 I don't keep this car. I don't grow cuz it's already summer time Phoenix, at least I'm gonna roll down the windows It is Tuesday, I just got back from Really, I just got back from the dealership You guys with a new car you get stuff for free for like with my vehicle I got it for free everything's free for the first two years under the warranty And so I got one more thing to do in the summertime before I have to start paying for it Because the car is two years old at this point anyway kind of sort of so I'm up here at the Dollar Tree because I'm gonna get ready to go inside Because yeah, I'm corny. I am one of those people that schedule spring cleaning I've been doing this for years and they just helped me because we have a fairly large house We're just three of us and there's certain areas that I don't go in. Yes, I clean it But there's certain areas that do get neglected because I'm like I ain't got time for that. Yes. I'm at home But I'm tired y'all I didn't stuff. I'm not just sitting at home You know looking at the at the at the ceiling, you know, it's a bit we're fairly busy. So Yesterday I cleaned the counter. Yeah, yesterday I cleaned the countertops, but then today I'm going to Sanitize the entire countertops and I'm also going to clean the What is it all the cupboards and stuff like that? So yeah, I've scheduled not every day But at least five days out of the week to do something major in the house So I'm here at the dollar store to get a couple of more cleaning objects and some other stuff that I want to get I've been thinking about getting and I'm also taking JB supplemental homeschooling very serious So at least every two weeks, I'm buying something up here to help with his homeschooling He is doing really well you guys very well that little book I saw him read those are Bob's book I know some of you are familiar with those big books He knows how to read that book by himself now I mean it only took two weeks for him. They really grasped that he does his little chubby finger. Oh, it's so cute He goes across and he reads I don't even help him, you know, I let him, you know Try to say it. So I don't want to just focus on, you know, reading English and all that literature I also want to incorporate other things. So I'm this well last month we started looking into Let me let them drive off because they clearly they decided to drive their F 350 to the Dollar Tree today. I Just have to go ahead and crack up my car and just you know, the guy's hot It's 78 degrees right now. It's not hot, but it's warming up. They were driving off now girl They four by four whatever the hell this is anyway, so Oh, so yeah last month we started talking about the earth and I let him know that we don't plan earth that we live in Phoenix He knows we live in Arizona And just you know, let him know how things are. Yeah, I think that is a as a parent It is our responsibility to teach our children and ultimately it's our our Responsibility to help our children to be successful Productive I should say don't necessarily system but productive adults be resourceful So this is why I've taught JB how to get hot at the house how taught JB how to doubt 911 He's know how to do that from the age of four He knows how to unlock my phone. These are things that I you know, and I have a list So I'm gonna go ahead and create I have a mental list of things I want to teach him as he gets older how to sew on a button or how to mend his clothes You know how many people my age don't even know how to hell how to even thread a needle Yeah, so anyway, let's start off basic. So anyway Yeah, we discussed, you know the earth and the universe and all this stuff And so this month we're gonna be showing going through excuse me a plant cycle but it's more than just that because I can put a Worksheet of a plant cycle in front of him, but it helps if we go to Lowe's and he sees different plants Okay, and this is what a cactus looks like. This is a tomato plant. This is a leaf This is a branch. I love this age because they're so willing to learn and to him going to Lowe's, you know at five years Oh, that's exciting, you know, so and with the discussing space we do have a Space shuttle challenger it's got a space shuttle challenger museum out here So I was supposed to have done it last month, but this month We will go to the space shuttle and I'll take y'all with me to see how it is So, yeah, you know try to be a little bit more hands-on with the things that I'm teaching him so that it will stick Okay, like I said, that's gonna help more than worksheets, but let me go in here and get some stuff There was something else. I want to tell y'all about speaking up. Did I tell you about my hair? I think I did. So yes, that's coming up. I did get my hair products in look. I was so happy For a second this morning. I thought I had found my wooden comb and I didn't so I do have that Felicia leather what comb I know a couple of you were like, well that you thought it was sold out. It's sold out on Amazon. I don't know what I Don't know why because she clearly has She clearly has products on her on our website So that's why I got the brush from because yes I've had this sitting in