 So, you say, this is how these women look like when they don't have clothes, I really need to touch. Now you are progressing in your, so you want to touch. After touching, I want to feel. We are heading somewhere around. And you know, size 14 to 18-year-olds to 20-year-olds are male in your house. So these people whose parents are probably 1980s, 90s who come. So, to begin with, these are parents that were brought up in a certain way. And then in the process of them growing up, they are like, I can't do this to my kid. I will not do this to my kid when I get children. So, they not go through what I went through. Yes, they not go through what I went through. You know what, baba? You know kwa klabu, quna posibility u whanye 1, 2, 3, and then? So, that kind of a... Opos 2, umetoka wapi. Mil kwa arpi kwa sla kuailwa. Bro, that's the reason. Umetoka wapi na ki pungou kwa mdumou. Anapweke aproba, so sa ni na tokka. Ni pyam tokka 2? Nadia ya dha kwa nuzitokia nya na kwa umebi apositu? In my foreign land where I come from, in the UK, this one is called a pad. So when you are asked to wear, where are you? They have pad lands on you before you open your mouth. And then this other side is called a pad. Why are they so different? Because this one in here is expected to be in another house. So this one comes like, you know, before you even think of answering, the next time you are going to come to a house that you took at 20, you are going to come to a house that you took at 20, you don't know what happened here last time, so please. But now you see that is so, that's so different. You see millennials, right now they are, and we will say they are not even the biggest problem. The parents to those people are the problem. Because let me give an example, for instance with my family. I have two younger sisters, and when we were growing up, I have like three more siblings, Jiyango. So when we were growing up, they were a guy. They aimed at me. They were something else. Like this plane was wuku. So we grew up, we grew up wakendaki, wamaona wijena wa totu wa mikuwa wazuri sasa. Wa mikuwa kubwa, and then they started relaxing. Now for these other ones, for the small ones, asa sisi njondanganana kwa this plane. Because the parents now have a place, they are like wamianzaku, they are also growing older and stuff, wami relaxisha on that area. Wami relaxisha on that area. And you see when that happens, and that is for a parent who has other kids. Now imagine for a parent who was born in 1980, or 1979, and then who nmtu amitandiko amitandiko, mi fika 2000, amipatantoi, na na yu time ahoga kituka, I can't do this, I can't do this to my kid, I can't do this to whatever, I'm asking money, I can't be given, I look for money for my kids, so that my kid will not lack anything. So arikuja kwa mbe mam, tunanda iwi na kina jemu, na kina stesi, tunaeza tuka nini, tunaeza tuka unezu kanipatia doki asi. Tunaeza drop. Tunae drop. So that is even worse. So then mam drops ah. And then mam drops I'm like, sudi, bi sef, bi sef, do, do whatever, take care, sudi whatever. Adisa angapi. And then we come back and say to the kid then, consequences. But why can't these parents of the 1980s impact their kids with what they got from their parents? Because this is not what we got from our parents. Our parents was kumetoka api, na uli mamba nani wiki toka. Kwa nini sisi tunasema, kwa nini sisi tunasema, kwa nini sisi tunasema, kwa nini sisi tunasema. I have a question and I think that the stars aligned for this show because Tumansana guest Flani and she was talking about how she has, in the organization that she is involved with she has around 300 students give or take. So she talks about talking about she talks about talking about themselves. So she talks about talking about themselves. We had a very tough very track. So instead of me cheliawa consistently for one month so sanikunipiga, tukunipiga. So no. Why you late? Maybe someone moved at home so we are not as many as we are not as able or we don't have enough resources basically there is look at the belly. So, her approach was to look at the person, like what's going on. So kaweni kichungumu, nome kwa kichungumu for two years. Two years, uta mma kwa miku kuchoka, infakta miku fukuza, now you're just, you know, and then you find her and maybe get into the program. And the first thing she'll do is she'll go back to your parents, like, Allah fuza za, form ni gani apu. Acha ku jamu na ni acha ku fukuza, na wewa embolu na fukuza. Do you think there's a bridge between what we have experienced when you're lichapa na e generation ingine any time out? Do you think there's a bridge somewhere? Yeah, there is. Can we achieve it? Yeah, because I think we really want to please our kids. We want to make them feel nice while ruining their future because the moment you start battering them all, you know, with these and these, while you yourself, you still have a lama kwa baki ako, you don't lichapa, like ni uta kia guzue na mma. But there's no other way. We had it to pay kwa. The only