would I told my best friend about this that she could not stop cracking up when I call my mom about it But anyway, he's like mama can can you keep my kids for me? I Said do what? He's a young mama. Can you keep my kids for me for the summer? No, you can't I know? You've been I dropped those green kids over here. I'm not keeping your kids for the summertime. No She plays alone cuz she was like that so I had him to call her He said hi granny. Um, he said granny. Can you keep my kids for me for the summer so I can go to summer camp Abigail and Boris So she's like, well, baby, um, I can keep him for you if they if they good kids He said yeah, they good, you know Boris Boris doesn't want to listen, but they good. I said So she said she'll keep them right Then he called my uncle my my my daddy's youngest brother and said uncle Glenn can you keep my kids for this child? That must have tickled us. We we got a kick out of there and my best friend cracking up is They didn't know what out Where were we were somewhere waiting in line. Why did this child say mama? We left the kids at home I saw what's up for these people think we actually left some kids at home We left his kids at home So I'm not following for a while. I'm gonna give y'all story time and then we'll get on to some shows I've been watching and Talk about social media a little bit y'all. Anyway y'all a little bit of story time. All right, y'all So my husband has an accident every year And you can legit go back to some of my previous videos sometimes I talk about the accident sometimes I don't Know last year he had cataract surgery First of all, I think last year he had Last year he had cataract. He hit my car in the garage This year he hit a parked car, right? So y'all I kid you not this man Has had an accident Every year right when he had this accident. I said, what are you doing? Y'all asking to start taking a Uber if you can't man. He said well, that's what insurance is for that. Hell it is Absolutely is there to cover us and the need of an accident But you need to watch what you're doing hitting random cars at work hitting my car in the garage last year Y'all he's not a good driver. He don't watch my videos But between you and me, he's not a good driver hence the accidents every year, right? So last year we were on the step now who won the 101 he the one thing he does that just irks me He breaks fast. He said we got to make sure that you break all the way so the car stops This is not no 1950 vehicle. You ain't right, you know driving those Chevy you're driving a modern car You just need to tap on your break a little bit and the damn thing should stop under some things wrong with your brakes, right? I'm not saying all that girl look so He breaks really fast and the person behind him hit him We all were in the car me being the pleasant wife. I was like, oh my god I can't believe someone hit us when am I back in my head. I'm thinking y'all asking to stop breaking so so hard Breaking fast and hard. We jerk for it. That's how that's how I know he breaks too hard You know what? I mean, you don't have to do all that. He has a 2018 Acura. Isn't it? Yeah, yeah, I'm something. Yeah, you're the first accident He had when I was in the car with him Cuz I don't know what he had been doing before Before child and so we were in college. I'll give you some little tea girl cuz I don't talk about my mind I don't talk about my personal life that much. I really don't My husband I have only been married for three years, but I've known him since I was 19 or 20 I've known him that long. I would be 39 years. Oh, yes, 39 and fine I'll be 39 years old August 11. I know I have a birthday twin out there August 11. I would be turning 39 and I've known him since I was 19 years old now We have not dated the entire time. God. No girl. No, but I've known him since that long. We dated often on I Call him my forever boyfriend break up get together break up get together I mean, I couldn't tell you how many times we've broken up, but in his mind Tell you how crazy I guess we both work and here's my we never really broke up I guess that's kind of sweet and romantic too if you look at it And here's mine. We've never really broken up It we've always just had a break and come together. So yeah, we have been dating Off and on I met him in college so We're in college and we were driving back from somewhere and I went to school in Denton, Texas, which is a UNT Which is um part of a DFW so Which by the way y'all Those who in Texas and Dallas girl. I know they have all those tall ways. There's a tall way going towards didn't I'm like, I would be so dang on broke like are y'all serious. So anyway, I went to school in Denton, Texas We were coming back somewhere because my ass was whoa. I was fat. I'm not even gonna like there's no fluffy I'm right now. I'm fluffy and I'm chubby. I own it. Okay. I'm sitting at 164. I own it back then I was about 198 On a good day. We weren't even dating or anything. We were just friends, right? So we were driving and it was it was getting dusk So it was around six o'clock where you could hear y'all know what in the country where you can hear all the mosquitoes and stuff What we're going home And he was turning to make a left hand turn on the light right left hand turn there was a division Between the lanes like a seamen divider. Y'all. Why did he turn it and hit the dang on divider? Going like 30 30 40 miles per hour hitting it and look he had an old probe. He had I don't know when he got this probe I don't know when I don't know he had a phone on time because my husband used to go to talla junior college in the early 90s Early 90s mid 90s. I don't remember. I don't know because that was way before me So he bought a probe, right? Girl, he