 Why do people want to find their soulmate? Why do people want to have a long-term, loving relationship in linear time? It's because they're soul-sick. They miss eternal life. They miss the eternal love of God. And it's important that we do stay open to who the Holy Spirit wants us to be with because that's part of our awakening process. Think of it for yourself. Do you want to be with people who are dedicated to forgiveness, focused on God, happy, joyful, loving, free-flowing, spontaneous? Do you want to be around those kind of people? It's really wonderful, but it's coming from inside of us. It's not the people that are bringing that kind of relationship. It's our state of mind that draws forth that. It's not the people. People are thoughts. And when you tune into your spiritual connection, the people that seem to be you and those around you will reflect your spiritual connection. That's what Jesus calls holy relationship, and what makes it holy is the present moment. What makes it holy is not having all kinds of expectations placed on the relationship, all kinds of past preferences placed on the relationship, all kinds of control and manipulation placed on the relationship from the ego. It's the joy of the moment. It's the joy of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is the spirit of joy, and that's what inspires holy relationship. It's your purpose with the Holy Spirit.