 What's good y'all shit boy Ross back again with another video so lately I've been seeing these social media influencers start pandering to women and For the life of me. It doesn't make sense now I want to make this disclaimer before I even get into this topic. I love women You feel me? I was primarily raised by a a woman, you know My father was in my life and shout out to my dad, but I primarily stayed with my mom and I Understand that when it comes to being a man or what they Tell you what how a man should be, you know, you want to be the breadwinner You want to be the person that takes care of home? And you know what? I'm okay with that You know, especially if that's someone that I know that has my back that has my best interests when I'm you know, having a Great time a great day and things are going great She's there with me when things are going bad and it's it's real rough and it's I may be going through a dark period in my time In my life. She's with me like there's nothing wrong with taking care and helping the woman You know in that in that respect, you know being the breadwinner. I'm okay with that but What I'm not okay with is Giving up my money and pretty much simping to someone that honestly Doesn't really care about me and only there for my funds And I've been seeing a lot of social media influencers or not a lot But there's some the big ones that have a bigger following just pander for no other reason other than they know they're gonna get a lot of women to like and you know Subscribe to whatever they're selling you feel me and women start believing the stuff that they're selling and one of the biggest People out right now. He's one of them at least that's just really big on pandering to women right now He goes by pastor poppy don on Instagram. He's one of the bigger pandering social media influencers and there's a couple clips on here that I think we should definitely check out so you guys can see that This is literally promoting simping at his highest level and it's not what's up So let's check out some of these clips man and see what pastor poppy don has to say man Good morning, you see how much you make a big deal out of money How much you should spend how much you don't want to spend on women How much they don't deserve now you get to see why women use money as a love token and something to show that you really like her Because that's all you motherfuckers talk about. That's all that's in your music That's all you post about you even talk about how much you don't want to spend on her So obviously when you spend some money, she takes it as you really like her since you don't want to spend no money fucking dickhead My share I don't agree with that. I don't Me spending money on you shouldn't really validate How much I quote-unquote love you? Because you can sit up there and be like, oh, okay I Want to get you this this nice car or whatever Get her that nice car and still treat her like trash or cheat on her or you know Don't really show her no affection or attention like Yeah, she got a nice car now that she didn't have to pay for but at the end of the day Do you really love her? Do you really care for it? Is it just like a trophy wife to keep happy or a trophy girlfriend to keep happy? So no, I might have to disagree with that one. Good morning. So let me get this straight These men want you to do your hair your nails get your eyelashes done by an outfit All just to go on dates with them They want to get to know you so they want you to invest in yourself to invest in time with them for free Maybe after two three months, you might decide if you're worthy to spend money on and these men seem to think that their husband's in the future All right Okay Let's break this now If I'm trying to get to know someone right You know, that's that's kind of one of those type of things where it's like She should already you know Be dressed up and looking nice and presentable if we're gonna go out on a date cuz I'm I'm pretty sure she would want the same from me I'm not gonna be asking no chick or expecting a chick to pay me money to get my hair cut to make sure my fit is fresh Make sure I'm smelling good have on the right cologne. You know I'm saying like like no like as to me. It's like kind of just like a Universal thing if you meet someone you end up taking them out on a date or what not? I mean technically You kind of are like spending money on you don't even have to wait two three months Like you're technically spending money on that person cuz you know It's custom tradition for guys to pay for the date, which I'm okay with I'm okay with that You know I'm saying if you're gonna take someone out on a date, you know be willing to pay for it Which is fine. Oh a young woman out on a date be willing to pay for it. That's fine But this whole notion of oh well, you know I'm saying I think you know He should be paying for my hair and all this other stuff If I'm gonna be dolled up to look good for him on a date that doesn't even guarantee that There'll be a date two or three like it may just be one date and y'all just may not be compatible then what now? You know saying like I don't I don't agree with that either like I don't know man I don't know the same man that say they I'm not buying her a gift unless