my cart waiting there and it keeps saying it's it's been months and it's saying it's sold out So I don't know if she has an updated her quantity through Amazon or what? But you need to go through her website to order it and it was some money It was $19 including shipping, which is why I was trying to get it through Amazon So I could get that free shipping over the certain dollar amount. So anyway, what's the point? I will be doing my wash day this week. So I completely forgot I have one more L.A.K. after this product to do and quite frankly you guys I was a little bombed out on Her line. I mean out of all the products I've tried so far It's been a hit or miss so I have tried her lemongrass before But it's not something that and it's it's a great product, but it's not something that was like a while I have to go out and get that lemongrass Spray because for me personally, I prefer Jane Carter's leaving spray that spray is I'm a bit Frustrated hold on y'all I'm gonna show you what I got from the store Hold on. I need to calm the hell down. I Have literally spent this is the thing about my job Why is it so dark in here? Just just a second y'all I'm all over the place because I literally spent freakin Nearly an hour putting out a fire in my job. I got my workout clothes on clearly have it gone to the gym I received a letter from my doctor's office that was basically like oh The person you see no longer accepts your insurance and I'm like what you know, I have a repertoire with her You know we cool. She gives me the inside tea on what's going on in a doctor's office, too And so I call I call today cuz I'm like look I need some I need some was an ex y'all I'm not I'm not ashamed to say that I'm on a daily anxiety pill that I really can't tell if shit is working or not But Xanax is what you get when you really need something. I'm on a very low dosage I'm not on and I literally I Can tell you right now. This is like, you know how How limited oh, what's the word? That is not something that I am all the time. I've only needed three refills in nearly two years. Yeah girl, so So anyway, sorry y'all um Call the doctor's office and was like I need an appointment. I'll come in tomorrow. I don't care I'll come in they're like, okay, cool. We'll put you in the morning get home. I'm like, okay What can I do y'all? I'm always the type of person. I do not like to waste time I'm always up running around the only time I am sitting down on the couch laying down is after five o'clock I kid you not. I am on my feet most of the time Just it's just how I am especially since I've had a child. So anyway, um Hey, get home. I look around like okay. What can I do real quick to clean up? So I cleaned up or straighten up my mouth the floors I wiped down the The cabinets because that's part of my spring cleaning for today So I did all of that wipe it down real quick and I took my work email works going good I catch up on them watching stuff then I get a red flag email red explanation point Vivian The people can't find the materials for this class. I'm like, there's no materials for this class 10 minutes go by she sends me a long-ass email Basically saying looks like you dropped the ball, you know the very passive aggressive way and I'm not gonna get into the details But like I said before you never know who watches your videos the thing about my job you guys I manage our course content and I create training sessions for our clients I'm not doing internal because people ain't doing that right so I'm doing internal classes too So I have a lot of classes that I set up between 20 and 30 a month But then sister woman manages close to 500 courses in the system That's a lot from one person. So they're clad don't know I'm sorry short I'm up here having anxiety for something that really at the end of the day wasn't even in my fault. So I Save everything. I'm gonna save everything and this is I like to use things as a learning lesson I could sit up here because I even I even sent her and I am and she she avoided me This I know you passive aggressive. I'm like, okay, do you have a minute to speak? I sent her a message No comment. She was she locked off girl after after five minutes of seeing that she locked up. Okay good Well, we have a team in our so I'm gonna bring this up. This is a great learning experience for the entire team to say look This is what happened This is what doesn't need to happen in the future. And this is what we can do to avoid pissing Vivian off So let me show y'all what I got. I've got a clipboard for this is homeschooling stuff I mostly got homeschooling stuff Some toilet bowl cleaner, I got some real low Gloves you guys I typically be I'm really really good about wearing gloves because I do have acrylic nails, baby Every time I go to the not every time but the nail technicians have commented T9 Tom on how great my nail looks in my nail bit looks because I'm like, yeah I got some glue sticks because I'm still making JB. This is how I make JB's craft stuff You guys I keep glue sticks on So as I mentioned earlier, maybe I didn't not remember one of the activities We're going to be doing this month as far as homeschooling is plant cycles. So