 The things that society values in women, I'm not even saying it's necessarily right, but the things that women, society values in women goes down as they age. Gravity takes it away from you. Age takes it away from you. And the things society values in men goes up with age, unfortunately. And then it ends up going down, but like, don't reach their peak at 45. You feel what I'm saying? It hasn't been proven. Listen, it's the message right here. Black boy, tell me how you really feel. Because I just want to build with you. Black girl, tell me how you really feel. I want to keep it real with you. I want to live better, eat better. I want to love better, sleep better. Yeah, I want to feel so aligned. Let's go to the question portion. What questions do you have for men? And me and Zo will do our best to answer them. Why aren't men consistent? That's what I want to know. Okay, say like you meet a female, right? Y'all texting, calling all the time, like say give it like two weeks, right? Say y'all fuck. After that, don't hear from them. Why is that? You already got what he wanted. Besides that, I'm explaining. I'm explaining two ways. There are dudes who like, and I know dudes who like, yo, I'm gonna pay whatever amount of money I need to pay to get the pussy. So there are dudes like that that they're just gonna play the game to get what they want. They're gonna move on. However, I want to talk more about the dudes who, like I was talking about, they put you on the pedestal. And unfortunately, a lot of women think they're good women because they never have to consider what men consider good. So what tends to happen is eventually, especially after we have sex and all the, you know, the rose colored glasses aren't in our eyes anymore. We realize if she's actually, like I actually don't like her as a person. And then they move on. So that's why I've been telling women, are you a likable person past just your looks past just your wop? Because what, what, you know, as men get older and we get more experience with women, more comfortable, we get a little bit more status and shit like that. We're around bad bitches a lot. So looks don't really matter. So looks don't really matter, right. And so you have to be honest about your personality as opposed to just assuming you're good. So you have to think about it from the perspective of men. Am I good from a man's perspective? Because somebody like me, for instance, I'm somebody who is, you know what I'm saying? Sepia sexual. Would you continue yourself as a sepia sexual? Sure, sure. But with that being the case, like I'm not a super emotional person. So I appreciate emotional women. Like she's, she's the yin to my yang. She's my balance, right? Even my daughter's mom is emotional, right? So, so, you know, with that being said, if you're somebody who's like me, it's not gonna work. It won't work. I won't, I won't be attracted to myself. I'm attracted to my company. Right. So I absolutely. So even the sign things like the signs, I don't believe in that stuff. But I hear, I hear you though. Because people do. Everybody different to me though. So my thing is like from a woman's standpoint, what advice I would give my daughter is consider the type of man that you want. So like whether you need to make a list, you need to draw that nigga, you need to go and photoshop and put them together. I wish you could build our own man, but Right, right. Build, build, build the nigga in your mind. And then consider to yourself and you need to be honest and you need to be thorough and you need to be authentic. Who does he want? I 100% agree. And I've seen the thing where it says write a list of everything you want in your partner and then become those things. That's a bad, that's a bad idea. That's a terrible explain elaborate. Because like, say you're talking to someone and you expect them to be like, Oh, what do you want in a person? Right? They're not going to tell you because then you're just going to be that, you know, that's not authentic. Right. I can tell you everything I want to answer your question. And I think it's a really good question. So when I was in high school, I played football. I was a quarterback. So if we let's say there was a dude transferring from another school to come to our team, there were two dudes. And I had to decide who I wanted to come to the team. Dude one was another quarterback. Dude two was a wide receiver. Who would I be more enthusiastic about inviting to the team? Another quarterback or wide receiver? Obviously you'd be more excited about the wide receiver. Absolutely. I don't want another quarterback because now I got to compete with him. Right. I want somebody to throw the ball to. He makes me look good. I make him look good. So again, that's why I've been saying, Okay, figure out the type of man. So maybe you want a quarterback type of dude, you need to learn how to cast the ball. Maybe you want a wide receiver type of dude, you need to learn how to throw the ball. But you need to be clear on the type of man that you want. And then the type of woman that he's going to want. And then you need to do that. But if you just think, you know, I'm a I'm a point. Let's use basketball. I'm a point guard and he should like point guards. No point guards like centers. You know what I'm saying? Baseball. If you're a shortstop, you know what I'm saying? He likes a picture. He doesn't want another shortstop. Right. That's his position. Exactly. Exactly. That's what I'm saying. Next question. Ladies. Because like y'all feel like all black women are the same. You know, like everything y'all said was just like. Generalized. Policy. Generalized. Yeah. Yeah. Just very general. What just what this airbodies is about everybody. That sound like a chord. I want to address that. I think, so me, I'm a psychology nerd. We can tell. We can definitely tell. Yeah. I do this shit. But anyway, I say that to say, like when you really study psychology, you realize people are not that different. Generally, people generally speaking, people's motivations are very similar. Like even across race, across gender, across socioeconomic status, when you really boil it down, people want life, liberty and a pursuit of happiness. Now it gets more complex. No, absolutely. It gets