she's my wife I'm not doing for her unless I know she's with me for me or the same motherfuckers that when they do buy you gifts They take them shits back in two seconds as soon as y'all break up Soon as y'all break up as you use them. Oh you ungrateful they start breaking things and take yeah Go ahead. Go on. I'm insecure niggas. That's talking my oldest spiritual shit I need to make sure she's right first. He also gonna be mr. Right take your shit. I'm gonna be stealing bags, too The same man that city. I'm a boy. I Don't believe in Indian giving if you do give someone a gift and then y'all break up and then To take the gift for back. I don't believe in that like that's that's dead That's the only thing I'll give him credit for but everything else he was talking about It's like what's wrong with waiting on someone that you feel is right for you women do the same So why we can't just like you know I'm saying I ain't about to drop up a few bands on someone And I don't really know them like that like you know saying I got a really vibe with you to even in this my time So let alone throwing money at you like I don't I don't know man. I don't know this. That's This is this is what this is what social media is in 2021 this is what I guess being like someone knowledgeable This is a knowledgeable person. I guess in this field of letting women know that a You deserve a guy that's gonna be willing to throw that money on you Not me man. Not me like I don't have a problem You know saying showing a person a good time But at the same time I gotta make sure that the person I'm investing into is also is Invested in me but not for the wrong reason not because of what I can give them or what what I have You know I'm saying that's that's the real key right there, but I don't see any messages on this page Promoting that I just see a lot of She'll hear you get money stories. She doesn't want to hear about what clubs you've been to where you traveled She's looking you dead in your fucking eyes at your neck in your breasts And she's wondering why she ain't got one cell from you But you over here telling her about all this get money shit You wore your jewelry picked up in your nice car and she's still trying to figure out why you ain't said no fucking money But all you keep talking about is money Shut the fuck up about what you do and do it send that girl some money right now stupid She don't want to hear you get money stories Why? Why is this a thing? Just someone tell me why is this a thing, bro? Seriously someone tell me why is this a thing? All right, what what is this? seriously This is what we're promoting now Because a guy has a nice watch nice change he's talking about his money ventures and You're supposed to be sending her money because you have money If if that's what a woman wants from you She got to go got to cut her loose You know, it's different if I'm bragging in front of you like oh, I'm this rich. I'm this rich. I'm this rich That's different But if I'm just talking about the funds I've acquired or you know saying you just see the nice stuff that's on me I don't even have to flash it. You just see it And you expect just off the strength because I have it you got to have it Next one next next cringe post see what other cringe stuff you got on news flash Women missed a sugar daddy in a trick more than they miss you little fucking fake ass Boyfriends the fuck she gonna miss a nigga for that makes her go half on bills Why she gonna miss a nigga that never bought her no random gifts all those times that you thought she was sad or something She's thinking about her ex who actually takes care for you fucking broke ass niggas really think a woman misses you It's only because you were knowing and won't stop texting how she takes your broke ass back No, I just so much cringe this whole cringe, bro, just make a cringe, bro, like what? No, bro No, I'm gonna keep this a stack and a half for you, man, bro No, no now they're going half on bills thing I Can see how some people feel some type of way, but I've I've always felt that when it comes to Build situations that depends on y'all financial situation You know I'm saying I don't have a problem with a woman putting in on the bills if we're living together There's nothing wrong with that and if anyone tries to tell me differently I'm gonna look at them like well I guess you're not the person for me or whatever cuz you know I've always felt it's a teamwork, especially if you're living together Y'all y'all work on who paying what you know I'm saying All right, I paid a rent you get some of the utilities or you get the utilities or you know We figure it out. It depends on your situation, but to just sit up there and be like Well, I'm paying for everything. There's nothing wrong with that if that's what you want to do for that person fine I'm not gonna judge you for it. That's your living situation But for it to be like a law or rule or something Demanded nah, that's where you have to miss me on that one, man There's two things a woman want to hear her cash happens out And what's her full name and birthday book her a trip if you really want her do something different some acts of her To the movies at a dinner. She could drive there herself do something no one else is asking her