 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم وحمده بإلهي رب العالمين نحمده ونسبحه ونبتسه على أله ونعمانه ونشرب الله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له إلها واحداً أحداً فرداً صمداً قيوما ونشرب أن مسيدا محمد العبد الله رسوله أرسله بحب دا ودين الحق الوظهره على دين كله محمد صلي وسلم وبارك وترحم على محمد وآله محمد كأبضي ما صليت وسلمت وبارك وترحمت على إبراهيم وآله إبراهيم في العالمين أنك حميل المجيد وصب اللهم وسلم على خلفاء نبيك وأصيائه وأهل بيته وأحبته علينا أمير المؤمنين وقائد الغور المحجمين وعلى المضعة الطاهرة فاضمة الزهراء سيدة مساء العالمين وعلى سبطي نبي الرحمة وسيدة الشباب يا أهل الجنة والحسن والحسين عليهم السلام وعلى علي ابن الحسين ومحمد ابن علي وجعفل ابن محمد وموسى ابن جعفر وعلى ابن موسى ومحمد ابن علي وعلى ابن محمد والحسن ابن علي والخلف الهادي المهدي عجل الله تعالى فرجه وسهل مخرجه وجعلنا من أصاله وأهوانه إباد الله أصيكم وأصي نفسي بتقوى الله ورزوه من أمره عوض الله من الشيطان الرجيم بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم ويوم يعطو الظالم على يديه يقول يا ليتن اتخذت مع الرسول سبيلا يا ويلة ليتني لم أتخذ فلانا خليلا مقد أظلني عن الذكري بعد إذجاءني وكان الشيطان للإنسان خذولا صدق الله العلير عظيم الله فرصة من أصفال الأخي بشخص مجموعة من أصفال أخي بشخص مجموعة هو مجموعة ومجموعة ويوجد مدعوطة ومجموعة بعض الناس يعملون على أصدقائهم في 20 سنوات أصدقائهم يأتي في ثلاثة سنوات والذي يعملون كل هذا العمل ويعملون هذا العمل والذي سيصدقائهم ويصدقائهم ويعملون ويعملون أفضل العمل بإمكانهم إخبارهم ويصدقائهم بعض الناس يصدقائهم جدًا ويصدقائهم ويصدقائهم ويصدقائهم ويصدقائهم هذا is why we have to be extra careful in choosing our friends those that you want to spend your time with them because whether you like it or not they will impact your life they will draw the direction for you in this life even if you deny even if you say no in the beginning I'm not going to have this person influencing me after a period of time slowly slowly the influence maybe you don't notice but others they notice it's going to appear on you on your lifestyle on your temperament on your behavior on your character and therefore I said this many times here it is always important that we are good with people you greet them you ask about them you connect with them but don't take any person as a friend not any person or all people are worthy to be your friends friends are something else in our regular society we have acquaintances people that we greet we speak to at school in the market outside inside but then we have friends that we have to select those have to be of a special character not just any person sometimes we say oh my friends but we really don't mean it real friendship is even bigger than a brother or sister higher so we have to be careful in choosing them you know friend you have to find the three important characters three important traits and these are mentioned by اميل المؤمنين علي يبرا بيضاره علي صلط وصر اميل المؤمنين says الصديق الصدوق the true friend is the one who has these three characters if really he does not have forget about forget about calling him a friend call him a brother in the community a member of the community call him a dear one to me it's okay don't take him as a friend friends are special very special he says the first one الصديق الصدوق من نصحك في عيبك the one who provides you the true advice when you do wrong عيبك is the false the defects and we have defects we all have defects so he is the one who comes to you and he tells you with full honesty and truth because he loves you because he cares about you because he looks a true progress his own progress and your failure his own failure this is why he cares about you so he comes and he tells you what's wrong with you and you have to accept that you should not get hurt because he tells you that this something is true and you should thank him when he comes you should thank your friend when he comes and tells you there is a problem in this area you have to revisit this area and what you said in what you did in your behavior in your relationship with your family with your friends with your neighbors you have to accept that amirul mu'mineer says خير الأصحاب المعين على طاعة الله the best friend the friends are good but the best among them the one who gets you closer to God what does that mean it means when you do something wrong he comes you will enjoy the good and forbid you from evil so don't get disturbed don't get annoyed you have to ask you have to thank him for that this is number one من نصحك في عيلك what we see is