 This one's for the Christian ladies out there. Don't settle for a man who makes excuses or neglects his responsibilities. Don't settle for a man who treats his mom or sisters poorly. Don't settle for a man who's enslaved to lust or porn. Don't settle for a man that treats God like a distant relative that he has to see on weekends. Don't settle for a man that relies on you to lead spiritually. Don't settle for a man who doesn't take his responsibility to provide for his future family seriously. Don't settle for a man who has no passion for the kingdom to build to take dominion. Look, he doesn't need to have everything together, but you need to realize that he might not be ready. And it's not your job to get him ready or to fix him. Patience is key. Trust God in the in-between.