 Stop over-trying, over-functioning, over-compensating for people in your life that are not putting in the effort towards you. So you can't have put in the effort for you and for them as well. These are not relationships that are worth keeping, they're exhausting. You are worthy of reciprocity in your close relationships. So stop putting in that extra effort that over-trying let the chips fall where they may and let's lift the bar on our relational world this year.