I decided why not purchase Actual plants let's grow some so I have I don't know if this stuff is gonna plant I bought some soil. Did you know they sell soil? I got some soil. I got some seeds here We have some house plant these fertilizer spikes. Okay. Okay, so that's the activity we can do another cleaning supply This is just for dusting This is to catch the water under the household plants and Some brillo pads. I got glue sticks. I have some money cards for me rubber bands. Yeah So I'm probably JB. I told him he's so sweet y'all this age I call it the sweet and sour age one minute. It's sour as hell acting crazy the next minute. He's so sweet Last night. He looked at me. He said are you are you proud of me, too? It's all I you know nudge my husband I said so I think he just needed reassurance JB is like that, you know He now he knows how to read his book by himself. I'm y'all about to cry. I need to stop Think it was that one And he looks up at me, you know, he'll read one he'll look up. I'm like, that's really good JB So it's you gotta do that to your kids. You gotta pour into your kids at a young age So because as they get older and we know this and I know y'all some of y'all got grandkids Hell as they get older There's gonna be so many people trying to take away from them and get at them So as long as you are continuously pouring in I'm learning they'll be all right. So let me go Shout out to ronda aka mr. Like full honey. I had to watch your video twice y'all she has it I'ma link um, maybe I won't bow I'll let y'all know I'll link her channel below Um, so you can check out her video and the video is titled. I think it's like uh YouTube shooting and people flexing on social media and all that Girl, I was everything that you said I completely agree with you to the point I was like she is preaching. I may need to see her sending her my time and money girl So she basically was saying how You have people who are families husband wives kids, etc And they're always on youtube social media in general in my opinion But youtube is different because you're taking the time to put Put out your camera be on cam Uploaded if you edit if you into editing editing and that takes time y'all it takes a lot of time Hey girl, I low key know who you were talking about when you're gonna go there But I have been noticing a lot more youtubers doing live Um videos going live and I'm like what the hell what's going on now some people I can dig I don't mind them going live and I watched them like who was that um Shout out to shelly etch hutcheson. She went live the other day. I tried to catch it, but I had stuff to do I think I I logged in and I had to log that I did it twice. So I don't know if you saw me. Um, But I like shelly. So I think and I she's real. I know she ain't doing this front and and stuff, you know for youtubers, um But you have other people who don't and to ronda's point and you have heard me talk about this before You have to know where to unplug From social media. Y'all see me do it. I'll take Two months a month away. Um, I'm about to take another two months here in may due to my surgery but my ass is not coming back until july because I need a break. I need a break You welcome, baby You see your gifts your surprises Well, it's back again You getting a little tan jaby. You getting dark for the summertime. So cute Oh my goodness Oh It's okay Yummy, what's the surprise though? Oh my gosh, what was the surprise? Are you hungry jaby? We're not gonna eat that. Okay You can be jb. You can't eat chocolate all day I don't really want you having that one Yes, you're not gonna eat that you could just open it No eating it. You can open it up though Marshmallow. You can taste it. You want to taste it? Yummy, but That's enough fat fat. Mm-hmm, baby Let's Oh It is 79 degrees according to my thermostat, but I don't think it's 79 outside because temperature is dropping Temperature is rising Um Speaking of it's friday and I'm ready to swing It's bad All right, baby So It is friday I know I made confused you guys a little bit. Let me pick this up because I can see it's messing up Um, because I did a quite a bit of Same video Okay, baby I did a quite a bit of filming earlier this week and typically I start on my vlogs on fridays But yes, it is fridays. Have a cup friday. It is JB. Okay. Okay, baby. Okay. I have a couple of things after run. I gotta go to to staples I know they're tired of seeing me y'all. It's just so convenient It's so convenient for me and it Half the time they don't charge me Because I'm only printing out four or five items, but anyway Going to go to staples then I gotta go His school sent me an invoice for like six bucks I'm like girl six dollars seriously. So I gotta go buy the school pay him pay them I just gotta run a few errands. I need to mill off my um registration form for my high school union that's in september Y'all that's gonna be Oh Y'all I've made JB an appointment with the stylus For next friday because his hair is a mess and I just need to get it get it even up The only thing I told job boss. She does a good job Huh, baby That's right It's okay, baby. Come on. Let me get my purse together Anyway, the