 Another live video here Narc survivor Thank you for the donation true love. I got my new fanny pack today Let me know what you think and the comments below so yeah we had a premiere on this yesterday and definitely attracted a lot of attention So I thought we should speak on it more here The narcissist knows something You think they don't know most of you think that these narcissists Really believe that they're superior to you Really believe that they are perfect But there's nothing wrong with them when that is just not true They already know That they are damaged Before they got involved with you They already knew that they were no good for you. They were already aware of that But of course, they're not gonna come to you telling you displaying to you That they are no good That they know that they are damaged They're going to try and hide that from you Because they already know That you're not going to want to be with someone like that you don't want to be with someone who is screwed up Mentally someone who Will think of it like this You imagine you imagine if a Tiger ripped off your leg So one of your legs is missing it's pouring out with blood and then Someone comes to you And says that they're injured Well, they're hungry or something they need you for whatever reason You can't exactly care About what that person is going through You can't help them You can't even just do what is expected in a relationship You can't benefit them in any way because your legs just being ripped off All you can think about is Your leg And you feel like you're dying You can't consider anything else or another one is It's like Imagine that you're hanging off the edge of a cliff and again someone comes to you and Maybe they were attacked By a dog or a tiger or whatever they were attacked by something and In that moment You can't really care too much and even if at some level you do care There's nothing you can do about it because you're hanging off the edge of a cliff You need someone to help you need someone to help you first Before you can do anything for anyone else and that's a situation that these narcissists are raising are in the only thing is No one can help them There's nothing you can do to save them No amount of love or support is going to fix them, but you're dealing with someone Who is damaged and there's nothing you can do about it and they already know that they come around people Thinking that you're going to save them You're going to fix them They think that you're going to save them from themselves But it never works out that way Because we can only save ourselves We cannot expect someone to do that for us But damaged people will do that a healthy person comes to you Looking for the tools that they can then use To heal themselves Because they already know that they have to heal themselves from within But a narcissist could not do that They can't self-reflect It's too painful for them to deal with So they go looking for someone to save them They already know They might play dumb sometimes But they know when they come around you It's manipulation They're deceiving you Because they already know exactly What they are They already know that they're not going to be any good for you They know they're not going to help you in any way They already know that But they just don't care A normal person If they see someone Who is Successful Attractive And maybe they're not quite there yet Maybe they're not on that level A normal person is going to look at themselves and think I'm not there yet I don't belong with someone Who is at that level That's what a normal person is going to do But a narcissist They're going to see someone Just like most of you who watch my videos You're intelligent Attractive Successful people You've got a lot going on in your lives They come around you Knowing that they're screwed up Knowing that they're damaged Knowing that they're not going to be any good for you And there's nothing That stops them From trying to get involved with you Even though they already know What it's going to do to you They know that they're just going to weigh you down They know that they're just going to destroy you But yet they still act They act arrogant or audacious As though they're so much better than what they actually are Well deep down they know the truth It's so misleading Because all they care about is themselves All they care about is what they're going to get out of it They're self-absorbed and they lack empathy And that's why they don't stop themselves It's a sad truth If you are an attractive, intelligent, successful person You are going to attract a lot of narcissists Because good people are going to What they do tend to often underestimate Their abilities and importance They don't really realise how great they are While narcissists overestimate all of that They think they deserve whatever they want That's why when it comes to dating Maybe even making new friends You have to play down a lot of this stuff You can't just go out there bowling Displaying your intelligence Your attractiveness Your success Whatever it may be Because you should already know what kind of person that's going to attract And you're going to think that you're dealing with someone on the same level Because that is what they're going to try to present to you But it's all a lie They already know they're no good It's just if they can get you to believe it It makes it more believable for them Anyway, I hope that what I've said Resonates and has been helpful for you And now I would like to hear from you So please share with me Your experiences Was there a time When you noticed That the narcissist knew That they were no good for you That they were damaged That they were just going to cause problems for you Let me know of a time Where you believe that the narcissist realized that I would like to hear from you Please let me know now In the live chat And I will read out your comments And we can discuss it more Thanks Christina for the donation Lisa says at the beginning he told me he was a mess That's right, they already know But then sometimes they play the victim They use that to lure in empathic people Because of course we want to help people But these are people that cannot be fixed Yellow girl says my ex think he is perfect Yeah, they will display that to you But really they come to you with all of these problems You end up dealing with things that you didn't have to deal with before But then they blame you for their issues That's how they maintain their false image of perfection By blaming you for everything Things that they were meant to be responsible for Before they even got involved with you Paul says bingo She used sex as the lure Yeah, they will do that And that is actually a huge red flag for narcissism Because as we know the majority of narcissists Were sexually abused at some point in their lives And because of this they are sexually insecure So they need sexual validation And they also didn't get the validation from their parents when they were younger So then they spend the rest of their lives chasing it from other people So when someone wants to get sexual early on That is a big red flag If they can't wait You just got to think Why? What are they trying to do? Anyone who is trying to use you for validation That can't be good We all need to surround ourselves with people And teach us to validate ourselves Society is making everyone so insecure You don't want to be doubting yourself That validation needs to come from within Richard says mine was flirting with other guys in front of me And she told me I was imagining it Yeah, that's something they will often do That's gaslighting They know exactly what they're doing They may not know exactly why they're doing it They may not have made the link The reason why they do that is because They're just damaged insecure people If they weren't they wouldn't need to do that Nala says nice outfit I'm glad you like it I'm thinking of bringing in some more merchandise Wear the new style Maybe we can go for something like this Maybe knock survivor on it Maybe not, maybe something else I might do a pause soon to get your feedback And we can construct some new merch It's a new style I just want to lift the vibes I want to raise the vibrations And if my outfit is doing that For you then I'm happy We've got so much new stuff coming soon So many big things happening Many more videos And there will be travel vlogs as well I'm going to be travelling very soon In the next few days First will be Thailand I've already booked a 5 star hotel What I will be filming A lot of my videos And I've also got a private villa as well With a swimming pool So you can expect to see some videos there And also I'm going to try and do some lives on the beach Out in nature Maybe on some mountains Maybe by some waterfalls Just want to raise the vibes Just want to show people Who are just coming out of this thing That it is not over for you No matter what the narcissist has done You can come back These people are no good They're damaged people So they want to damage you And you know I've been damaged myself By many knocks The last one left me suicidal I didn't even want to live anymore But the difference is We can heal It all starts with that accountability So easy to blame everyone I could blame all of the knocks That I've been with But that's not going to help me I had to make that decision To look within myself And I spent such a long time Working on myself Healing myself So that I'm no longer the emotional wreck No longer the emotional wreck That I used to be I'm not that person anymore And I'm not saying I'm invincible I'm still human I could still be hurt But now I know how to deal with it I know how to regulate myself better Because this is the difference between us We can heal We can get better We don't need to depend on other people You are the person That you need Don't let anyone tell you that you're not Thank you all for joining me In another Narc Survival Live video Let's spread the awareness Let's get this message