more complex as you drill down. But generally speaking, people are the same. Now when, when you drill down, people are a lot more similar. So like black people have a lot in common. We'll get to that. Everybody's their own person. You're absolutely right. Black men have a lot in common. Black women have a lot in common. And as people who are trying to have the most. The culture. Yeah. Yeah. And as people who are trying to have the most expedient and trying to have the most thorough and productive interactions with people, you need to have a working understanding of people. Yeah. So you need to, even though like you're going to be different than any black woman I've ever met, you're still a black woman. So I have to come in understanding. You're probably going to feel a certain way about colorism. You're probably going to feel a certain way about texturism, futurism, things like that. Even though me and Asia are the same black woman, she is, you know, lighter. I am darker. You guys look at us differently. Absolutely. And, and even though we look at you differently, there are certain pain points that are consistent from being a woman, you know what I'm saying? No, no, not even that. But as being a woman, both of you guys can relate to, yeah, both of you guys can relate to not feeling safe walking home late at night. You'll come from two different walks of life, have different experiences. Both of you guys can relate to dealing with men. Both of you guys can relate to menstrual cycle. Black men specifically. Black men specifically. Yes, sir. Hispanic men, black men, you know what I'm saying? I don't know. I don't know. So with that being said, there are certain, there are certain consistencies. So I think we need to first understand the consistencies and be able to speak to the consistencies and then pick apart the differences. To the majority. Yes. Yes, sir. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Can't dress them. You never see. No, hold on, wait. I have to address this, though. Let me get it. Can't address it to address it. Hold on, hold on. It's clear. On dressings. What the fuck is going on? On dressings. Hold on, baby. She clueless to the situation. Hold on, hold on. All right, talk to us. Shorty, talk to us. I just made a statement, but I want you to talk to us. I got you, I got you, I got you. Hold on. Shorty, right here. I'm not Shorty. She's Tali. That's right. Shorty, right here. Nasia. Shorty, right here. Oh, God. Shorty, right here. No count. Oh, now I'm going to call you a nitty. In the green. That's right. I'm Nigerian, though. Shorty, right here, thinks that me and Shorty, right here. That's right. Situations. I don't want that to ever come out in my mouth. It didn't come out in my mouth. Insane. She asked the question. She asked the question. That's what she said. That's what she said. She asked how to hear me. I said, that's what I'm saying. That's what I mean. That Haitians, the Africans, they're flirtatious. That's what I said. Okay, guys. That's right. I want to speak on YouTube. Extremely. Extremely. You're right. I'm glad he gave you your props. Give it to me, give it to me. Don't give it to him. But I think he acknowledged it. Tonight he was doing that just to do it. But at least he acknowledged it. Powtrip. Welcome back to the show. Got me up all night. Oh, fucks sake. Powtrip. I don't say nothing wrong. Okay, call. Let's get this. No. No, do R. Kelly. I'm glad. We're the little something girls. Oh, R. Kelly. I don't say anything wrong. I can't cancel that man, man. All right. I don't know, like, no. Never cancel R. Kelly. R. Kelly the girl. Oh. He making babies out here. But anyways. I am. We listening. But to calm down. Can I wear a helmet? We want to have, we want to have, um, so. Are y'all good? I don't want to switch. Oh, bad. Are y'all good? Oh, she took his hat off. Mm-hmm. Bomb a guy. I should pat it down on the top. Bomb a guy. Y'all good? Y'all good? Y'all good? Yeah, let's go. Bomb a guy. Yeah. Yes. All right, welcome back. Mm-hmm. Thank you guys. I need a hat. I don't have a haircut. I don't have a beard. I don't have a beard. You got a beard, do you understand? I don't have my wig on. That shit be looking crazy, so. And I look pretty, too. We going to make it happen. Thankfully, my hairline is still holding on. His shit was looking like he was. All right. Ladies. Holding on. Chocolate. Wiggle on the cigarette. Sound like he might be faithful. Fuck you over, boys. Like him? Do what the best he can. Fuck you over out there. Don't worry about that. I got you. I got something for you to ask. Anyways. Welcome back to the show. All right. So, Pasadena, you had some questions for Alan. I didn't have any questions, but I did have a... Hold up. It's alcohol. It's tequila. It's tequila. Damn. You have to stay. I have some responses. Yes. Yes. What do you have written down? Just jump over that and then I'll start the video whenever you figure that part out. All right. So in response to Alan, he was saying how, you know, men are going out and looking for women in different continents in different countries because they give them a different type of respect. The evolution of women has come about. All right. And this may be a phase. It could be a phase, honestly. But we have ample opportunity. We have so much that is out there at our disposal that we are now becoming what men were, basically. And I don't think that they can handle what they have been dishing out for the last, we'll say, 30 years. They don't like it. They don't like it. They're saying, what's your question? No, go ahead, finish up. All right. They're saying that women are city girls and, you know, they'll fuck whatever. But that's not the case. We're not fucking whatever. We're fucking what's, you know, given to us. So the evolution of women, basically, we're going to say in the 1700s, obviously, not 1700s. But don't cut this out either. Peter, come on. Get to it. Get to it. You can get to the point. Get to the point. What are you trying to say? Well, listen, women have evolution. Wait. Women have cut that part. All right. No, no, no, hold on. Let me try to. Hold on. Hold on. I got you. So you're saying that women of today are, you know. Women have evolved. Women are exercising the options that men exercise. We have ample options from jobs to money to travel to men. We have so many options. And we are just exercising our rights to those options, basically, exactly the way that men have been doing for centuries. And they don't like that. Right. And they cannot accept the fact that women are doing exactly what they've been doing for the last 20, 30, 40, 50 years. You guys can do all the hand signals that you want. It may be a phase. Sure. But we are seizing our moment. This is our moment. It could be a 20-year span. It could be a five-year span. It could be a 10-year span. You know what I'm saying? Bet that. But we are seizing our moment. And we have been treating men the way that men have been treating women. Yeah. For the last, we'll say, century. