 how to destroy the narcissist it is actually very easy to destroy the narcissist it is not difficult to hurt them because they are very weak and fragile they have an inflated ego but it's like a balloon if you fill it with air it's more likely to burst they have an exaggerated estimate of their own value and importance they have an inflated feeling of pride in their superiority to other people even though they have seen accomplished and achieved little in life which makes them very vulnerable to criticism and rejection it makes them very sensitive to other people's success because they think they are the best so when they see someone who might be better in some way it makes them feel inferior many people look at narcissists like their monsters or demons but they're really not that strong they're actually some of the easiest people to hurt it's very easy to bruise their egos it's very easy to make them feel less valuable and important because they have fragile egos they're very delicate and vulnerable they're easily threatened and destroyed because they're very insecure they feel like no matter what they do no matter how much they succeed no matter how good they look it's never enough so they're very anxious to challenge or avoid criticism they always have something to prove because they feel like they're not enough they try to conceal their weaknesses and insecurities they pretend to be strong and usually people fall for it but the truth is that they're weak and fragile they're easily hurt and offended they're paranoid and hyper-vigilant they're always scanning the environment for threats and if it's not a compliment they see it as an insult so if you want to destroy the narcissist just move on with your life show them that you don't need them by proving to yourself that you don't need them by developing your confidence and maturity by loving yourself unconditionally and when you move on and do better without them it destroys them because they don't think you can do better you have to prove to yourself that you don't need them by focusing on yourself and living well by looking after your health by finding pleasure in small moments because that is the ultimate revenge against the narcissist it destroys them but don't waste your time telling them about it don't try to hurt them just do you let go of your anger and resentment don't let it weigh you down don't let it hold you back from being your best self you don't need to show them anything you don't need to prove it that's what narcissists do they go on social media and they post pictures you don't need to do that you don't need to show them your moves you just need to start doing the things that you used to do the things that you used to enjoy the things they said that you couldn't do but don't do it to hurt them do it because you enjoy doing it because when you do that they know they can't affect you they know they've lost control of you it destroys them because they know you don't care about them they know you don't care about what they're doing you're indifferent you've lost all hope and expectation of things working out with them because you realize that everything you liked about them was just a reflection of yourself they reflected it back to you they mirrored you they showed you things that you liked about yourself things that you were interested in so they used your own qualities against you by reflecting them back to you so this problem just comes down to you recognizing your own high moral standards you have to recognize your own strengths you have to realize how great of a person you are and what you have to offer thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you please like comment share and subscribe if you would like to donate my PayPal link is in the video description coach the inquiries you can email me at coach.nag survivor at the crew UK thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon