 وأقول في القرآن ما جاءت به آياته فهو الكاريم المنزال وأقول قال الله جل جلاله والمصطف الهدي ولا أتأواله الحمد لله رب العالمين له الحمد الحسن والثناء الجميل وأشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له يقول الحق وهو يهدي سبيل وأشهد أن محمد العبد هو رسوله صلى الله عليه وعليه وعلى آله وأصحابه والتابعين لهم بحسان إلى يوم الدين أمه بعد لن يكون لدينا الكثير من الناس who encourage you this concept of encouraging a person in good is very little فكثيرا ما يبرزوا أحدهم في ميداني من الميادين we see a person who mashallah الله مبارك يجعله في شيء إذا يتعلم مدسين ويصبح شيء جيد فيه أو يصبح جيد في القرآن ويصبح جيد ويصبح جيد ويصبح جيد أو يصبح جيد فهي يعلم how to teach and the ability to teach and the art of teaching he learns that and masters it but what happens is ثم لا يجد من يأخذه بيدي he doesn't find anyone that grabs him by the hand ويعينه على نفسي and helps him and aids him the world that we're living in today it's scary to be honest this young individual who's trying to bring خير to the table he doesn't find anyone that grabs him by the hand بالربما رادة what might even happen is he might find وجد من يخدله he might find people who are deceiving him ويضعوا العقابات في الطريقه who plays obstacles in front of him and then what happens ومن هنا تقبو ناره وتدنوهمته that flame that was in him is extinguished the aspiration that he had also is taken away from him so that's one of the reasons why low aspiration comes the eighth reason why there's low aspiration is the company and the people that you're with الصحبة السيئة evil people they can they can beautify for you that which is evil and they can make the good look bad they can they push a person to that which is bad and they distance a person from every good there is out there the reason for that is because that the person gets affected by بعادات جليسي the people he sits with the friend can drag you down and you do take from people's nature and the way that they are how many people have we copied and sometimes we do it unintentionally we don't even intend to do it and from the people that we sit with there are those who are مخذلين there are people who are corrupt and sitting with these type of people what will he do to you it pushes that person to the lowest of low فكل مهمة بالسعودي those type of people whenever you are about to make it in life and you're making ends meet and you're succeeding in life they pop out of nowhere and all they wanna do is they wanna belittle you they want to keep you under their thumb and I have to be very frank and honest I have to be very honest here and say it's sad to say that but a lot of people in the دعو scene like that they are like that they might be older than a newcomer a person who's new in the دعو a person who's just start in the دعو instead of being a sincere advisor and helping him how to go about things then they don't do it in that way what they do is they wanna control that young fresh youth that's high aspiration his دعو is masha'Allah he wants to go out and do a lot instead of helping him how to go about the way to do it and set a path for him and help him and not extinguish that light from him you want that light to flame and go more but you wanna put it in the right direction now some people they wanna keep you under their thumb they wanna control your life so whenever they see you prospering and succeeding they want to push you backwards they will accuse you of things that you're free from they will treat you in a way that is it's evil so those are the type of people who will push you to that which is low so I say to the young one don't lose passion and drive and don't also become against your seniors whether they treat you in that way or not there's a lot you're gonna benefit from them as well and through them you'll be protected from many things as well فكل ما هم بصعود يعوقوا عنه متي those type of people what they will do to you is they will put your aspiration down and they will kill your aspiration they'll make funny jokes like really you think you are gonna change everything that's what they do and also what they do is وثنوه عن عزي متي they kill his conviction وطارة بالتخويف وطارة بوضع العراقيلي و هكذا sometimes they scare him they scare him I will expose you I know what you are I'm just gonna go to your parents I'm gonna speak to your parents و هكذا وطارة and sometimes they place obstacles and things in front of you و هكذا don't be scared carry on your دعوة have faith in Allah سبحانه و تعالى and keep going و لو لم يأتيه من مجالسة هؤلاء إلا أنه يقارن حاله بحاله those type of people when you sit with them و الله if there is nothing else they do to you except they make you like them is enough as a harm they don't do anything else to you but they make you think like them and be like them that itself is enough so don't get fooled by those people and that is one of the things that destroys a person's aspiration the type of people you keep around you keep around you people who are hardworking people who are driven people who believe that the sky is not the limit that's the type of people you want to be around that's the type of people you want to keep in your surrounding and brothers and sisters those people who have high aspiration don't have to necessarily be positive people this concept that I have to only be around that I only have to be around people who are positive it's a mistake و الله sometimes there are people who are negative but their negativity is based on a constructive criticism in that issue they're negative in it's a constructive criticism it helps you و الله it helps doesn't dismiss those people and keep around you people who would say