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? You guys are not okay with city girls, right? What's your question? Just kidding. I don't have any questions. This is a statement. I don't have any questions. What's your statement? Are y'all okay with city girls? Right. That's the question. Right. That was my question. I love city girls. I appreciate the movement. I in love with the movement. I think it's like that word, though. You like the movement. You're in love with the movement because Alan was not in favor of the movement. Hold on, hold on. Before Alan, hold on, hold on. Before you say something. Okay. Because I want to hear Alan, because he's going to be honest. I'll be honest as well. All right, please. You've known me long enough. I'm always honest. Fact is, if we're speaking on longevity and relationships, then yes, no. I mean, fuck the city girl movement. It's stupid. Exactly. But if you're speaking on generalities, most men, accessibility, women, of course I love, I'm in love with it. You like the easy access. Hold on, just give me a sec. Sure. Give me a sec. I'm not speaking for myself, per se. I'm speaking for the average man. This is the average of podcasts and it's the average guy generally is happy with the movement right now because we could get pussy in. Easy access. It's easy access right now. So we're out here. You are confirming. Let me explain what you women do not understand. All right, I'm listening. Women conflate access to sex with access to relationships. Women believe that if men, you got a hundred men in your DMs, that inevitably means that men want to be in relationship with you or want to marry you or want to be in long term relationships with you. Hold on, let me get to the point real quick. Men don't want to be in relationship with you. Those men in your DMs, they're not trying to be in relationship. They're trying to have sex. You're right. You're right. And we know that. Phase value. We know that. So why would we not be happy about that if that's our first instinct? That's our very first instinctual. That's our very first instinctual. What's the word I'm trying to think of? Reflex. Reflex. Fuck's sake. That's literally, that's a knee jerk right there. That's all we want when we meet you on first value, phase value, we want to have sex with you. We're not thinking about, oh, I want to make this woman wife. No, we think about, I want to have sex with this woman. And then after the fact, then okay, cool. Like what else does she have involved in her? What's her brain like? What's her mind like? What's her style like? Right. What's her, you know, family like X, Y and Z and then we want to marry you. But in the initial stages, we just want to fuck. So at the end of the day, I think that y'all, I think that women are actually losing as of today. As of today we're actually losing because y'all are actually looking for men that's, you know, right here, right, right, right now. You think we're losing, but we are living the lifestyle that you were living in the 70s. But you're not doing anything. Pimp era was, was happening. When you guys had all these women underneath your belt, you know. I'll, I'll, I'll in response to that. Don't let Alan express it. Don't dismiss me. I'm not, no, no, I'm sorry. I'm saying, no, no, no. I was saying, go ahead, go ahead and say what you gotta say. And then the Alan. Right. I was saying, I'm done with the conversation. Okay, so women are living the lifestyle that men have been living for centuries now. We've evolutionized, you know, we've evolved as women. We have ample opportunity. We are able to work now. We are able to transport ourselves from one place to another, basically. We don't depend on men in the way that we did historically. Do you, do you understand what I'm saying? I agree. I actually agree with you. Beautiful. Thank you. All right, so it could be a phase. It could be a phase. It could be five years. It could be 10 years that women are going to be in this city girl era. But this is just something that we have basically, this is something that we have, I won't say earned because it's not something that we've earned, but it's something that we've become that has become accessible to us, basically. The opportunities, the men, the money, the ability to travel, like the ability to be the freedom, basically. Let me stop you real quick. Okay. I'm going to go for a quick two second rant real quick. Okay. No, women do not want all of that shit. Women don't want to be what men were years ago. Women don't want that. Ultimately, women want marriages. Women want relationships. Women want commitment. So at the end of the day, like, no, that's bullshit. Let's be honest, right? You want a man who is your man. You want a man who's providing for you. You want a man who's protecting you. You want a man who is yours, ultimately. So that's absolute bullshit. First of all, that's number one. Number two is at the end of the day, like men can, we can for multiple shorties. It doesn't matter at the end of the day because we still decide who is that woman. Okay. It doesn't matter. I can have sex with six women right now and I will still pick that one woman who takes my seed, period point and blank. At the end of the day, like, you're looking at it from, you're looking at, you're looking at relationships from a masculine perspective as a woman and you can't do that. You have to look at a relationship from a feminine perspective as a woman. What are you bringing to the relationship? What