 we're all figuring out who we are. But for me, I was whoever was in front of me. And that first came to study autism, because one of my colleagues mentioned the term copy and paste behavior. And I just instantly knew what that was. I had never heard that before. But but I was like, Okay, so you're telling me that other people don't constantly watch what other people are doing and like try to mirror what they're doing in the social. And then she was like, No, that's not a normal thing. So