 on when you look when you see what I'm wearing don't say nothing don't say nothing cuz I'm cold I just like a homeless person when I'm cold I mean I literally got on like yeah I have multiple glasses and so I switch up my glasses with the seasons and I have these what do you call this like leopard pink brown now my vision is so cute my vision is so tricky though and I have pink that so I'm spending I have pink that I wear in the spring through summer there's another chit chat you guys I need something to get me in a mood these chit chat videos you know they give me a little excited to get me to move cuz my mood is everywhere I'm gonna not try to talk about the sad stuff cuz I want to make you guys happy and we all gonna be happy right but just know that life is happening and it's coming fast it's coming at me fast so what I'm gonna be doing with my hair doing this chit chat is my husband decided to take cuz I have to eat in the morning and we can't we can't go out looking like this this is this is crazy so I need to I need to do something with my hair first I need to moisturize my hair I need to plug out that gray mercy moisturize my hair I will probably retwist it in large twists so let's get to this chit chat y'all y'all know how we do I talked about what's going on my personal life when I'm watching on YouTube and what I'm watching on TV now my husband just gave me some news that kind of hurt my feelings I'm gonna I had one glass of wine earlier and now I'm having me some more because girl I don't have anything to moisturize my hair I have water the Talaio Talaia white jeed curling curl cream and some oil y'all it's been an emotional roller coaster I've had some family dynamics going on with my extended family not and my husband we're gonna get to it girl we're gonna get to it he's okay just like I know he's okay he's fine it's just them me and JB a sensitive JB and I are sensitive oh my god y'all did you see that big old thing that's a massage chair that my husband purchased a couple of years ago big as hell just ruined in my background so in my last chit chat I told y'all how JB was acting up at school he's the class clown he has been a lot better this week now his little teacher I respect her I do she's young she's young enough to my daughter actually and she's still learning this thing called kids and childhood so in one week she will send me a message that's like JB's going home all this work I he didn't do this stuff and then the next day JB did really good he he got all gold stores into the next day JB didn't even I asked him about this paper this I asked him about this assignment and he said he knew how to do it and then when I checked it he got all of them wrong what do you want me to do with that what I need for her to understand is that and I think she's like barely 22 like seriously she's probably 21 yeah yeah I need for this girl and what I need for her to understand and she's learning she's gonna have to learn is that children are consistently inconsistent it is up to us as adults to invite a atmosphere for their asses to be stable I say that in a laughing way because I was getting a little frustrated especially with her last message she's basically like I asked him if he understood and he said yeah and then when he did it he got all the questions wrong well then clearly that means that he didn't understand and so I reminded her that this is very common with children that have JB's particular learning disabilities all combined is that they will make it seem like they understand and really they don't or perhaps you have instead of saying do you do you get this and they say yay you go over an example and you'll allow them to demonstrate whether or not they understand and when they give you the wrong answer that's when you correct them or correct the actual you relay the instructions differently and that's all it was he wasn't understanding the instructions or anyway he's doing a lot better um my aunt is having she's turning 70 years old and she is having a 70s birthday party y'all at first I wasn't sure I'm gonna be upfront with y'all because you know sometimes it could be family drama and stuff going on and just things in general and I just wasn't sure if I was gonna go I don't have any issues with her it's just that I'm just not in the mood to be around certain people in my family I'm just being honest and so when I found out my sister was going I'm okay I can deal with it then I could deal with it so honey I ordered me this cute purple jumper I plan on losing like hold on I really really want to wear my hair and the phera faucet feather flowy hair I really want to do that but and I think I know how I could do that it's not gonna be flat it's gonna be big I may do that I don't know y'all let me know what you think it's either that or an afro the thing with the magnitude of my hair and where my hair in an afro it's gonna get at first of all I get attention on my hairs like this with an afro I'm easy gonna get this much and it's gonna I don't as crazy as it is I really don't like a lot of attention you guys so the few times that I've worn my hair in an afro even if it's like an afro puff cuz it's so much density I just don't like that that tension so I would rather my hair be in a flowy sexy look I don't even mind doing like a curly afro which I typically do with small perm rods and fluff it out into like an afro but that's a waste of time girl I ain't gonna be arching up my back at night just to fluff it out yeah let me know you think I should do the afro or do the sexy ferro faucet look which with me again I'm not gonna get that sleepiness but I will get the bounce I will so yes she's having that she's turning 70 it's gonna be a 70s theme birthday party which is cute at the end of February I I need