 There's Hatton in Maggisise, but God that wields the dark mill ne'er has returned. Turn to your question, as the Maggisite movement marches forward, 18,000 strong. Now, what do you set me question, and I assume that you'll have much experience in dating asking me this question, and that's fine. But it is painfully obvious what you should do, but you chose to ask me. So I'm going to clarify it for you, because I know that as a man fear paralyzes you sometimes, because you don't want to be shot down, you don't want rejection. So you second guess yourself when something is obvious. Okay, so for example, this is what the guy asked me in short, there's a real short email. He basically said that there's this girl that he wants to ask out. He's in great shape, but his face is not much to look at. He can tell that she really likes him. What should he do? What the fuck do you mean? What should you do? Ask her out. That's what you should do. You know what that's like me saying? That's like saying, there's this company that wants to hire me. I have all the qualifications, but my typing isn't that great. Well, if I have all the qualifications, and I'm the only one worried about my typing, why don't I just accept the job? You get what I'm saying? This girl you're telling me is telling you that you said for sure you're sure that she likes you. So then you tell me that you got, you're in great shape, but your face isn't much to look at. What should you do? Your face apparently has nothing to do with the situation. She already likes you. She already wants you. Your face is your concern. You see that? You're worried about something that the girl isn't even worried about. You get what I'm saying? That's why I'm saying fear must be paralyzing you, making your logic center malfunction. I'm going to give you a story about myself, something that I did years ago. And I fucked up the relationship. It was my fault. And I got praised for pulling this girl. I mean, praised. This was just like, yo, it's our room and that girl is bad. I mean, this is what happened. There was this club that I used to frequent a few years ago, right? Brown I would say, what the hell was I? I was around 21, 20 or 21. And it was this club I used to go to. And when I would get there, there was this girl that was always staring at me, always staring at me. And she looked good. She was bad for weeks on end. Every single Friday I'd be at the club and she'd be staring at me every single time. Do you realize that there are men that would have been at the club one night? Saw her staring and approached. No. I said, I can guess myself. What should I do? Does she really like me? Does she really want me? Does she really want me? It took me literally almost two months of Fridays of her staring at me for me to finally approach. Two months. Do you know what could have happened in that time? She could have got a boyfriend. And I just said, fuck, she's staring at me so much. I'm just going to walk up to her. And she was literally with another guy. He was holding her like she was his, but he was only a friend. And I knew he had to be only a friend for her to be staring at me like that. So I walked up to her and said, why don't you give me your number before you leave? She was like, okay. That was it. I saw her when we were all leaving. I asked her for her number. She was like, no, let me take yours. I was like, what? You think I'm pretty? She was like, no, I just want to take yours. She called me the very next morning. There you go. Okay. My insecurities, my shortcomings that I was so worried about. She was not. You understand that? When someone wants you, they want you. If you, if your judgment is clear, okay? Because sometimes, you know, we'd be off. Guys think a girl wants them and they really don't. So if you're absolutely sure that she wants you, ask her out because everything that you're worried about has nothing to do with what she wants. Okay. Understand that. I will never in my life turn down a woman that wants me and I'm concerned about something else. Like, oh, shit. I didn't get cut enough yet. What if she wants to have sex on the first date and my abs ain't totally etched? I mean, you get what I'm saying? Like, what the fuck is that? She don't care. She doesn't care. You know, and girls do the same thing. I've heard that girls sometimes will avoid a guy or won't go out with him because they're afraid of how much weight they have. Or, you know, whatever it is, they have this insecurity. Oh, he wouldn't want me because he just, he's staring at you every day. He smiles at you. He says hello. He talks to you. He takes time to talk to you. He goes out his way to talk to you or invite you to lunch and all this shit and you're avoiding him because of your own insecurities. And he's already a guy you would want. You see, the girl at the club was bad as hell. I've seen her recently. She didn't fucking fell off. But back then, she was bad. And like I said, you know, I mean, she was a trophy girlfriend, you know? Oh, she never became my girlfriend because guess what? The fear seeped into the beginning of us getting to know each other. Never kissed her. Never got romantic with her. Guess what? She put me in the fucking friend zone, exactly where I deserved to be for not having the balls to be a man and kiss her and take it to the next level. I've been all scared and it's the right time and it gave me so many fucking signals and I look back on it. She gave me so many signals that, you know, it was a live movie. Y'all have been like, kiss her, you fucking idiot! Kiss her! Do something! You get what I'm saying? So I'm done answering this question. Alright, fellas, do not deny the obvious. Do not let the obvious go, okay? Because if a girl wants you, once you really learn to sink in with that gut feeling, you're gonna know. If you know, then if you want to ask her out. 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