is your part to play in the relationship and then allow the man to play his part within that relationship? But when you start conflating things like, oh well, we're doing the things that you were doing back in 1970s and now you guys don't like it, we love it. What are you talking about? We, I love the fact that shorties is out here trying to give an ass. Nature? What did you have to say about that? Stop it. Let me finish. Okay. I love the fact that women are out here trying to give ass. I love it 100% as an average fucking zone. But you wouldn't marry them. Let me finish. As an average fucking zone. I love it. I would never marry those shorties. I would not ever marry those shorties. They would not be in the realm of marriage. And that's perfectly fine. Hey, one mic please. Let's just respect the show for a second. I'm listening. One mic. I'm ad-libbing. For marriage purposes, right? I will not follow suit with that lifestyle, like we just fucking around. No, that's not the way, that's not the woman that I want. The woman that I want is a woman that adheres to my preferences. Because when I want to have sex with a woman, because women control sex and men control relationships, so I would have to adhere to the woman's preferences when I want to have sex with her. Oh, she wants me to be this type of guy. She wants me to take her on dates. She wants me to be X, Y, and Z height. She wants me to be looking this type of way. So you know what? I have to conform myself into what she requires. But when it comes to relationships, I need you to conform to what I want you to conform to. I want you to be a fucking wholesome woman. I want you to cook for me. I want you to be in the house. I want you to keep yourself for me. I want you to keep your body for me. We want to be that person for you. We do. We do. Neja, I seen you had something to say. This is a productive back and forth. I want you to be able to come to that. No, no, no, no. I'm gonna hear what Neja has to say. Let's hear what Neja has to say. I'm done with that, because you're never gonna understand it. Say about what though, okay, Mia? You're almost interrupted. So I just want to- I haven't forgot it. Fucking. For real. Okay, anyway. Let's bring this back full circle real quick. I'll put it back on perspective. I gotta finish what I gotta say. Go ahead. Go ahead. All right. So, you know, men have their time, all right? There was a pimp era. There was a whole pimp era when there was an era. It still is a pimp era. Exactly. So now women have evolutionized to the same level that men are at. And you guys simply can't handle it. That's all that it is. That's what passport boys are. You guys can't handle the fact that we are what you were. Can I respond to that? That's true. Please. Thank you. But- Go ahead. No, no, no. No, you go ahead. I want to hear what you gotta say. I feel like a woman cheating is different than a man cheating. Hundred percent. I agree with you. If a woman cheats, like, they're bound to catch feelings, type, like, you know what I'm saying? But if a man cheats, yeah. But if a man cheats, they're like, they can get 20 different pussy, but they still worry about that one bitch. Exactly. You know what I'm saying? Like my baby daddy, example. He can be fucking, you know what I'm saying? But he's still worried about what the fuck I'm doing. I'm like, got a whole bitch. Why are you worried about me? You know what I'm saying? But it's just like, but then again for women, it's different. Maybe, I don't know. But I haven't really just- Why do you think it's different? Let's talk about that. Wait, wait, wait. Before we do that, before we do that, and I think that's actually a very, very, very important topic. But I want to just close this peanuts topic right here, which goes with the women are- Men have their time. Hold on. Just so I understand, right? You're saying that women are now what men were, right? Right. Women now are like freelancing pussy. We have opportunity. We have the ability to make our own money. We basically plan how we go. And men don't like when women make more money than them. Good. Hold on. Let me just, thank you for saying that as well. Let me just kill this and then we can move on. If you disagree, we can talk about that later on. I'm killing. But you cannot, women cannot be men. That's true. We've never wanted to be, we don't want to be. So when you then revert yourselves from your feminine selves into men, you then remove yourselves from the dating game, you know? In essence, because you cannot be a woman and then turn yourself into a man and expect to date men. We're not turning into men. I want to correct you on that. You just said, we are just maneuvering as men have maneuvered. Playing are not men. You're playing the game as men play the game. Yeah. Exactly. That's right. That's exactly my point. If it's a game, then we both got to play. You have to, yeah. Hold on. But thank you for saying that. You're playing the game as men play the game. If it's a game, I'm trying to win. It is a game. It is a game. And I get that. I appreciate y'all for agreeing with me. You're playing the game just like men play the game. So in essence, you're turning yourselves into a man that you actually are attracted to. You're turning yourselves into men. No, not the ones that I'm attracted to. Not that you're attracted to. You don't even know how they'd be to you really. Exactly. Thank you, Naysia, for reinforcing what I was about to say. Is there a better way to explain this? Me. I feel like there's a better way to explain this. Yeah, and talk. And I'm not really touching you. Go ahead. Oh, god damn, I feel nervous, guys. Oh, my god. It should be. Come on, Mr. No, so this is what I'll say. I remember there was a dude, he posted on Twitter. He was like, he doesn't like the fact that women are posting news and shit like that. And a bunch of women in protest sent him a bunch of news. And he was like, we're going to show him. And he's like, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I said that. I said that. I remember that. I say that to say to his point, masculine women are easier to have sex with. So men aren't really men. Masculine women. Elaborate, please. Masculine women are easier to have sex with because