to lose weight I have officially gained 12 pounds as I was has been moved here which honestly is it that bad considering the amount of fullery I've been eating 12 years and up 12 years 12 pounds in a year is not that bad my weight will go up and down go up and down so I need to really get it together so child my husband just told me just now actually before I came on cam that he is taking he's gonna be in Houston and he already had told me this before that he would be doing contract work and more than likely going all over Texas or it may even be Oklahoma which Oklahoma you guys is really not that far from from Texas cuz again we're in North Texas anyway and I'm okay you know I'm thinking okay that's fine with me so just now like I said he said well looks like I'm gonna be going to Houston next month Jb you know on the couch doing this what now my you child and less than 24 hours earlier I was I was done with my husband meaning I was he oh he was getting my nerves because that's just how it is when you marry you know if you know not every day is lollipops and giraffes and you know in heart circles it's a give or take it's work girl but it doesn't have to be that hard if it's if your marriage is really that hard than it ain't for you all I'm saying is that it's not sunflowers and roses and stuff all the time and we're okay with it we understand it so this should show you how quick the emotions can change because like I said girl even this morning I was like don't talk to me I didn't say that but I'm thinking that you know don't talk to me and so now when he's telling me he's gonna be in Houston for dangling there of 1315 weeks I'm like Jb and I was like Jb almost started crying I already gave him y'all we're a close little family I had already gave the baby a heads up and he's like so he's like how many weeks left do we have I'm like Jb so sweet he's like how long would he be because a baby look he's just gonna be three hours away but we can go down there because I have family in Houston too I can roll up with some people and visit them I said we can go down there every three weeks you know goals go on a Friday and come back on a Sunday it's just three hours away he's going to be staying in an Airbnb the contract job will actually give him money for that you know staying in the Airbnb and you know all is this again it's to pay for Jb's tuition because you know my husband likes to pay for it up front you know pay for it up front so it is what it is girl so he saw how sad we were he was like okay I'll take y'all out the eve of breakfast in the morning and so we're like okay alright you guys what I'm watching on YouTube I have been watching the YouTube reaction I love reaction people people that react to certain videos and so I've been watching some of Carlos King's videos he is so so so funny they started looking up people who I haven't heard from in a while just to see what they're up to I checked out border hammer because I hadn't seen some of her videos there was somebody else I was trying to look up Shari J girl and she stopped talking about her plants some but some people like that hey we're more than just our hair right so checking her out I know that she was going through some issues mentally and just having a hard time cuz I think she's lost both her parents and she's young to have lost both her parents I think you know that's just young which is really sad also Whitney recently did a video on you know her business and going through of the through her divorce which is absolutely horrible and I think she was where what is it what was the name y'all fully paid Frederick I'm making up names I think she was with him since she was in high school isn't that crazy so most of her her life her life you know I don't know if I necessarily believe in that I know that's a whole separate discussion all I'm saying is that I think that as humans and look if you find someone that you can't live without well we are I think we all kind of feel like that when we meet someone in high school but all I'm saying is that I just think that as an individual as a human being we should be able to be by our self one for a while and then decide whether or not we want to take a break you know so getting way out so anyway I'm with us with us with us child speaking of being by yourself and knowing yourself that I was watching the Betty Broderick story yet again I don't know what about that case that it's just so first of all what I watch the Lifetime movie again then I watch her when she was on Oprah again and baby Betty which was not holding back on anything she told Oprah she's like yeah Dan was going through like a midlife life crisis he got you know his red carpet he had his risky business sunlight sunglasses I told him he was the American joke and the audience started cracking up laughing but child Betty five years ago was it five years ago 2017 2018 denied parole she won't be eligible for parole again until she's 84 years old Betty girl just just say you you you felt sorry that's all you got to say girl just but Betty look I think Betty's like you know what I got a hot meal I got a cot I'm up here yeah we got to share the same same makeup and stuff and but I'm good you notice how some of these people that be in prison they live a long life the bed is living in her 70 she's 75 years old girl these people in prison because look you ain't out on the road you ain't got to worry about eating McDonald's and gaining on this way look you can go to the yard exercise what she old now but all I'm saying is that seems like she she's alive she's good but she ain't getting out that's all it she's not getting out anyway um what is this big girl oh so I started finding some of these movies that I used to watch growing up like adventures and babysitting