 that aspect. I like to have some level of control over my life, because if we were to break up, then I'd be left on my own with all these skills that I haven't practiced in like ages and ages and ages. And, you know, sometimes for me it was about saying, like, I appreciate that you're trying to help me with these things, but could you ask before you help me with it, you know, instead of just doing it? Like, is that partner-versed care and mentality to dating an autistic person? For sure. And I guess it's about making sure that a situation, whether it's a romantic relationship or any sort of relationship, there's an element of equality and reciprocity there. Two partners can be incredibly different, have different skills. It's important though one partner skills are not valued more than the other.