 So CJ says what about someone wanting attention or demands attention all the time every day and then gets upset when I don't respond to his messages on time or constantly nagging a bit LDR. Yeah, I mean what that usually says is that he's insecure and that he's he might have a an anxious attachment. And so it's one of those things where you're going to have to get used to this right if this is something that he's doing now he's going to be doing this forever. And so you got to realize that that's what's going on and you have to decide whether that's something that you want to deal with forever or not right that's. You know what it is that you know like a lot of women come in they're like okay this guy's doing this, you know, what should I do and it's like, he's going to be doing that forever. There's no way to stop him from doing that. Right. He has to decide that he you know he has to do some healing or some, you know, worthiness stuff in order for him to feel like he doesn't need to, you know, constantly get all of your attention. And if he does that then he can be in a healthier spot and you can have more of a regular relationship with him. But if he doesn't do that which he probably won't if he hasn't already and hasn't started doing already, then you have to decide whether that's something that you want to deal with all the time. There are other issues that might end up coming up because he does that and it's it's only going to get worse. It's going to get worse before it gets better if it ever gets better which probably won't it'll probably just keep getting worse. Because what you're going to end up doing is you're going to start pulling back and leaning back and be like whoa whoa I need some space and all that kind of stuff. And if he's getting angry about that. It's just he's going to get more. He's going to lose more and more and more power in the relationship, and you're just going to gain it and gain it and gain it and he's going to think you're the most amazing woman in the world. And then he's going to start getting spiteful because he's insecure, and he's not confident in himself. And the next thing you know he's going to be blaming you for things and he's going to be angry and stuff and so if I were you I'd probably get out of that situation and get into a healthier situation with somebody who's got a better attachment style and more confidence and security in himself because that's not going away anytime soon.