 is that a lot of people tend to focus on shopping during aid now is that an okay thing or is that something that's you know happy something good for it for I think it's great I think a lot of people have said that aid and Christmas and other festivals have become consumer you know consumer places or consumerized and so on is it not good though I think it's great you know I the focus shouldn't be that okay but let's face the facts when you were a kid when I was a kid wouldn't you wait for your idea oh yeah wouldn't you wait for that you know you go to your grandma or your grandfather or you go to your parents and you're like come on give me something and the parents would give you you know a certain note if you're lucky or they'd go to buy you you know you want a watch you want the latest game when we were children that was our understanding of festivals now I don't see a problem with you know the family is all gathered here quite wonderfully in Karbala you know they're all going they're going shopping they're trying to you know bring a day of joy to each other it's the day of Allah's mercy upon one another but I'll tell you something that happened we were at the house of Imam Ali and Fatah house of Imam Ali alaihi salam in in Kufa yeah and while we were there at the house myself and Morsadah Kanani the head of spiritual journeys was sitting down and this lady came into the room where we were sitting with the Imam of the area where they pray and she she inquired about something the Imam said to her that just wait outside I'll get back to you we asked what is it and she said she just wanted some money to go and buy her children some Eid gifts because they are so poverty-stricken in some parts of Iraq that we might joke about you know having a Daytona or having chrome hearts or having event discreet not be joking but at the same time if I if you're willing to spend money on these things then you shouldn't be hesitant about looking after someone's smile on the day of aid yeah that lady wanted $50 a hundred dollars and so if some of us are gonna go out there and we're gonna spend money we should bear in mind to have a thought for those people in the world that will not come anywhere near what we have I'm not saying that you'll buy happiness on the day of aid by giving someone money but you could certainly rent happiness for that one day yes you know mind you I've seen some of these families who don't have any of the things that we've mentioned but I'll tell you what they can all sit on a dinner table and smile yeah and there are people out there on the day of aid can't even get their kids around them because of the fact that everyone's you know disunited in the family or there are quarrels in the family yeah so I think while it can be seen in some cases which I don't think is always negative but I think it becomes negative a person forgets about the affairs of the umma generally