masculine women prioritize the same things. Men prioritize. Oh, OK. Simple as that. That's not true. That's it. It's very true. I'm listening to Alice. I think the difference is, and a lot of times, we talk about the cheating and stuff like that. But the difference we have to really acknowledge is, for instance, my daughter. As young as she is, she already has all the eggs that she's ever going to have in life. She's born with all the potential human beings she can make. And then after puberty and after menopause, in every single period, she continues to lose them. So when we talk about women going after the best possible man, it's because there is a scarcity there. I have a finite number of eggs that I continue to lose. So I have to find the best, biggest, baddest, richest dude to protect my offspring. But can we not say men's sperm count decreases as they get older? Please. But what do we talk? Women are born with 100,000 eggs. OK. Why the riches? Do you know what a low sperm count is? What is it? 15 million. Million. OK. But only one sperm can impregnate a female. Just hope what you replenish it. And it's hardly one of those 15 million. I understand what you're saying. The million's not, let's not get confused with the matter of 500 million. Let's level. Because what I'm saying is a low sperm count is 15 million. Average sperm count is 200, 300 million. A woman is born with about 100,000 eggs. So the reason men move a certain way and women move a certain way, it really boils down to biology. And even to your point about women falling in love and shit, it's because it makes sense you have to bond with a baby to take care of it. Whereas men are not tasked with taking care of a baby as far as the nurturing piece. So the chemicals that are released in your brain are not released in ours to the same extent. That's true. That is so interesting. So the point I'm making is, if you're a woman trying to play men's game, you're going to lose. All day. Are we? All day. Or I'm just going to hit it and equalize. Thank you for that. Women can definitely do that. You're not equalizing at all. Women can absolutely. But it's like, where are we getting out of that? Exactly. Because women can absolutely do that. But what I've been, because I have two sisters too. But what I've been explaining is the consequences are different. Because we can talk about on the high end. The consequences of hidden equity? Absolutely. We can talk about on the high end pregnancy. OK. We can talk about STDs and shit like that. But we can also talk about your pH balance being thrown off. That's something men don't have to deal with. Raggedy men. You feel that? And that's my point. My classmates fall. It is. But my point is the boxes and checklists you have to go through in your mind to decide to have sex with a dude is longer than the boxes and checklists I have to go in my mind to have sex with a woman. So for a woman to think she could play the same game that I can play, considering what happens when you're pregnant. I'm talking about post-traumatic. Not post-traumatic. What is it called? I know what you mean. Post-partum. God bless you. And I've seen the shit up close. When we're talking about post-partum, we're talking about potentially dying, giving birth. And we're talking about like... Geriatric pregnancies. No, not geriatric. But not everybody wants to keep that little baby you done implanted. I understand. But the high blood pressure thing, what is it called? I know what you mean. It's a risky pregnancy. It's risky. But the point I'm trying to make is because of all the risks involved and because of everything that goes into it, there are a lot more considerations women have to make. So even a woman... That is very true. And that's just in life. Absolutely. So even a woman who's pretending that she can do and move the way that men do and move, it is not biologically consistent. All right. So you said pretending. Why? Because like I said before, there are a lot more considerations that you have to make than I have to make. We make those considerations. Absolutely. So to pretend that those considerations don't exist, I can move just like you. It's not true. You never have... We said that we were pretending that it doesn't exist. That's true. We know that we can get pregnant. We know that you can get 10 women pregnant in two days. Absolutely. You know what I'm saying? Sometimes this problem don't work. Right. Well, I can get pregnant anyway. But there's more... It would be a baby. But wait, wait, wait one second. Because the point we're trying to make is because of those biological differences to say that we can do the same thing is not true. It's dumb. That's all I'm saying because... Because... You really... I remember there was a comedian. There was a comedian. He had a joke that he made. And he was saying, you know, if... Let's say my homeboy hit me up and he's like, you're about to pull up. Right. Right. First, I'm going to ask him like, yo, give me a second. Let me get my shit together. You're right. You're right. You know what I'm saying? Where are you coming from? Take your shoes off when you get... You know what I'm saying? Versus if my home... The same homeboy calls me. He's like, yo, come over. It's easier. Y'all, I'm going to grab my keys. I'm going to be there. I'm going to be there. So similarly, women are being entered. Men are entering. Entering. There are a lot more considerations. Well, Nittavia. There are a lot more considerations that are necessary to enter or to be entered than to enter. Than to enter. So to pretend that you can play the same game as the interer when you're the enteree, it never works out well. I love how you're saying pretend. Yes, it's not again. Let me say this one part right here. And then I want to get her partiness. Yes. The initial argument is that you are women, modern women are now becoming... Evolved. They have evolved, as you say. And they've evolved to become... Transitioned, I should say. Goddamn. Can I? Let's use one. Sorry, babe. They've evolved to become men. Traditional men, right? We won't say mean, but... Just they've come on on, stop it. They've evolved to become men. And now they are doing the things that men usually would do, which is just have incessant sex. Like, you