only thing I don't like about that shop is that it's more of an adult shop And they've been they were using heavy language. So we're our appointment is early like we're getting there at nine o'clock So hopefully those people are not there. Um, we went on a saturday in mid afternoon Can you get a hamster? Oh, no, no, no, mama's allergic to all that. Mm-hmm They just open Yeah, y'all we're here to get bandy bandy fish Oh god I don't like the smell of petco. Oh, I don't feel good. Oh my god Okay, baby, let's just go to the yeah, I'm allergic to everything. I'm allergic to dogs saliva everything. Oh, this fish is beautiful Look at that fish. That fish is beautiful And bandy doesn't make it we can get that I shouldn't say We're gonna pray over bandy every day that he makes it These are females are smaller. Okay, baby. Let's look for Um The beta mirror Well, I'm looking for here we go. This is what I'm looking for. This is what we want because they Is this small beta leaf new larch size All right, so here are our materials. We went over we went over it before we came outside right jay b Yeah My closet I'm gonna show y'all when I'm gonna be born for my it's my anniversary next week I love me some Tony Tony Tony um Today was a rough day for jay b. It is Saturday, by the way And I didn't really want to vlog that much which I'm kind of god. I'm not youtube is crazy um My cooking video that I uploaded last week is like a few days ago It released my my goal is to do a cooking video monthly So now you help us are probably expecting that. No, let me let you know right now The cooking videos were not becoming that fast because it takes time and I wanted to include the recipe and that video just I became public and I wanted to only schedule one cooking video a month So what I'm going to do because I don't trust youtube at this point. This is like the third time this has happened to me Um, I'm just gonna start uploading videos when I'm about to release it like within 24 or 48 hours um It's been a rough week today has been a little bit rough for jay b. We went to the park And we just randomly met some people from his old school some women and some of his friends He was having a hard time first. He scraped his knee and cried and cried I've never seen him cry that hard But I think it was because he was in front of other people and they were looking at him and girl the Dramatics came on went to the store literally left the park and there's there's a CVS right across the street Got him a huge ass band aid put it on his leg. He walked around And then he took off his shoes and I told him I told him I see and he put the shoes back on But he went to be like his little friends run around with no shoes A few minutes later he came up crying something else He said he stepped on something. I don't know what he stepped on Like he said he burnt his foot and so By the time we got home and I looked at it sure enough You know how sometimes Depending on where the burn is that his foot is a little discolored and I'm like, oh my god so I girl I wrapped that foot up so I put some um burn ointment on it and I put some guys I wrapped it up in like four feet of tape and I put two huge band aids on the yard This is just appease him because it since he wants to be extra. I'm being extra So his foot is all banded up like a damn cast and he's walking around limping around So he's taking a nap now like all of that crying and stuff. He's taking a nap And just something to do for my anniversary. I'm going to have my nails redone And my um wedding how I had them for my wedding. So I did it Uh Lilac, yeah, no, I can't pronounce shit. What is it called lilac opal old school girl old school Um, and then they're going to do glitter Tina or Tom So let me show you what I'm going to be wearing for when we go out to eat now I was thinking I could buy a cute little sexy dress because I don't really wear dresses out Um, I could kind of one hand how many times I've worn dresses when we were first dating I would wear them a lot because I know he liked them but y'all I don't be going to dress and all that and be cute And sexy and I could be I could be sexy in jeans So I got me some new Stone wash jeans are very cute something. I've never I tried something new. I'm trying something new and yellow I don't have anything yellow. Isn't this bright? But these are the jeans aren't these cute These cute right and um, I'm gonna wear these shoes y'all. I I yeah I'm gonna just wear these shoes. Yeah Um, and then I got my white purse over here that cleaned off. Can I see her? Can y'all see her? Oh, oh, you can see that long titty too. Excuse me y'all and that's my Yeah, we got her over here getting it together. So yes, girl So yeah, that is it for this vlog you guys. Um I don't know if I will vlog for next week just because I need to get a lot of stuff done. I'm so sorry, but Um, I will have the allocate naturals. No, no, no main choice I recorded that that's coming up and I'll do my get ready with me video for friday And I'll really sit on saturday. So that'll be two videos, but vlogging I don't know. So I'll see y'all like two more weeks then as far as vlogging goes. All right y'all. Bye