 I've been masturbating by squeezing my thighs together since I was very young and even today it is the only way that I can orgasm. Only problem now is that I cannot orgasm with my partner. I cannot even begin to orgasm if my legs are open. Don't get me wrong, I do love this but I have two questions. Is this normal and will I ever be able to get pleasure with a partner? Yes, it is absolutely normal. You know, this is how most women learn how to self-pleasure by holding their pee and then squeezing their thighs together. It's an instinct. Basically, when you squeeze your thighs together it puts pressure on the clitoris and that automatically produces pleasure. So young girls will start doing this even before they consciously become aware of their own pleasure and it is so satisfying that most women will continue to do this for the rest of their lives. And now for the second part of your question about whether you can get pleasure with your legs open. Yes, it can be done but you have to teach your body how. Think about it this way. If you have been getting pleasure for years by squeezing your thighs together you can't suddenly change that to experiencing pleasure with your legs wide open because your body just doesn't know how to respond to that. So you have to teach your body. So for instance, if you're trying other masturbation techniques then try something where you can open your legs just a little bit more each time. Just if you're with a partner then you need to try positions where your legs will remain closed but not squeezed together like maybe if you're lying on your side or something. It's just about getting the body used to something different a little bit at a time but the most important thing to remember is that it won't happen overnight. You have to spend time changing this. It's like you have to renegotiate new forms of pleasure with your own body but if you really want to you can definitely do it.