 What you lied, who you lied to, and who you didn't lie to, I mean it's, wow, it's way too complicated and you're going to fail. I can't remember one thing, now you want me to remember two or three or four. And it's, you know, it's layered. You know, I used to do these seminars at this company and I used to give this example of a guy who, you know, goes out to drink with his buddies and comes home and tells his wife, all right, I was at work late. And I used to explain why this was, you can't sustain a lie like that, even a simple lie like that, just can't sustain it because what if the wife meets one of the buddies and other buddies have to know that you're lying and they have to say, yeah, he works late and what if she bumps into your boss and complains to the boss, how come he's working late all the time? And the boss says, he's not. So somebody raises the hand and says, this is exactly what happened, right? This guy was telling his wife he was working late, he was out drinking or whatever, and the wife called the boss and said, how come my husband's working late all the time? And the boss says, he's not. And guess how that relationship worked out, right? Lies don't work because they're anti-reason, because they're anti-reality, because they're anti-fact. So rationality. Einwand defines seven virtues to live by for good life, and I'm probably going to forget one. Eric's laughing. Rationality, honesty. We just talked about honesty. And honesty is primarily not faking reality, primarily for yourself. Justice. Justice is being rational in how you deal with other people. It should be rational how you deal with yourself. It should be rational how you deal with other people. People should get what they deserve from you. Good or bad. And you have to be objective and rational about that. Not emotional and subjective about it. Independence. You have reason. You have a mind. You are the only person who can do thinking for you. You can get advice from other people. Advice is great. You want to listen to other people, particularly smart, if they have your interests in mind. But you are the one who's going to make the decision. You have to. You can't relinquish that. It's your life, nobody else's. You can't listen to your mother after a certain age. I mean, she's great, and I'm sure she's smart, and I'm sure she has your own interests, but you have to, you know, you have to make those decisions. You have to understand what she's saying if she's got your own interests in mind, but you have to make the decisions about what's right and wrong for you. Integrity. If you say stuff, if you believe that you're going to be rational, that rationality is good for you, then you've got to do it. You've got to walk the walk of reason. I always miss one. What am I missing? I miss productiveness. Your life is yours, therefore you're responsible for maintaining it, for getting the physical material that needs, that you need in order to survive. Being productive is essential for your happiness. I'm going to end with these two virtues, productiveness and pride. Pride is your commitment to be morally perfect, to be the best that you can be. Not in a superficial sense. Not just the biggest, the richest, the strongest, but the best in everything that you do. That's what pride is, that commitment. What do you need in order to have that kind of commitment? You need to have self-esteem. You need to know that you are worthy of being good. What do you get self-esteem from? It gets from other people, from ribbons, from medals. We live in a generation where everybody gets a ribbon, because they think that's how you're going to get self-esteem. Now only you can give yourself self-esteem. Self-esteem comes from achievement. But it doesn't just come from achievement, it comes from recognizing the achievement. You achieve and you pat yourself on the back. Not your mother patting you on the back, not your friends patting you back, not your coach patting you on the back. Michael Jordan became Michael Jordan because he recognized that he could be the best, and every time he was good, he recognized that he was good, and he recognized that he could get better, and worked hard to get better. He recognized, if you look at Michael Jordan, there's a guy with self-esteem. He's incredibly self-confident. Incredible to have a sense that he's worthy of being the greatest basketball player of all time. It's not just an accident, he's worthy of it, because he worked hard, he attained it. He's got what it takes. And so it's getting those achievements, recognizing those, and what area in life do you think you get the most self-esteem from? Where do you achieve stuff in life? Really, you know, people talk about, you know, where do you spend most of your life? At work. At work. It's not with family. It's not at the gym. It's not in the front of the mirror. It's at work. So if you want to build a life of self-esteem and find work you love and do it really, really, really well, not because other people expect you, not because you'll get rewarded for it, but because you will reward yourself when you make those achievements. Stretch yourself, push yourself, challenge yourself. That's where you'll get the self-confidence to be good at everything else in life. But that's the foundation. The foundation is to be good at what you do at work. Being productive. And I wouldn't even call it work. I'd call it a career. Because a career is something planned. A career is something long-term. A career is something you develop, you move towards. It's not just the work I'm doing right now. It's the career I have. And a career is not about money. It's not about prestige. And it's not about other people. It's about you. And it's about making the most of your life. It's about fulfilling yourself. It's about being happy. So that's the seven. That's the formula for success. But it takes work. I like to say that being selfish is the hardest thing you can do. It takes hard work. Because it takes figuring out what is good for me. Which is not easy. And how do I achieve it? It takes using your mind all the time in pursuit of a partner, in pursuit of a diet, in pursuit of exercise, in pursuit of your work, in pursuit of your life. But the reward, the reward of that is what life is all about. The reward for that is that flourishing, that fulfillment. The reward for that is happiness. That's the payoff. That's what it's all about. Thank you all. Questions? Thank you very much. I really enjoyed your speech. And I had a question like you mentioned earlier about free choice and also how others make you feel guilty and how it's okay to be selfish. But then where does responsibility come into that? For example, let's say you have a sick child or a child who needs special attention or maybe you might have aging parents and are those responsibilities that you have to take on? Are you socially obligated to take those responsibilities or should you have the free choice to say, no, I don't want to do those things and I want to pursue whatever I want to pursue?