 When the narcissist realizes playing you was a bad idea this video is spread awareness And to wake a lot of you up Because now is the time for you to do that Because the truth is they don't ever think like that If they're a narcissist, they would never think That playing you or losing you was a bad idea in their minds. They're always right and They were the best option for you But you are far from the best option for them Because they always believe that they can do better They always think the grass is greener on the other side and They're always looking For the next shiny new toy the next bigger better deal But keep in mind that We're talking about narcissist players Key word is a player We're not talking about someone that you were with for a longer period of time in a relationship We're talking about more short-term flings Maybe you only met a few times These types of people These types of narcissists these players We're not always narcissists. Maybe they just have a lot of options But you need to wake up and Trust me when I tell you that this person does not care about you and there's nothing you can do about that Doesn't matter how much you try to get them back How much you try to show them that you care about them you love them How much you try to do for them that doesn't matter? Because they'll always be looking for something else something more And they'll always think that they've got something better than you So you are wasting your time They're never going to wake up and think that You were special or that they made the wrong decision By not being involved with you They're never going to think like that Because they're not looking at looking at it as though You could improve their lives or make them better They don't think like that And I need you to understand that I need you to be aware of that Because I know a lot of you you're just waiting for this person to come back Many of you you're just every night's Sitting with your phone in your hands waiting for that text waiting for that phone call and Even if you do get it, it's only because maybe they haven't got any other options that night and They just want to come to you Maybe they're bored. They're lonely And then the next day maybe they'll have someone else and they'll forget about you and then maybe they'll never come back But they'll never Think that playing you is a bad idea They're never going to think like that And I need you to know that I need you to be aware of that This is something that you need to know Something that you need to consider you will never Get them to love you You will never Get them to appreciate you You will never Get them to attach to you You will attach to them Yeah, you'll get stuck on them You might end up falling in love with them and wishing that you can have something more with them Wishing that you can have a relationship marriage showing whatever it is that you want from them Yeah, you may end up wanting that But they're not gonna want that from you Not unless you try to trap them, but even then they're gonna try and escape They're gonna try and leave you and it is wrong On their part, of course it is if they are lying to you They're manipulating you and they're making you believe that they want something more when they don't of course that is wrong But if they are telling you from the very beginning and they are making it clear to you That they do not want a relationship or anything more that is on you And that's why I'm making this video because you need to wake up If this person has made it clear to you that you are not enough for them You need to stop trying And I'm telling you this because I'm trying to help you. I Don't want you to waste your life There could be someone out there who is better for you someone who will care about you and I need you to know that You have to accept that some people do not have a heart Some people are not going to love you the way that you want to be loved You need to accept that And by knowing that it will help you to move on Just by knowing that they will never Think like that. They're not gonna think that way. It doesn't matter who you are It doesn't matter what job you've got how much money you make none of that makes a difference It doesn't even matter How good you look they're looking at it like there's always someone else There's always someone else waiting for me just around the corner So why do I need you is how they think That's how they think because They do have an abundance mindset They always think there's something else or something more and they look at it like you demanded all of this from me all of this effort Why do I have to put in the time with you? I can get it easy somewhere else So what's the point? It's how they think That's exactly how they're thinking when they're dealing with you So the only way that you can really Get them in your clutches in your grasp is if you do make it very easy for them But then it becomes like a competition and someone else will make it even easier for them somewhere else And you already know that you cannot compete with that You already know that so why are you even wasting your time? It's how you need to think because I can tell you that you will never have them in the way that you would like You will never have them like that They're never going to be all yours They're never going to be there for you every day when you need them They're never going to be there for you. I'm not saying that they'll always be like that. I'm not saying that they will Die alone just have to accept that some people they've Experienced a lot of things in their lives, so they have Unrealistic standards and one day maybe they will find what they want It may just be someone that they're manipulating or using or someone who is Narcissistic or player just like them some of them Believe it or not, they do actually Calm down a bit as they age they do get a bit better. I Don't want to give you hope. I don't want you to wait around for the rest of your life for this person to change. I really don't want you to do that because I Telling you that you do deserve better treatment. You do deserve love and You know that this person is not ready for that right now and it's not about Who you are or what you can do for them? You should know that that doesn't make a difference by now So You just need to focus on you you need to focus on becoming better Don't even waste your time with these types of people These narcissists these players they're not going to be any good for you They're not You need to find someone And you will feel that you will know when someone loves you when someone cares about you When someone has your best interest in minds Because with these types of people it's like their mind is always somewhere else. They're physically present But it's like they're not really with you They can't really connect to you when you can't connect to them and Yeah, they come across as very Cold distant As though you're not really that significant or important to them and you should want more than that You should want someone who looks at you like you are their world Like they've never met anyone like you before like they're ready for you because these narcissists Players No They're not ready for you and they may be ready one day Sometimes it's possible But do you really want to wait around for that? Even if you do wait around for it, it may not be what you're expecting it to be Because you have to accept that many of you you have these fantasies in your mind and you're expecting them to reciprocate and play it out That's not who they are And they cannot meet you there They can't be this person that you want them to be they can't participate in that and You may recognize that in your own experience with someone wanted you to do or be something and You couldn't agree to it you couldn't participate in it. I've been there myself Where people have held me to this expectation And I never agreed to it. I never wanted to be a part of that And many times we are doing this with these players and narcissists We're expecting them to be something that they are not something that they cannot live up to so again, you need to manage your expectations when you're dealing with them and You have to accept that there's different types of people in this world some people they are really just A one-night stand A weekend a short-term thing Or in some cases just an acquaintance And they're not meant to be anything more So you need to stop Wanting them to be something more by managing your expectations and accepting them as They actually are And then walking away and finding what you really want So yeah, that's it. They never realized that playing you was a bad idea You need to realize that being around them getting involved with them back is a bad idea Need to take responsibility so that you can walk away So that's my advice on this topic. 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