yes yes yes yes to you bring that type of person close it's bringing you a constructive criticism hear them out and take it on board they are part of the people who are going to make you flare so that's why I say keep around you people who have high aspiration not people who are positive not necessarily الذين يجبون عشرة أعلى. those are the types of people you want to be with who will always push you to your limits, sometimes they will say negative things to you. Yes. In order to correct you, in order to rectify your situation and so you achieve the best that you can achieve. Now we're going to go on to the ninth reason for low aspiration and that is و هذا هو قيلة الصبري و استطالة الطريق المساعدة لديها أساس وهم أيضا ترى أن هذا الموضوع الذي يحاولون أن يحاولون الموضوع الذي يحاولون أن يحاولون is actually far-fetched لذا يجب أن تجد many people who فتجدوا من الناس من يسلكوا الطريق المجد والمعالي they tread on the path of glory and honorable things whether they are seeking knowledge Islamic knowledge or not whether it be a دعوة إلى الله يقول it to Allah's path or whether it be a الجهد في سبيل الله fighting in the cause of Allah سبحانه وتعالى or other than that فإذا مستقل الطريق فإذا مستقل الطريق when they tread on that path وتوغل في السير وراء كثرة العراق دونه نفاد صبره so when the person tread on that path and they take that road and they see that the obstacles on that road is actually too much he loses patience and his aspiration his aspiration doesn't go up and so what does he do فا يترك ما أهم بالقيام به he leaves off that which he wanted to do in the beginning ويقفل راجعا من منتفصف الطريق and in the middle of the path he stops any says I can't do this anymore this is actually not for me whereas the one who has high aspiration والعزيمة الصادقة has true conviction فلا يستطيل الطريق فلا يستطيل الطريق he doesn't see the path to belong and he doesn't look at those people rather what he does is بل يسير وليسان وحاله يقول rather what he does is that he tread on that path and he works towards what he is trying to achieve and he is like he is like he is saying علي الطلاب العزيم من مستقره ولا ذنب لي اعرضتني المقادر and I am going to achieve my goal and I am going to achieve what I am looking for and there is no sin upon me if death comes to me before I try to achieve it ولي ذلك امرو قيس one of the pre-islamic poets when he wanted to go to الى قيسر الروم when he wanted to go to him مستنجدا به على بني أسد and the reason why he was going to قيسر the roman he was going to him because he wanted to give him help so he can go and fight bani أسد and because they killed his father he took with him عمرو بن قمائه and عمرو بن قمائه was known as to be من أقدم الشعراء بكر is one of the well-known established poets from the people of بني بكر but when they tread on the path together مرو قيس and him عمرو بن قمائه and عمرو قيس they went on the path and they walked واستقل طريقها and the path became tough بكر عمرو بن قمائه عمرو بن قمائه cried because of the what لطول الطريق the path is long they are not driving a tesla and they are not on a a conquered flight you see so he cried walking in the desert heat يعني he cried so مرو قيس and said to him بك صاحب لما رأى الدرب دونه واقن أن لاحقان بقيصراء فقلت له لا تبكي عينك إنما نحاول ملكا أو نموت فنعذراء he said بك صاحب my friend is crying لما رأى الدرب دونه when he saw that he hasn't reached where he wanted he sees that the place is far واقن أن he realized أن لاحقان بقيصراء that we are trying to go to قيصر فقلت له لو I said to him لا تبكي my friend عمرو بن قمائه don't cry إنما نحاول ملكا what we are looking for is a kingdom أو نموت فنعذراء we are going to die and we are going to be excused at least we were trying so what he is trying to say to him is نحن نطلوب الملك فإذا بلغنا إربانا منه if we reach our goal that we were looking for وإلا ألحنا في طلب or else we are going to strive and exert the effort if we don't die حتى نموت دونه until we reach what we are looking for and gain our objectives وهذا أشرف العدري لنا and that would be the best excuse for us the 10th and final reason for low aspiration I am going to mention إن شاء الله is كثرة الشواقل والقواتح the person has so much responsibility so much things that are in their way من أهلين you have family وصحبين friends you see and children وما إلى ذلك so the person these things are preoccupying and there is also other things that are distracting you such as social media we spoke about and other things and when those things come they get in your way ولذلك رمام الشافعي ورحمه الله he said لو أن لقمان الحكيم الذي صارت به الرقبان بالفضل بولي بفقر وعيال لما فالراقب إينا تبني والبقلي he said if لوقمان الحكيم لوقمان وزهو أنت هي الصورة in the Quran named after him so used to be called لوقمان الحكيم the wise man he has wisdom الله mention that for him سبحانه وتعالى in the Quran that Allah gave to لوقمان wisdom كان يوما الهيئة إمام الشافعي يقول لو أنه لو أنه إذا كان أن اللقمان الحكيم اللقمان اللقمان والذي صارت به الركبان و بالفضلي أن الناس يأتي لهم من all over the world because of his virtue بولي بفقر إذا كانت تستخدمة وعيالين و كانت تستخدمة لما فرق بين التبني والبقلي سيستخدم بين الهيئ واللقوم أنه يريد أن يكون يعني إمام الشافعي ما يريد أن يقول اللقمان الحكيم كان only able to speak those words of wisdom و يقول what he said because he wasn't tested with poverty and children's problems يعني he was given wisdom way before that I'm going to stop there إن شاء الله anything which I've said that was wrong or incorrect is from me and Shaytan and the messenger are both free from it سبحانك اللهم بحمده أشهد السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و 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