 If there are children who lose their lives, those are aberrations. They are aberrations because the human adults surrounding them have not been able to protect them. Simple. That's how it is. But, but the thing that helps you in that situation is what is going on with you within yourself. And what helps is definitely prayer. Because suffering for them just puts you in worse suffering. It's giving in to the ego. But if there is a deep, deep prayer and asking for grace, bending before the soul, you will contribute more to that whole thing in a positive way and support those children than if you suffer because of what they are suffering.