remember that movie you guys where the babysitter took the kids and they ended up in the hood and somewhere else and they had to sing jazz to get to get somewhere or something I don't know they ended up somewhere well one of my favorite movies I watched was big girls don't cry they get even and so I'm currently watching it now on YouTube actually you know YouTube has several free movies that you can watch um besides that y'all I'm seeing a lot of true crime videos coming up where is instances or cases where all women did was tell the man no and they are killed just based on that we have have gotten to a society of men who don't know how to handle rejection and they don't know how to manage their emotions it is absolutely not know I've said this before it is absolutely ridiculous the amount of cases I'm hearing I feel like on a dang on weekly basis of men either killing the girlfriend killing their wives and literally taking out their entire family I don't know if that was it was in Silicon Valley or where but a man had ran off the cliff with 300 feet down off the cliff with his entire family in the car somehow they are survived that is absolute can you imagine the trauma those kids are gonna have to endure it's just absolutely crazy to me so you know as women we have to be very careful not to say in the incidents that where you reject the person but we have to be careful one who we have kids with that's a big one be very careful who you allow to plant a seed in you I'm just gonna be honest and just trust your guts and your gut instincts girl you really do but amen trust your instincts you could not pay me enough to be single and like I said before you couldn't pay me to be single in 2022 in 2019 and 2006 I now have no look he but not ever leave me you and you'll be in Houston for 13 13 weeks you see I'm gonna be rolling up there girl I'm not playing I'm gonna be rolling up there especially if you're gonna be in an Airbnb I told you it's something I'm this is gonna be like we're going on a little vacation every three weeks chime and I may be there maybe every four weeks I was am I watching that's it about it y'all that is about it who girl getting to this man look at this what I'm watching on Hulu and Netflix now I feel like somebody oh this is something I was gonna talk about girl did you care about Bank of America losing all this money from other people's account I wish Bank of America would first of all I get a notification over a certain dollar amount when anything like over $300 is deducted but I don't even think it was that I just think they completely what the hell is the money at Bank of America that is absolutely crazy to me that's crazy another thing I heard is that I believe it's happening something in Tennessee that they are considering they are not considering if a drunk driver kills a parent and that parent was paying child support the drunk driver now is responsible for the child support payments what do you think about that oh it's like shut up so this is the thing what if you were you had multiple kids by multiple women so now the drunk driver hacks to pay for all those kids that is absolutely crazy I'm I don't know how I feel about that I don't think it's too too bad of an idea considering that you were ignorant enough to get behind a car intoxicated you alive you could pay you could pay the child support that parent can't do it so go ahead pay up you probably have to mine anyway that's crazy again that's a DUI law that they are considering and I believe it was Tennessee definitely in the south alright y'all so what I'm watching on Netflix Hulu and some other stuff mostly on Netflix so I decided to go back to Hulu I felt like somebody was trying to change my password or maybe I just get an old and forgot but I had to do a reset of my password and everything through Hulu I was done but I did it went ahead and did it and trying to watch some stuff I'm back to looking at Abbot elementary Ava is the character we all love to hate hot mess that actress is absolutely hilarious to me and she's funny about trying to be funny I love the show now I haven't watched the latest episode so I have to start back over with the season but absolutely love love love love it so far I am gonna start watching Castle Rock I know I forgot which episode I was on actually I didn't know and I'm not gonna give any spoilers but there was a episode that was so it was too much for me child yeah actually that's several episodes that's like that but this is the main one that happened in season one and I was literally like oh I may need to take a break because all of this violence happened fast for no reason at all and I'm gonna come back because I love the the cast of again it's Castle Rock which we all know if you're a fans of Stephen King Castle Rock is a town that he uses quite often in a lot of his novels I think Castle Rock was an evil things it's been in several books I think it was even in Dr. Sleep it's been in several of Stephen King's books look that looks good huh what else y'all Netflix show everything on Netflix there is a good little weird movie called when fall check it out it's called when fall it's like murder mystery you worse the money I know you got money go ahead and give it to me type of thing rim of the world I mentioned this to you guys before about some bad preteens you know the thing just get me is that I get that that this generation is different but some of the things that they have these kids and the language they use I don't know and that's how it is in rim of the world and I can't honestly say that all kids are like this what is I think I saw someone I think I mentioned this before too that someone had mentioned that oh I'll teach all kids curse my child listen curse he doesn't curse matter of fact I know