know, we're not... For pleasure. For pleasure. For pleasure. For pleasure. You know, most women haven't necessarily considered what the cost is, particularly... The cost is to let that emotional side of what we really want. Let it go. Yeah, but that's not... That's easier said than done. For some. Because it... Absolutely, I agree with you. So we're talking about on the macro. The emotional side... He's so cute with his... I do this. All right. The emotional side is tied to biology. It's tied to a biological predisposition. So when we're talking about, for instance, women are emotional. There's a reason for that. It's not just because, oh, these bitches are just soft, or whatever the case may be. I get the call as a bitch. There is a... I'll just say that. But there is a utility for women wanting to bond. There's a utility for women wanting to have... want long-term relationship. Because back in the jungle, in the Serengeti and shit like that, you needed the gorilla that you just made it with to protect you and your offspring. Right. That doesn't go away just because of modernity. That's true. So all... We're hearing this stuff. So all... I think all we're trying to express as men is like, it sounds good to be able to now do the same things as men when it comes to sexual promiscuity. But there's a cost to that that we do not experience that you guys are uniquely going to experience. Can we really call it a cost if we have developed a numbness or been desensitized to that emotional side that you're speaking about basically? Yes. Because we have to think about sustainability. And unfortunately, you know, it's like fortunately and unfortunately, men... Double-edged sword. Right. Fast and bar. Men are graded by their societal status and their economic value. Women are graded by their beauty and their fertility. Face value. Absolutely. Face value. That's literally it. Here's the unfortunate part about it. Bitches be catfish. Facts. But even with that, like the things that society values in women... I'm not even saying it's necessarily right, but the things that women... Society values in women goes down as they age. Gravity takes it away from you. Age takes it away from you. And the things society values in men goes up with age, unfortunately. And then it ends up going down, but dooms reach their peak at 45. You got me. You feel what I'm saying? It's where you haven't been proven. So my point is, my point is for women in their early 20s, late 20s, early 30s, you have to consider the long game. That's true. Long deputy. Exactly. So even though you could fuck dudes and be numb and shit like that at 25, at 35, you're going to want somebody to take care of you. And who's to say that that can't change? Who's to say that we cannot find a man that fits what we're looking for? Absolutely. But the reality tends to be that the kind of man that fits what you're looking for is going to care that you were physically irresponsible at 25. It's a Faustian bargain. It's a cash 22. If you want a job at Google, you have to be okay with the fact that they're going to see your browser history. There is no trade-off, so... But can I see yours? Right. Thank you. Let's talk, okay, what do you mean by that? I don't want to say what do you mean by that. Let me speak. The same thing you mean. What do you think I mean? Like, what you just said? Right. How active have you been sexually? How promiscuous have you been in the past? Like, what type of man are you? Is what she's trying to ask. Okay, I have a question for you in zone. It doesn't matter to you. No, it doesn't matter at all. What would y'all consider like a female that like... Do y'all think body count matters? They do. I think it depends on... Okay, let Ellen answer. I think it matters, but I think it depends on the stage in life. So I remember like in high school, for instance, I cared a lot about body count, right? Because I wasn't fucking like that. Yeah, like somebody told me I was childish because I cared about body count. Wait, no, let me dive in. Right now, what y'all consider now? What a body count is? Let me dive in for you, Barry. Please. Okay, so in high school, I cared a lot about body count, but it's primarily because I wasn't really fucking like that. Like, yeah, I started fucking like at 15, which is relatively early. But like, it was a girl I was dating. I had a crush on her since like middle school, right? And then, you know, we had a conversation, what's your body count, this and that. And I remember she said four or five. She didn't know. 15? She didn't know. No, chill it, chill it. Now mind you, at the time, she had to be like 16, so I was 17 at the time. And, you know, a bunch of stuff, because I went off to college and shit. You started early. And a bunch of fucking Patreon shit. Patreon. Okay, nice. There you go. That's fine. Y'all say y'all like that. Y'all don't still come to take a shot. Let me lie. Let me lie. Simple. Let me get that. Let me lie. Let me lie. We'll get there. We'll get there. So, I remember, I asked her, I asked, I was like, you know, so what's your body count? And I remember she said four or five, and then a whole bunch of shit happened, like time passed. And I decided I'm going to ask her again in different ways. So I was like, what number am I? Y'all want to guess what she told me? What she say? 20. Now mind you, I was at the time, at the time I was 18, so she had to be 17. She told me, she told me I was number 11. So, okay. We're 10 or over 20. They never go 18 or 17. So I say that to say, like now, at 29 years old, if a woman, if I'm number 11, it's not as bad. But at 18? Yeah, at 11. You're right. But that's who you were firing. That's the youth. More specifically. So let me, let me, let me touch on that real quick. Are you trying to suck your own body count? Please. Let me touch on that real quick. Body count matters a whole fucking lot to me, right? But, you know, it could be played with, like you said, you know what I mean? Like when you're younger, it's like, well, at number 25, at 18, it's like, what the fuck? You know what I mean? 25, at age 30. I mean, I don't care. I could work with it. You know what I mean? But generally. 