 we have to learn how to release judgment on the things that we did that we perceived to be wrong or not in alignment with that person that we want to be. So how do we do that? I want you to look at yourself as like a, almost like a third person. Think of it as like a sims, like you're like a sims character, okay? So it's like, you know, you're playing your little game with your little sims character and you're like, oh shit, oops, didn't mean to do that, won't do that again.