way, not any other way, we have to go back to our roots. Well, otherwise we are ready. Let's say there could be other ways, just that this particular way is the way most people prefer and are used to. But do you know something? There's someone who says something very important and that's why his disciplining is concerned. You know, as a parent, there's a difference between beating your kid for discipline while you are angry and beating your kid for discipline while in a relaxed mood, like you just need to get them to get the point. Because now when, imagine, I'm not on a boyfriend. And then just away away, na masiraza ko umendo mimichukulia, chumamoto, you start beating them up. Trust me, that will not even be discipline. In fact, what you'll be bringing out of that kid or what you'll be capturing that kid is rebellion. Because at this time, what they are getting from you is hostility, not parenting. But imagine, I was beating him up, and he said, okay, umendo mimichukulia. It was a bad situation, so he was beating him up. So he was beaten up. I said, why not do something out of my life, what you would be doing, what you would be doing, and then you do what? What kind of disrespect is this? Did I not start the show by saying I'm not talking about money This guy by the hand Did I not? What? What sacrifice? Was a wo jongi a wzuri I started very well stating We're not talking about this and here you are I'm sorry that interupted what you were saying No, it's okay So when you're doing you're there with the kid you are not angry at that time But you can still beat them, like kutam tandika, sila kumpigya, using nikono and stuff like you, not using your bare hands, because that is something else, that is another topic, you know? But our parents used the letter, yeah. But if you look mostly at the people who that was applied on them, it's either they became disbent because they came to understand something else in the future, but they are those who actually became more rebellious out of that. But for me, I would suggest, yes, that could be the way, the best way to do your disciplining, but as a parent, let's not do it well in Angamud, because at that time you're not actually houtandikima kosa. Spirit. Talk her. Like you're literally sitting there. I'm not talking about the expression, I'm not talking about the expression like, okay, so I'm talking about, don't do this again and all and all, but inside you, you're actually very kamyonote. Those are two character traits that are good. You think it's not easy to manipulate. No, it's actually very easy, because the thing is, have you ever told someone, don't do this while okopoa, like chiki, was funny. They take it as a joke. No, they don't take it as a joke. No, they don't take it as a joke. Amele. Manzeval. Una get. You as a person, you're able to design the weight of those aunts. Una elewa. Manzeval. Uta pendisha zak. Una get. And then it will be, struggle for who, can prove the point better. Una get. uunaget So omen uchap, umei niqiap, Auso mii niqiap, umiye jam, ne ta gukupruviyonek kwa matasumia. But now there's this point when you're in kujajya. I'm not saying you will like it if that Ni ni ua var-ni ish. Is in, there's a difference when the anger is out. I don't like it if you don't like something. Let me tell you, if I don't like something let me not pretend that I like it. I'll show you that I don't like this thing and it is not repeating. It's still OK because you can still know the story. When you start that thing from the beginning it will work, but when you start this thing from the beginning it works. When you start it from the beginning it will work. But if you start this thing from the beginning it works. But I want to pretend it is not well. Are you pretending or not to determine which? Okay, hold it. I just want to maybe give you a few words that will increase your content. Is that okay? At WhiteFive for Facebook, WhiteFive for Channel, Twitter, Hashtag is white in the morning. Now, before... I was struggling to hold it. Oh, this hurt himself. We have a petal man. He says we're trying to figure out what's going on with teenagers and the interplay of nature and nature. 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Hashtag is 1 in the morning. I interrupted you, sir. Mekongizia content. Okay. Another thing, I think also the environment where the chan grows. Because when I was a child, wame liwa naishi uku juni ba pachi nini kaniisa ako apokatikati sababi apavati unana. Apondo mama naiza fod. So na patao umtoto ana skeizu bend over bend over ana sema watu kudis bend over. Dele ni woli jutliyab bend over wadi. They have a meeting first. So wad ya de environment piya maluna isi? And la kila mtu tambaliku uku the leafy sababs. Ya kila to naskia ni zile na? Tu dege. Te, te, te. N kwani kwa nandaji lakake I agree but my concern is, yes the environment is, environment really plays a big role. But as I have been stating and this is my career, what do you call this, this is where I will hold on. Like even if the