 What's going on y'all welcome to the single guy channel. My name is Lloyd. I am not the single guy today We're gonna be talking about 11 Green flags to look for when you're dating a woman now We've already covered the negative side of this which is 10 red flags to watch out for when you're dating somebody now This is gonna be the positive version Which is if you see these signs in a woman you should probably date her it doesn't mean you two are gonna be Soulmates, but it means you should definitely give her a chance because this is a good girl to date This is gonna be a good girl for you whether you choose to marry her whether you choose to you know Have a relationship or on this course so let's get into the steps right now now If you don't get all of these that's okay remember to work with people and I would advise you I would definitely advise you to make sure that you are giving off these things as well too number one is going to be She's consistently interested in you someone who shows consistent interest in you is the first thing that I look for When I'm trying to decide if I'm gonna date somebody in fact if they don't show consistent interest in me I'm probably not going to date them at all if you're with someone and you're confused You don't know if she's into you she's giving you mixed signals the answer is probably no So I would go for someone who's giving it to you consistently and if she's not find someone who will too She communicates honestly with you I am all about honest communication if she can't communicate honestly with you if she hides her feelings She lies these are things that are gonna be a problem later on down the line Or these are things that are gonna be a problem in the moment as well too I am open and honest with my communication and so I lead by example and if she follows suit Then that's a great person for me to date if she doesn't do this I'm not dating her three. She has friends now I know this might seem a little bit crazy to a lot of you But women should have friends especially female friends if a woman is with me And she doesn't have a whole lot of female friends or any at all and she only has guy friends That's a huge red flag for me Or if she doesn't have any friends at all I know I'm gonna be the only person that she's into we're talking to which is gonna make me too much of a Responsibility I don't want that I want her to have a life. I wanted to have other things going on I want to have other people that she can talk to she should have time with the girls You should have time where she can you know talk about me or you know to deal with stuff in her own way That's very important for a woman to have okay, and if she doesn't have that well Then you're gonna be too much of her focus for she has hobbies if a woman has hobbies She has things that she likes to do that makes her interesting that makes her honestly attractive to me But also it's stuff that she can do and hopefully you guys can find some hobbies to do together Okay with my ex a lot of the things that we would do is we would do things that we both found fun There were some things that I didn't do at the beginning that I discovered with her There were some things that she didn't do at the beginning that she discovered with me But we always had hobbies that we like to do we didn't just go out and drink we didn't just watch Netflix We had other things that we like to do as well too in our own rights and with each other five She makes time for you now Even if she has a very busy schedule if you're a priority for her She will make time for you and you should make time for her as well too if she's a priority in your life Now the biggest gift a man can give a woman is time and attention and if you're giving her those things And she's not willing to give that back to you Well, then she's probably not worthy of you giving it to begin with six And I know this might sound a little controversial to some people but physical attraction I mean it should go without saying that you should be physically attracted to the person that you're dating now having said this physical Attraction can change. I remember there's been a lot of women that I've dated in the past right first I thought they were just cute or maybe they were okay But once I started to know them a little bit more and saw them in different lights I'll give you a little secret about women They don't look the same at all times during the month or at all times during the day Depending on how they feel depending on what's going on or makeup or whatever it is Okay, people change and so in a lot of times when I've seen them do certain things or maybe I see them perform an activity That they're really good at I got more physically attracted to them But the physical attraction has to be there if you've been seeing somebody for a really long time And you just don't find them physically attractive You got to find someone who you're going to be that with seven kind She's got to be a kind person if you're with someone and they're not kind to the other people around you It's only a matter of time before she starts being unkind to you I'd say in a relationship if you're with someone for a certain period of time You really don't see who they are until much farther down the line It can take months sometimes even longer for some people But eventually they will show you their true colors when they come out and if I see them treating other people in an unkind way I know eventually that's gonna turn to me and I'm gonna be that person as well, too Hey has goals and ambitions if she's someone who doesn't have any goals or ambitions And the only ambition that she's gonna have is you that's too much responsibility for me I don't want to deal with that and honestly. I think it's sexy when a woman wants to go after something Now her ambitions and goals might not be the same as you so don't judge her based on that But I like her to go for something. I like her to you know make stuff happen I've had women who you know were very into dance and you know their ambition was dancing They wanted to become a dancer or I had women who just wanted to help people I had women who were very ambitious monetarily like they wanted to start a business and make a lot of money I had other women who wanted to start organizations and just you know be a part of the community But they had something going on they had an ambition they had a goal and if it was with people if it was relationships or career It didn't matter. It was something number nine. She's stable. You can't be with a girl who is not stable Okay, now there is going to be some level of instability There are times when women are gonna break down and that's okay. You have to be there for him I believe it's your job as the man to be that kind of rock in the relationship You know if you're dealing with an unstable person though all the time It can be impossible for the relationship to be stable if one person never is so as the guy I believe we're supposed to be a little bit more stable in the woman that we're with and when she freaks out or when she's having some Issues or when she's having problems Depending on when it is it can be very helpful for the guy to be the more stable person But if you're always that person you're always the one who has to she has to you know cry on she's she's never Able to deal with things herself then you got to be with somebody who can deal with them yourself Herself rather. Okay. I'm not in the business of fixing women and you shouldn't be either number 10 is she's supportive She should be supportive of the things that you do. She should be supportive of your lifestyle She should be supportive of your career if she's not supportive of those things She doesn't allow you to go do that or she doesn't actively take a role and you know Encourage you and is positive about it Well, then you should probably find someone who is going to be there because you don't want someone who's gonna be a Negative in your life You want somebody who's gonna be a positive and if you've watched my channel at all You know that the biggest thing that I'm looking for in a woman is someone who can be supportive of me who can actually like Who's down to go on the path that I'm going down? It doesn't have to be the exact same path But we can go together and we can end up in almost the same spot So if you're with someone who is not supportive of you find someone who will be and number 11 I don't have 11 fingers, but 11 is takes care of herself Okay, if you see this with a lot of people maybe they're unkempt They don't take care of themselves. They don't like, you know, they're messy be a little bit of messy is fine I'm actually okay with that, but what I'm not okay with is I'm not okay with her taking care of herself or health and the people around her If she can't take care of herself, how well do you think she's gonna take care of you? Okay, that's a reflection of who she is if she's not taking care of things in her life Well, then you're gonna be one of those things that she doesn't take care of not about you But I want to be with someone who has their shit together and someone who's responsible and that comes taking care of themselves And so you can look at the little things that she does to see if she does that, you know Does she actually shower occasionally? Does she actually clean herself? Does she wear clothes that are appropriate? Does she take care of the things that she does in her life? Okay, if she just leaves things lying around and it's super messy and gross and unhygienic I'm not gonna be with that person. That's just not somebody that I want to be with, you know This isn't a college dorm room anymore. I'm an adult So those are the 11 things you guys if you have a girl who has all of these things Definitely definitely give her a chance and make sure you are exuding these qualities as well too because if you're not It's gonna be very difficult for you to find a girl who is giving you these qualities So that's the video you guys if you may attend consider subscribing I come out the videos like this every single week if you're interested in getting coached by me or signing up for one Of my programs or I teach you how to have these qualities and find women who have these qualities Well, then there's a link in the description box below. Love to see you there. Thanks a lot you guys You