 If you missed the boat, that just means it wasn't yours to catch, it doesn't mean that your life is now stuck, that you missed an opportunity, that your life is now cursed. If you missed a boat in life, I want you to reframe it as that it wasn't my boat to catch because life is filled with boats, if a boat is a metaphor for opportunity, then life is filled with boats and opportunities. If you missed the last one, there's a new one coming, but if you stand on the dock side, stand on the beach looking longingly at the boat that you missed, then your life will spend years, months, decades regretting the boat you missed, standing on the dock side weeping over the boat that you missed and that is not what life is about. Just keep going. Don't listen to the naysayers who told you it's this boat or no boat, it's this time or no time, it's this way or no way because that's not and never is true.