environment is as decayed as whatever, like if the parents make, they make like an intention of being just good parents and bring out the right values in these kids. I don't think there will be a lot of problems. You know even the Bible says that bring up your child in the ways of the Lord and when they grow up they will not depart from it. What does that mean? This means you as a parent, you need to make sure at least you have a seat down with your kid regularly. You see, regularly you have a seat down with your kid, teach them about the word, teach them about life, teach them about these things. You see, make sure that you have instilled these biblical cultures and disciplines in them in a way that there are things that are biblical and there are things that are discipline but are not also indicating the Bible. So make sure you are able to integrate more of this. But what is the challenge is, do you know the challenge? You know our parents are more here than the kids. Am I right? They are more, they are worse than the kids. You can look in skill what you don't have. Thank you. I keep on saying they are parents. We don't expect them to say them that way. We don't expect them to say them that way. The issue main here is the kids. Leaders are the parents. I like the comments. Most of these people in Kama, they are 28, 23, 23. These guys in Kama comment up because they are talking about the music that these kids are listening to. They are talking about peer pressure. They are talking about nature and nature. You see these things, they are just so real. The bottom line, charity begins at home. If at home you are not taught how to be kind to your brothers and sisters, what makes us believe that when you give you this, you will be able to share with someone you are not even related with by blood or even just met. So the thing is charity begins at home. And at home, dad and mum headmaster and deputy principal, they are the ones who activate this charity. Because this charity doesn't come from nowhere. How do we cultivate it? My admonition here will be, we can't beat parents into culturing their kids well. We can't do that. We can't do that. We can't do that. Who is this we? I'm saying... As that are seeing the problem, that are pointing it out and throwing the handle to the parents. I'm saying since we can't beat them into meaning that, how about we just make it intentional for us is now the future generation. Because right now, as it is, we can't do much about it. But we should. But that's what I'm saying. We as the people who are coming to be the future parents and leaders and all, we start by culturing the right mindset and stereotypes in us and in the younger people that follow us, so that when the time for us come to be parents, we are able to give the right kind of information to the kids and also the right upbringing. You may be longing to do that, but the problem here is this is a parent who went to... I'm in a cousin, you know that. Aja liwa umchara nizi minga? Mitatu. Aja kula lunch. Aja kula. I'm a Rudy Johnny. I'm a part of a toto. I'm anza kufanya. He's a mambu mambu mengini. Do you think he has got that? Even the courage to do that. Because the child, I'm a mambu mami, unge nipatia pesa yaku nuna panting. Singa nda uko inje. What we do tell the ad, you don't have. So why are we going to address this? We are concluding. This is our new topic. What we are doing here. Kaisu, write down. But can I say this? How to help? You see the problem here is also a lot of customization. Because this problem you're pointing out. Most of them come up as a result of what people watch mostly. And what people watch Ziko Sanasana in the movies and YouTube and stuff. So now that is not our problem. Let's focus. Let's focus on how we we can try to do this. Just for two weeks. When it comes back with access. And we've been here for three years. He's still speaking. What's the problem? Because we're Africans. We're Africans. That's my point. We're Africans. We have to change our mindset. Thank you. And that's what I've said. There's nothing like this. These are from Western. We like these people. Rest, rest, rest. Thank you. Our mindset is not to be at the western. We are Western Jumzuri. Thank you. So very much. Okay. Fun fact, Netflix has Swahili subtitles. Did you know? I was also quite very surprised. And they are legit. See at Tee and I say mam go and then it's edited. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. No, it's legit. Sowaya ya. Yeah, but also let me just tell you a secret. In conclusion, for me, because mimishi jaza. And he will search for him as he'll come and make— go into the season. Someone told me you can't— You can only do the most with your child— you can teach them how to be good— you can beat or talk to them— you can instil all the goodness in the world— but they still end up something else. So I think just do your best, Manze. Ya Please have a good time today Please love yourself today Say something kind to yourself Okay, bye Bye Is it a competition? Bye bye