 I always go back to the fact that I am his wife, not his mother. My job is not to teach him, my job is not to discipline him, my job is not to slap him on the wrist when he does something wrong or makes an incorrect choice or a bad decision. My job is to support him, to encourage him when he's feeling like uncertain to say, just make the choice, whatever the choice is, make the choice, and it will be okay. There could be some tough times, there could be some rough times, there could be some great times. I never promised a rose garden or a smooth ride. I make some wrong decisions, but making the wrong decisions is not really the problem, it's about making that decision right. One thing for sure is she'll never rub it in my face or say I told you so, she'll just quietly yield to my steering of the ship and then even if I have to admit you were right and I got to turn around, still zip.