25 and 30? That's a fucking lie. God, no. No, no, no, no. I'm just saying, I'm saying it's reasonable. It's understandable. So 25, think of it like 30 years old. 30 years old. That means you ain't got no balls. Hold on, hold on. Think about it. Think of it for a second, man. Come here. You're 18, you're 18 years old, and you're a body count number 20. Fuck me. Literally. Like there's no moving forward from there. Like you just recreation use. I think, I figure. But you're 30 years old, and you've had 20 bodies. I understand it. That's reasonable to him. I'm not saying that I'm going to wife it. That's a lie. I'm not saying that I'm going to cuff it. To him. I understand. It's understandable. Let's get to the nitty-gritty. That's why people say that. Let's get to the nitty-gritty. Let's get to the nitty-gritty. Let's get to the nitty-gritty. Let's talk about it. Let's hit the cervix. So what I'm saying is, so what I'm saying is like, the reason why it's an issue is because, primarily, I think the reason it's an issue is because of everything that is necessary for us to gain sexual access to you. Yes. Exactly. Versus what's necessary for a woman to gain sexual access to us. You could be the finest dude in the world. You could have all the money and shit like that. But if you go to a bar and you start walking up to them and say, I want to fuck you, you'll get the police called on you. Facts. That's true. But if a woman is average looking, she can go out into the street and get dick after not even really trying. Exactly. So with that being said... It's an evolutionary, like... Facts. Facts. And with that being said... The lima will call it. I think the best kind of analogy to illustrate this is like, women are universities, men are applicants. So imagine working hardest fucking high school. You involved, you know what I'm saying? You doing all your homework, you doing extra credit, you cool with the teachers, you know what I'm saying? You go to PTA meetings and you a kid and shit like that. And you do all that shit, you apply to Harvard, you apply to Cornell, you apply to fucking Princeton, and you get in that motherfucker. And then you get there on the first day, you get in to Harvard on the first day, and you see the nigga who was cheating off your test sitting right next to you. It's gonna hit different. But can we not say men have to work harder than women? I hate it when everybody cheats the way it is. No, no, no, I'm not talking about cheating. I'm talking about why your sexual availability matters to men. But can we not say? Because of all the work that's necessary for us to move you, we gotta take you on days we gotta take. Exactly, men have to work harder than men. But there's a difference between women and men. Thank you. It's not women. It's men. Check this, check this. Women's vagina can change. Check this. Men didn't. Hold on, it's not for her. No, no, no, hold on, hold on. I'm the host. He ain't got no laws. Hold on, come on. I feel like, you know what I'm saying? Like everybody in the house, you can tell. I think we agree. I think we agree. I mean, let me throw this out there real quick. List me. See, the access to sex, right, for men is... Put those on. So you can hear us. Let me see. It sounds like midnight storm. It is night. You can hear us for real. Put those on. The access to sex for men is different from the access to sex for women, right? I would agree. So, I mean, it's like, I mean, you hear a lot of people say, like, you know, when you're given your value, you're given, you know, for you, you could walk outside right now but ass naked and you can get anybody to walk up to you and say, I would do it, you know what I'm saying? If you presented yourself in that way, anybody would get sex from you. I would agree. But as men, we have to actually accomplish something. I have to get to where I'm at right now is to be able to say, you know what, I could have... Let me finish. I have to get to where I'm at right now to be able to demand or require... Oh, man, I'm saying, I could say... To get some. Yeah, to get some. I could say, you know, I want to get some tonight or tomorrow or whatever. Do you agree? Ladies, the majority, please. I feel can't fuck off looks. Facts. Thank you. If you would listen... Ladies can't fuck off looks. Thank you. Thank you. Ladies, I'll do it. One of the issues, one... See, listen, one of the issues that... Listening. Listening. Wait, wait, wait. Come on, baby. Hold on, hold on one second. Talk to me. What... You said a woman can't fuck off looks. What do you mean by that? No, I'm saying, like, she can. Oh, okay. So you agree with us. It don't even gotta be looks though, sis. They don't fuck off of words. Exactly. Hold on. They just are homies nowadays. A woman can fuck off of words. A woman could, like I said, a woman could walk outside and just say, I want to have sex tonight and she will have sex tonight. But a man has no, not even the slightest... You mean, you might have this one or two, the Drake niggas, you know what I'm saying? They might be able to say, you know what, I'm going to South Carolina. I'm gonna be in this one small city and I'm gonna say I want to have sex tonight and I will have sex tonight. You have that very, very minute percentage of men that could actually pull that shit off. But in general, if you're speaking of average men, average guys, right? Right, let's do this. Okay, cool. Thank you for the... In the meantime, I appreciate you. Love it. That is actually lovely. But, you know what I'm saying? But generally, you know what I'm saying? Appreciate it. Appreciate it, Alan. But generally, like, the average men cannot just wake up and say, I'm going to get some ass. It's impossible. You know what I mean? We're not waking up saying we're gonna have some ass. It just doesn't happen that way. But when we have shorties, it's open to giving us sex because they feel like we're in the same mindset that she was saying earlier, like, oh, we could flirt with niggas and we could do whatever we want to do, just the same way niggas are doing whatever they want to do with shorties. When we have shorties like that, it's so much easier for us because it's like we don't have to be drakes anymore. We're regular niggas game, plus it's just the same way drakes are gonna get pussy. Yeah, that's true. Simple as that. That's all