knows the car till they broke down. Which is what you're supposed to do. He's the only person Besides him and my girlfriend, um, jamila She had her cutlass girl who didn't have a cutlass. She had her one of those, you know, that gray ash cutlass You know what I'm talking about that blue gray ash cutlass. Are you from the south? You know what I'm talking about She had dicing up your girl. She had an old cutlass, right? And then Alex had this probe show when I tell you this probe was towed up from the flow up Y'all we were young 1920 years old so he will let me drive it Because he had a crush on me But he had a crush That's just me keeping it real Um, he had a crush on me. So he's like, yeah, you can drive it So girl I will get in there with my not my best friend till this day love The first time she got in there, I don't know what part of the car it was under the engine It was making some noise We couldn't tell if it was under the engine or in the back because it was a two door It was making some noise and she said Vivian. What is that noise? I said girl, I don't know She was like girl. What is that noise? I said girl. I don't know girl. It could be some midges in the back Some midges in the back making ice cream snow cones girl. What flavor do you want? I don't know Yeah, it had that type of noise Well, baby the glove compartment was tied with some old phone cables. Like I kid you not that old dial up phone cables He he had he had um tied it up. So I'm getting back to the accident I'm getting a girl I'm circling around He had tied up the glove compartment because he kept coming down with phone cables So while when he turned the corner in this accident He hit that nango medium medium and the glove compartment went flopping down His tire busted that the front Just busted because of the impact and um, I was sympathetic then more so than I am now and I was like, oh my god What what happened? He was like, um, I can't see it's getting dark. I'm like, you know, you know what that that was a sign Then same excuse. He said I couldn't see it's getting dark. Oh my god We were at a gas station and he accidentally backed into someone. I'm like, oh lord in the same probe Mm-hmm So y'all get into these tv shows So I didn't even tell y'all that I bench watch picky monitors picky blinders At first I wasn't sure if I would like it And it took a couple of episodes for me to get into and I was like, you know what I do like this um I thank you bless me for that because she had mentioned it in one of her videos that she was um I think you said you haven't been watching it I loved it girl not to give any spoilers away for anyone who hasn't seen the show but It has different layers um It whoo girl towards the end. I don't even know what season it was. I was willing in my feelings I have never cried So hard of a main character dying because I was you you know, you you were rooting for these people Girl was boo-hooing boo-hoo. You know who I'm talking about. You know, I'm talking about one of them Yeah, dying. I'm like, oh lord What I'm ready for the next season Are the tom is full of shit Yeah, I need to watch it. So yeah, I'm I'm ready for it. I love it I have been watching the handsmaids tell the female as a woman sometimes when these You know these characters are going through this on the show You're like godly like seriously y'all the show if you're not watching handmaids tell is on hulu But if you have show box you can download it But it is not for It's not for the weak girl. It's not for the faint of heart Neither of those shows are to be quite honest was watching killing eve I'm not feeling seasoned to That's another one I stopped watching. I didn't realize that Uh, the main villain is the same girl that plays in dr. Foster. She looks she's one of those chameleons She she has different faces. I didn't realize that was her couldn't do killing me now What I am watching which is so different and I absolutely love it glitch Australian base. Let me give you the preview girl Australian base Five people suddenly wake up from the dead They were previously dead. They're not zombies They're waking up They didn't know they died. They're still walking around like it's 1984 And they come from different periods season two of that. It's really good. Is that one's catching my attention I need to continue watching it also But you know what's so funny is that you know when I'm watching the shows like I watch a lot of shows that are You know based in other countries. So watching shows like peaky blinders um Even watching like, uh, what is that? Uh happy valley Obviously in broad churches another. Oh, bro. If you haven't watched broad church broad church is another one It's obvious. They have an accent after a while watching this show based out of Australia I didn't really know. I mean, yeah, I could tell they have an accent But it wasn't as noticeable as the english accent. So I thought that was very interesting. Yeah I'm watching old movies on netflix, but nothing new to be quite honest, you know There's nothing I really want to see I tried to get into um Medea Boom y'all I'm probably gonna be the um the odd ball when I say this I really don't like those medea movies I remember I said that once One of my jobs here and this one of my co-workers who was black She snapped. She like completely went off and at the time I was very new So you don't know me and I don't know you so I ain't gonna check your ass. It was like His movies are great. You know, it brings a positive image to you know um the black families and there are some of us who didn't grow up with a black black mother and uh Grandmother whatever and she represents that I'm like a man and drag represents and this is no shade to anyone But I'm sorry, but