 do not try to get him back unless it was your fault okay if he breaks up with you for no reason or just because he's bored of you or whatever reason do not chase after him but if you cause the breakup by doing something crazy treating him a certain way where he was forced to break up with you then you can you know apologize and attempt to correct the situation and see if he'll come back but do not chase after me and ladies okay there's only certain circumstances where you can attempt to get your man back and not look crazy okay and only if you messed up but if he dumped you for no reason he just tired of you and he's like I don't want you back I'm leaving because you know it's over in my mind I want to move on I don't want you anymore there's nothing you did I just tired of this do not chase after him okay because first of all he doesn't want you and if you do somehow get him back he's not gonna treat you right he's gonna keep doing the same thing over and over that he's been doing in the past and many women are afraid to move on and afraid to move forward because they don't think that there's something else out there that's equal or better they don't think that they'll find the same type of love again with someone else you're never gonna find the same type of love all love is different okay you're never gonna find that same type of love okay because people are different you might find better love you might find more comfortable love you might find more friendship rather than love it doesn't matter but it's not gonna be the exact same so you can't expect to feel the same way as you did about you know your ex with your new man okay so don't even try to compare or don't even try to make someone live up to another person because that will never work okay also when you chase behind a man they're laughing at you okay what they're doing they're they're showing their friends your text messages how many times you've called how many times you've done this how many times you do that and they're making you look like you're crazy and psycho and obsessive and you know why he's justified and breaking up with you you know and they're secretly laughing and making fun of you behind your back and you don't want that okay so if somebody breaks up with you handle it with class you know look at yourself in the mirror and say okay well this must mean there's something new coming into my life and I'm making room for it okay sometimes people will get out of the way to make room for the good things that are coming to your life okay because I know if some if some of my ex-boyfriends hadn't broken up with me I would be in a place that I do not want to be let me tell you I am glad some of my boy ex-boyfriends broke up with me I had two ex-boyfriends break up with me and let's not even talk about what happened to them but I am so glad they did because if I would have stayed with them and been with them and married them and all that kind of stuff my life would be trashed right now and I'm serious okay so everything happens for a reason don't try to fight it just like just let it go move on you don't know who's around the corner you don't know what's waiting for you around the corner you don't know if there's a guy that's perfect for you who's gonna meet your every need who loves you who's who's you know you don't know who's dream girl you are you could be someone's dream girl and that other ex was treating you like trash but you could be someone else's treasure so let them go if they're trying to get out of your life please don't hold it back okay and I know a lot of people talk about this but I'm serious there are these women who will hold on to their high school boyfriend tournament to their baby daddy and they will never become wife because these guys never got a chance to go out you know do what they wanted to do they've been stuck with the same person forever and now they're bored and you know they break up with the women and you know the woman's all distraught well you can't hold someone back from doing what they want to do okay not never try to hold someone back from leaving you okay and that's just that's just a word of advice because they will always secretly resent you if you try to make them stay against their will or threaten them or say well if you leave I'm gonna do this I'm gonna do that if somebody don't want you let them go okay a lot of women go through this like it's pathetic that women will go through any links to keep a man who don't want them think about it if you are getting signs that the man does not really love you doesn't want to be with you but you still cling to him it's it's it's pretty sad and you will never get the respect you deserve and you will always be a joke to him so ladies I'm telling you find a man that wants you I don't care what you look like how small how big you are there is a man out there that will find you attractive and I'm serious men love all types of women okay there are websites for short women tall women fat women skinny women black women white women Asian women Latino women mixed women midgets okay everybody can get love you're chasing after someone who don't even want you okay so stop ladies stop chasing after these men and find one that will chase after you okay a lot of women suffer from this they were like okay well you don't want me well look at yourself take a look at yourself find something about yourself okay well okay yeah I'm not the most beautiful person in the world I'm not this I'm not that okay you know I need a man I want a man who loves me oh I have nice feet you know my face might not match but my feet are beautiful the golden one those websites where those men are crazy about feet no feet you know somebody will worship your feet literally okay ladies I'm not trying to be funny but it's true a man will fall in love with you for your foot okay man are crazy yes you don't have to chase after them you can have them eating licking your feet okay like seriously and I'm laughing because it's true that's the sad part about it if you're chasing behind a man and there some man waiting somewhere out and wherever to lick your foot and you're chasing after a little ray-ray then who's the fool yes that's what I'm saying so get your thoughts together get your life together stop chasing after these men who don't want you and figure out a way to love yourself so that they can love you so other men can love you okay I see y'all later this was a short one I'm gonna wrap it up if y'all have any questions any comments any video suggestions put them in the comments please don't make the suggestion too long just a quick simple topic because I can't cover a whole life in one video okay I'll see y'all later bye