it is. But some people just gonna have to chase. It takes more than just, oh, I want to get pussy or oh, I want to fuck tonight. It takes like, it's the mentality. Like you can get dick and be like, oh, that shit won't hit on nothing. It won't hit you. No, no, no, no, no, no. You want to get it. It's exactly like you. Like you, you know what the fuck. And I would do it. Never again. Never again. Right. It's pointless. Facts. Maybe I'm not explaining well enough. And maybe we're not getting across to you well enough, but the fact is, it is so much easier for women to get sex than it is for men to get sex. First of all, right? Second of all, it is just as difficult as it is for men to get sex. It is just as difficult for women to get relationships because men control relationships and women control sex. I love that he says that. That's true. Access to relationship, access to sex. That's true. Right. So when women give it away that easily, it's like, well, we don't have to fight for this shit no more. Like that's the fact. All right. The shorty's out here giving us pussy. Like, all right. You just stay the night. I bet. I get some ass for you. But after we get some ass from you, it is your job to now figure out what we like because we figured out what you like to get some ass from you. It's your job to now figure out what we like to get that relationship or commitment or marriage from us. Does that make any sense? I feel like after you get the cootie, y'all should chase us. No. Post-knock clarity. You were running away. Let me explain that. Post-knock clarity. Let me explain that. Anyway, that's what I'm saying. Like, you don't even matter. That's why I don't mean no point. I'm like, you know what I'm saying? Even doing nothing with nobody. Let me break it down to you. Why? Celeb it. Why is such a difference? Men are taught to put women on a pedestal. And it's a good thing in a way, but it's also a bad thing in a way because when we first meet you and shit and when we see you from across the street or from across the club on some R&B shit, like, we are making up all the reasons why you're so amazing, you know what I'm saying? You probably smell like flowers. You pussy probably hitting on tin and shit like that. And when we actually get to know you and shit like that, we realize, oh, her breath's thinking the morning. Oh, she's a person. She got baggage. It is normal. But see, the fucked up part about it is we're not taught to see women as people. We're taught to see women as angels, as fairies, and shit like that. So when we actually realize your people, a lot of men, especially the men who are not in community with women, especially the men who are not around and involve with women regularly, it's disappointing. So that's why for the majority of women, they lose their power because they go from being on this huge pedestal that we put you on to falling off that pedestal. So it's not necessarily that that means that you need to just be approved and just don't talk to anybody, but it's about consider the things that are going to keep a man. Consider the personality traits. Consider the skills that are going to keep a man versus just attract a man. And I've been saying this particularly to black women because black women are the most attractive women on the planet. But when it comes to men trying to tie ourselves to them, y'all aren't necessarily winning that race, right? Like men are running to fucking Asia to find wives. White men included. But when it comes to who's going to get dick first, y'all absolutely because y'all are fucking beautiful. Y'all are gorgeous. Y'all got the titties, the ass, the lips, the hips, the wap, the whole nine. Sure, but I think where where our women are falling short is like y'all are playing chess when it's really, y'all are playing checkers when it's really chess. You're trying to get niggers off of just like, oh, I'm the baddest bitch. Oh, I got the best hair. I got the best wife. It's more to that because once he gets it, what's going to keep him around? Are you a type of woman that he's going to be want to be around when you're on your period? Are you the type of woman that he's going to be want to be around on a rainy day? And there's no fun shit to do. There's nobody that he can show you off to, right? And that's kind of what I've been telling women because a lot of women are spending more time trying to be the the woman that he's going to want to show off versus the woman he's going to want to be trapped in the house with. It wouldn't be trapped if you're like stupid ass. So please, please, and please, and please like the video. The algorithm requires that. Please like the video. Subscribe to us and, you know, hit the, hit the bell, whatever for notifications. And we do have a very special guest today. We need to talk. You know what I'm saying? He is. Oh, they know me. They know me. Exactly. Support my boy. Yeah, I'm saying, like, this is the dude right here. But, um, yeah, let's go ahead and hear from Tavia. And then we'll wrap it up. What are your thoughts on the conversation? What are your questions, thoughts, concerns? What do you have there? I don't. Get into the mic, please. I don't really have that. I already asked the question. No, no, no. I'm saying, like, you're general, like, did you enjoy this? How do you really have a place? There's words out there. How do you really have a place? Okay. Final thoughts type of stuff. I've never really been in front of a camera, so I'm really... It wasn't that bad, was it? No, it wasn't. I like that. I like that. You have been in front of a camera. I'll definitely be back if I'm invited. You have been in front of a camera, like, back then. But that's different. It's a group now. I got you. I got you. It's definitely more fun. I appreciate you coming. I appreciate you coming. Navy. Green Ranger. It's Navy. Yeah, Green Ranger. Major! Thank you for coming. Peanut, thank you for coming. Thank you for having me. It's always a pleasure. All day. And I love that. We're going to do it again. We're going to do it again. And thank you guys for, you know what I'm saying? Being on the show, thanks for watching. And I've had, like, mad reception from you guys on YouTube. 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