the opposite that when you give an advice to someone hold hearted me with full honesty with full integrity with full love they misinterpret that unfortunately they misinterpret that this is number one من نصحك في عيلك the second وحثظك في غيلك when you are absent غيلك when you are not in that session he defends you he protects your back some people he smiles in your face he holds you he secuses your ribs are almost broken he hugs you but then as soon as you are missing you are on the outside you leave he backs down he starts his rumors against you he starts things that are true and true real not real this is not صليق don't take this as a friend yes greet him I'm not saying declare war against him treat respect him greet him but don't take him as a friend don't take this person as a friend because this person is going to betray you this person either has sickness or jealousy or something like that and then people come to you families and individual and they say why this person is talking against you isn't he your friend you hear from people that this person wherever he goes he speaks against you this is not a true friend the true friend is the one that stands up for justice and truth when someone attacks you and you are not there he will defend you he will be your attorney he will defend you he will say no this is not true he is not here but his lord is here Allah is here Allah can listen Allah can see and thus the hadith says ابدل لصديقك كل ودك ولا تبدل له كل طمخينة even with the closest friends give him his full give him your full love but don't give him your full trust don't give him your full trust sometimes a friend close friend will turn against him one day and he will use all these to put them on WikiLeaks all your buckets on WikiLeaks so don't trust people love people but don't trust don't trust a hundred percent there is only small percentage of people that you really can trust their wisdom and their integrity and their honesty and your secret with them is safe only half a percent even less than that even less than that the rest don't trust give love, give respect but don't trust you have to distinguish between the two between giving love and respect but not giving full trust the third Amir al-Mu'mineen says the third equality of the friend وآثرك على نفسك آثرك this is very hard to give preference to you over his answer to sacrifice sometimes when there is money and you need the money but you know your friend is in more need you take the money away from you you give it to him this is ether this is sacrifice he does not let you down he does not let you down he according to the حديث الا يسليمك عند النكبات he does not betray you desert you abandon you at the time of need when you are in need you start calling him his phone is short he does not answer he is missing because he knows you are in need this is not a friend don't waste your life with such people don't waste your life is precious we are here for a number of days انه لا انت عددوا ايام these number of days we have to live live them in peace if we want to live in peace in these few days we have to have peaceful people among us not trouble makers peaceful quality people quality friends when you surround yourself even if you have two quality friends it's better than 200 none quality friends 2 even 1 they will stand with you they will support you this is the wasiyah of سيدنا ومولانا الامام امير المؤمنين عليه الصلاة والسلام please join me in resetting امان يجيب دعاء for many people who are in critical conditions but inshaAllah through دعاء I have a friend who came to me last night last night when we finished I was about to leave his wife was diagnosed with cancer he said say I want to say something to you and you have to say this to the people it was only the دعاء of the مؤمنين who saved my wife's life so do not underestimate the دعاء never underestimate the power of دعاء so please pray for those who are really in need for your دعاء during these holy moments امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب امان يجيب أن يُجي قُلُ المُفخَرُ إذا دعاهم ويكشِفُ السُوعة يا الله مُن على مرضانا بالشفاء والعافية المرضى المُنظُرين اللهم أن بِسُم ثوابَ الصحة والعافية اللهم أنصر الإسلام والمُسلمين اللهم جعل كلمة الإسلام هي العولية اللهم واحد كلمة المُسلمين والمُؤمنين على الخير والصح والصلاح والبر والتقوى يا أرحم الراحمين وعدد في فرج قائدنا وإمامنا صاحب العصلي والزمان وإلى الواحي المُؤمن والمُؤمنات ثواب الفاتحة مع الصلاة على محمد وعالي محمد