 What's going on you guys? Welcome to the single guy channel. My name is Lloyd. So lately in my programs I've been going over a lot of guys's dating profiles and helping them out with the online dating stuff So in this video, I thought I'd kind of talk a little bit about the three mistakes that I see most commonly happen with guys Over the online dating Okay, so if you want more information about this, I'm actually gonna be doing a free webinar this Saturday on it So I would highly recommend that you attend that if you feel like it would be useful for you So I'm gonna give you a couple sneak peeks of kind of what's gonna be included in that webinar some of the stuff that I talk about with my various clients and Yeah, let's just get started. Okay thing one I would say probably the first thing that I noticed that a lot of guys do is they pick the wrong dating app First of all, all the dating apps exist because there's different niches There's different types of women that are going to be using that dating app Some dating apps are better for certain things. Some dating apps are terrible for certain things, you know But I see generically people will usually just Download Tinder or maybe bumble or something like that and they try that and they think okay Yeah, online dating doesn't work for me because Tinder and bumble don't work for them Tinder and bumble are pretty aggressive like hook-up apps Not hook-up apps. There's definitely people dating on them But there's way more men than there are on Tinder than there are women I think it's like 70% men So obviously Tinder might not be the best place for you if you're looking for a girlfriend say maybe coffee meets bagel Or another dating app would be really good. I myself don't do crazy. Well on Tinder So I don't use it that much. I use other apps that work better for me You know, it's not that I don't get matches off there I get plenty matches, but it's just not really the kinds of girls that I'm always looking for So you should pick the app that is gonna work the best for you Okay, think two They don't respond quickly enough I see this happen all the time with clients where they have their dating profile created They get a match and then for whatever reason they don't message the girl back very quickly or they try and look cool and wait a while Or maybe they forget about it or something like that and then they you know message them later You should message as quickly as you can and I'm not saying like break your back to answer a message But like the way women are on online dating is kind of like the way some men are is they are only on it for a Short amount of time usually a girl is on it for like, you know two weeks or a month or something like that You know, that's that's pretty long time for women to be on it And then she kind of gets burnt out and then she doesn't really use it that much anymore Maybe she meets a guy sleep to them or doesn't it doesn't go that well or whatever it is It usually they're on it for a short period of time and there's gonna be a bunch of other guys that are messaging her too You know women even if she's like an average looking or above average looking woman She's getting a lot of matches if you know, she's if she's swiping so Keep that in mind when you're messaging girl physical that you potentially might like You know make sure you get back to her with a reasonable amount of time. Otherwise, you're leaving a lot of opportunities on the table Okay thing three the final thing is they don't really spend a whole lot of time on their pictures So I've seen some profiles. I've seen not some I've seen many many profiles And I would say the majority of guys the photos they put on there are pretty terrible So if you're a guy who's like just slop together a few photos Maybe they have selfies and are like the lighting's not good Don't expect to get very many matches and don't think that okay Well, I've tried online dating and it doesn't work for me because I've seen so many guys say this and I look at their profile And it's like dude, like are you even trying to attract a woman with this like? You know boggles my mind So I understand that for a lot of guys. They don't really like taking pictures They think it's kind of superficial and so that's kind of some limiting beliefs that I have to distill and you know Look, I was like that too guys, you know, I was a guy who came into this dating business Pretty much wanting to people to only talk in person like that was one of the things that I set out to do And when I begin to realize is that as the modern world develops especially with this quarantine lockdown situation that we have You know your digital profile is gonna be a lot more important as time goes on So I would recommend that you not neglect it Obviously your digital profile is only one aspect of you as a person that they're gonna decide whether they like you or not Or sleep with you or date you whatever it is so but having not having it there You're missing out for the other people that do take the time to do it And that's what I teach a lot of my clients a lot of times is how to take good pictures how to make sure they're showing the best Size in themselves and attract the kind of women that they're looking for you know if they're looking for just to hook up You know or whatever if they're looking for a girl They're gonna date the type of girl that they want to sleep with or date those types of things are the things that I'm really thinking about when you know, I'm helping them create their profiles and everything so That I would say like a lot of guys you could put a lot more work into their pictures And don't think okay. Well, I put these pictures on online dating doesn't work for me No, you know try those photos out if they don't work try some more photos take some more photos by yourself and See what see what you can come up with I mean it's not just like you try out online dating and it doesn't work for you Like you can get better at just the same way that you can get better as Socializing and talking to women, you know your profile can improve over time as you get better photos You get better at expressing yourself through that medium. Yes, it is a small window But learning how to express yourself better is a skill just like anything else and that's something that I'm really going to Be talking about a lot on this webinar this Saturday So if you're interested to learn more I would recommend that you sign up for the mailing list down below again It's free and I'm gonna be picking three guys again three guys They're gonna have the opportunity to win a $3,000 plus coaching package with me It's bare minimum $3,000 coaching package So if you want the chance to win that attend the meeting otherwise you're probably gonna learn some great stuff, too So I'd love to see you there. Thanks a lot you guys good luck out there