he does because he doesn't even like it when we use curse when we curse so we not every child uses a type of language but anyway girl I digress it's called rim of the world and it's like a end of the world type of scenario we got aliens and some badass kids none of it goes together one that was really good is deadly illusions on Netflix about a right I've talked about this before it's about a author who was struggling to finish his damn book girl story of my life and it's different it really is she ends up hiring this sexy little babysitter you're my state number one and things just go off from there now something that I started to watch and I had to stop because I y'all I'm a true crime addict and I go I will sometimes go as far depending on the case and reading more about the family members I will also I don't do it all the time read the autopsy because they are available or not necessarily even if it's not the autopsy I'll try to get the news articles or reports doing the actual time I like to go back and see if there's any type of court proceedings that were captured or any trials that makes sense that yeah that's how deep I can go so I have been delaying it because when it happened I remember following the wife's friend the Chris watch story so when that woman went missing and we all heard about it because she had two babies you know two children they were missing and so one of Shanann's friends made her a Facebook page public oh my god I'm gonna get emotional thinking about this so since she was friends with Shanann you were able to see conversations on this friend's Facebook post of Shanann and her in a talking and I was able to see some of her posts to me and Shanann and she was sharing a lot of videos she had like small little videos that she would share of her cooking and stuff like everything that you see now we were able to see right but this one friend was you know we're all following her you know we're going back looking for updates and trying to figure out where she's at yada yada yada when I tell you when they discovered what happened and just to see that outpouring you can literally see it unfold and it hits differently when you see you were watching it and you're watching it from the perspective of someone who knew the people right I saw that I saw all the the cops recordings two of him you know speaking to the neighbors and them being unsure and shout out to that that one friend Nicole who was like hell no okay y'all let me move on let me move on I'm gonna go back and start watching Lock and Key I know I keep saying this you guys but I'm watching a lot of stuff you hear me but definitely gonna watch Lock and Key um I am hearing so y'all know I'm rewatching good girls all because I like Rio sexy so but I'm hearing whenever I watch whatever I look at comments from people on YouTube talk about Rio and Beth they say oh I haven't seen this much chemistry since their originals but the originals is like vampire stuff and I'm really I can't yeah I don't know if I could do that right now I can do that regardless when oxygen is a movie that I'm gonna watch on Netflix I did watch the first episode of New Amsterdam it's cute but not enough to get me let me know if you're watching it if it gets better if it gets better I may I may try I may try some more um there was one other thing girl petty as Netflix Netflix has we all know now about the story between Netflix and blockbuster right Netflix and blockbuster works on a plane ride together Netflix approach blockbuster who was the big wig then it was like hey we have this idea of at that time it was having users rent DVDs online and we mail it to them and blockbuster was like but if you don't be kind real why you don't have to pay these fees and Netflix was like but this is a good idea this is a future we know what happened and like blockbuster only has one store left and you can actually spend the night then JB wants to go but that's another story girl Netflix is so petty they have a series called blockbuster the last remaining store so I'm gonna watch it and JB actually wants to we he wants to watch it with me um petty as hell just petty so I'm gonna watch it we're gonna watch it together actually so y'all let me finish this rest of this and I'm gonna show y'all some ways that I style my hair with these my hair like this my hair is a little old and so they're okay and I'm gonna squeeze this and rub it down okay and then I use a lot of oil you guys only because I know my tresses can handle it it was so funny I was doing a friend's hair once and this is when I was first natural and she has thin and fine hair my slow blood started putting oil on her hair girl her whole face was getting oily she's like oh she's oh you can't use this much oil for me I said girl clearly you can't cuz you turn me to a damn Popeyes chicken leg alright girl okay so now I got these big juicy twists right right you're like okay girl what are you gonna do now I'm gonna do my signature look I'm just gonna take this you can see all that but it's shiny I'm gonna take this all the way up like this like so and I could do that like that see how pretty it is and then I can take these again this is signature my signature up do and I'm gonna do this like that girl well you know what I mean or I could do I'm gonna take all of these here and then I'm rolling my hair and I can continue to and normally I would have some bobby pins you know I mean while I'm doing this but clearly I'm just showing you what I would normally do I could do all of that and roll keep it rolling across okay that's another way this is why I'm gonna go to bed that's it y'all need to wash my hair in like 2.5 days so that is it everyone thank you so much for watching and thank you as always to all of these subscribers take care