a man and drag does not represent that for me And that's not really what it is about him and that's me being honest I don't care if you weren't interested, but my thing is is that I grew up with a grandmother I understand if you didn't I grew up with both parents in the household again. I understand some people didn't but What what he portrays isn't what My family is like and there's some bits and pieces. Yes, but My grandmother was not like that y'all she was not like that I Don't do them a deal movies. I have seen some of them. I do like why did I get married? um, I do like um, but I just feel like you know Tyler Perry movies Let me just say this Because I always believe in putting something positive I think that he's done a remarkable job as someone who has who was homeless and has built his own company That's an achievement in itself Um, and you know, I'm not knocking him with that. Yes. He's very talented. Yes. He's a great writer I just feel like he does better at the plays than the big screen movie tv He's been very successful with his movies. Absolutely. There's no denying it. All I'm saying is this for me personally I honestly don't like the medulla movies I do like how why did I get married and why did why did I get married too? But again, I find that a lot of his movies have the same type of formula to it You know, say to the play version. Yeah, but no, not the movies. No. So anyway, y'all enough of that I want to talk a little bit about um, y'all I don't really keep up with a lot of these challenges and stuff that they be doing on social media But I was watching a video by Leia Godone and she posted, you know I like the way her channel the route her channel is one by the way But she posted about the cucumber challenge And this is the thing. I just don't understand why we feel like some of this stuff is acceptable in our society I really don't understand why Um, this is the thing. I don't understand why people don't what people don't get once you put something out there in the Atmosphere on the internet and it's there people can screenshot it save it make means out of it So why would you put your why would you put yourself in a position? To be made fun of Are we not thinking about our future? I mean, you're not thinking about the possibilities that this could damage your credibility Uh, later on in the workforce. I mean clearly they're not y'all When it comes to me personally and the stuff I put out on my channel Um, and yes, I can be ratchet sometimes, but overall I try not to be Uh, I try not to go there. You know, I try not to use the big flower and curse words So you know what I mean? I try to I even try to be careful with what I wear Yes, I am married even if I wasn't married. I am taken. I'm not out there Um, and I know some people like you can wear whatever you want. You know You can but be ready to be judged by the way you present yourself. Does that make sense? But anyway, y'all I'm gonna try to wrap this up. Uh, I have so many um Here videos and tutorials y'all. I'm sorry, but I opened up that curl's daughter I opened it up the curl's daughter almond milk And you guys saw the posts I did on you on youtube here a couple of days ago I opened it up. I took a big a big whiff of it No, it smelled worse in the cocoa cream. Then I looked at the ingredients First of all, there were a lot of when when you start getting into a product having 20 25 ingredients. That's not even girl. That's like Gasoline like no, I'm not putting that on my hair Especially after having such a bad experience with the cocoa cream and I really did want to support her I think that she Went too fast too soon um and their products or I think they could have been very beneficial, but There's so many mixed reviews and a lot of her products are just so drying on our hair And I'm pretty sure that the formula has changed like a lot of them had look I told a guy today. He had a young man had approached me about some products at um at sally's And he was like, you know what? I'm thinking about using the shade more. I said boo I want you to look at the ingredients first. I see you need to be very careful with the ingredients Look at the first five ingredients. I said, I'm telling you shade more especially that black salt line Is very drying. I said turn it around turn it around second ingredient was alcohol Now it does depend on what type of alcohol I will say that too I gave him my recommendations or what I thought would be great But yeah, y'all. I don't know. So like I said, I have a lot of stuff coming up I have this rice water deep conditioner by curl gang coming up. I'm looking at some stuff in front of me and kriya not kiera Girl, I did the coaxes to start a brand. No Kriya botanical shipped out my products. I ordered some low ferocity products from her I ordered the deep conditioner they leave in the shampoo bar and a styler. I'm so excited Um, and I may put her jump her before the ors. I have the ors wash table ors coming up I have a wet line with the uh texture. I'm looking at some of the stuff y'all wet line with texture id coming up y'all. I did have a Detainment comparison coming up with v05 versus suave But some of this stuff. I don't think y'all can be able to find Because I've never seen it before. Let me show you real quick. I have seen it, but I thought it was v05 Swabs juicy green apple and I was gonna compare her to I'm gonna compare this to the kiwi. That's what I thought it was. Y'all know what I'm talking about kiwi by v05 That's what I'm gonna compare it to but we ain't gonna do that Yeah, we ain't gonna do that right now either. So couple of yeah, couple of those reviews coming up um And wrapping it up y'all. I'm gonna be ordering the mesh products soon. And yeah y'all