 How many times we've made promises to people or we have contracts with people we've agreed on something and then we back off You know how bad it is to back off on a contract. It's like a marriage. You know why marriage is so important. It's a contract. I Don't care if your wife is not good or your husband's not good It's a contract and you respect it When you marry a person male or female That woman who's giving herself to you and that man who's giving himself to her. It's a contract Sure, it's not rosy. No marriage dares to be rosy I remember when I got married the first thing I say even in my marriage night I say I do not believe my marriage has a golden path It's my spouse and I that will build the golden path together through trials and tribulations Otherwise, there is no golden path. No fool yourselves of thinking of some rosy idea of a prince kissing a princess And they lived happily ever after it's fictitious. It's not true Doesn't exist. So we have problems. Who doesn't have problems unless you are Superpious on both sides you minimize those problems, but it's a contract and there's a beauty to the contract I want you stick with it. You stick with it Till death unless you have to break it. It's not working. This is where divorce comes into play Otherwise, you live with it thick and thin. It's a contract just like a business It's a contract the admiration of a couple is when they both adhere to the contract believe me Allah has built a system that if husband and wife from two parts of the world if they adhere to the contract of Allah and they put Allah as their sign I mean I had to and hala come in and fussy come as Wajan let us come to it. I wa jala bein a cumma wadda to warrah ma inna fiddalika. I had to Lecomia to faker on office signs is he made mates from yourselves. It's a contract if you don't keep this contract And you violate where you leave your wife behind and you seek another woman out there You're violating a contract. So no, no, it's my right. I can marry another. No, it's not our right brothers I specifically say to the brothers. It is not our right. This is wrong You think our women are objects? No, they're passionate and compassionate and sisters too. We're married. We're busy talking to other men Haram, it's a contract brothers and sisters and don't think it's a limitation It's where growth takes place believe me any other way is the limitation contract hold on to it and Argue with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and say oh Allah, please Rabbanah ablanam inna zuwajina wa durriyatina qurra ta'ayun Wa jaalna lil muttaqina imama Put love between us and make them beautiful to our eyes and our children too Hmm and make us leaders among the pious. This is a great du'atari if the husband and wife read it Impossible for the two to fight Possible because they're parallel lines now because they're both going towards Allah and they will understand See Ruhama'll be in a home. They are merciful with each other