for take her on fucking vacation You cheap broke bastards Otherwise leave alone let a rich demon come and get it. Oh man. She need to be nobody want to hear about your spiritual future Motherfucker, she want to be on the plane getting back shots on a balcony. There's two things a woman want to hear her cash Happens out and what's her if you're not my girlfriend someone I've invested time into my wife That that's the only way I would just be like hey You know I'm saying book a trip plan a flight something like that Do something spontaneous? But if I don't know you we just in like some dating phase or getting to know each other phase What the hell do I look like just randomly? Randomly taking you on a trip. I don't even know you and this is the type of stuff that I See on social media and women eat it up Not realizing it's pandering bro. I'm willing to bet this guy don't really believe half the stuff He's saying I'm gonna just keep it a stack with you I'm willing to bet. He don't believe half the stuff that he's saying right now You want to know why because at the end of the day, bro Like no one's just out here the regular nine to five working man It's not out here meeting a new woman and then just be like a man You know I'm saying let's go on a trip. Let's go on a trip to Cancun. I got you What's your cash out need your hair done need your nails done? I got you. I'm gonna just throw this money at you No, bro. No No It's not even a guarantee. She's gonna even rock with you like that like no just That's me. We gotta have self-respect. There's nothing wrong with treating women with self-respect with respect as well You know, there's nothing wrong with showing women a good time But you got to make sure that person you showing a good time too is worthy of your time That's what we need to start promoting. What's good? What's good for the men as well? There's nothing wrong with treating women great. There's nothing wrong with showing a woman a great time But you also got to make sure that your time matters, too So you having a good time is just as important as she having a good time. You feel me? So I don't know man. This this his whole page is mega cringe And I saw a post his one of his more recent posts We got to check this one out so you can kind of understand, you know Where I'm coming from here, but we just got to check this post out You know, there's an agenda on social media that I don't know what it is But having my page deleted and you give it back But I keep getting banned and reported and Instagram's not even checking the content No, as anybody at Facebook and I just want to say I'm not even gonna post on this page anymore until I can get a meeting at Instagram to discuss why a man who's changing his life to come out the streets Wants to be a pastor to preach to women keeps getting flagged and the content keeps getting taken down until then I don't want to do it And I'm not trying to laugh at someone getting a page taking and stuff like that taken down and stuff I've been dealing with my own personal hacking situation from this from, you know, someone hacking my Instagram So I know how it feels to lose your page that you worked hard on and I'm not sitting up here saying that You know, the fellas should be out here reporting this page, but I'm willing to bet there's a lot of fellas out here Definitely, I'm I'm willing to bet reported his page, bro because here's the thing You you may be trying to preach to these women and trying to change your life and that's cool But it's so one-sided. It's pandering if I'm going to try to uplift Relationships, I'm not gonna just choose the male side I'm gonna choose the women side as well and I'm gonna choose both sides so that way Relationships can grow equally. It should never be a one-sided thing I'm not all for men, you know treating women with disrespect and expecting women to do Everything for you. No, I'm not with that and I'm not with women doing the same thing I'm with us all coming together Equally, that's what I'm all about. I'm not I'm not for the simping I'm not for the throwing money at someone you barely even know on both sides I don't want women throwing money at guys They barely know because there are women that throw money at guys and be wondering why that guy doesn't really care Or you know have the same feelings they should have for that person, you know saying so yeah, man This was cringe This was mega mega cringe, bro It definitely it definitely pained me to watch some of these clips And there's actually more clips on here that I did watch It's just probably not gonna be in this video because it was just I I Couldn't either either one. I just didn't feel like like Putting this up there for you guys to even see or to it was just it was a whole bunch of nonsense I'm like, let me just cut this but the clips that you do see on here. They for me was definitely the most cringe So comment down below. Let me know if you guys agree We're past their poppy don and what he's saying or do you guys agree that he's pandering to women to gain that That women fan base because I just feel like it's a whole bunch of pandering In my personal opinion, but I appreciate all love and support road to 50k appreciate y'all You get it with me and I see y'all on next one. Peace