 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder at CommitmentConnection.com and in today's video, we're going to talk about do men like submissive women. And if this is your first time to this channel, make sure that you hit the subscribe button on the bottom right hand side of the video in order to get more videos on how to have the relationship you've always wanted. And so there's kind of a big debate out there right now where there's kind of this one side where there's all these strong women who are like women shouldn't take no no crap from no man. And they think that like submissive women are pathetic and weak and that you should just be strong and you should be really kind of masculine to be honest. And then there's this other side where it's like kind of crapping on the entire strong independent woman thing where they're like, you know, you should be more submissive, you should be submissive to your man. And honestly, I think that both I think both of those sides have some have some good points. And I think that also both of those sides are a little bit misguided in some ways. And let me tell you why. So really, it depends on the guy. So some guys what guys really want is a woman who compliments them, you know, a woman who they can grow with, they can move with, they can become a better man with. What they don't want is a woman who disrespects them or, you know, wouldn't end up can't move with them through life. And I think that's really the big distinction is that so depending on the guy, right, depends on the level or the type of woman that he's looking for. And I think we see this with anything. It was funny when I was in the men's dating space, there used to be all these women that would get onto some of our social media channels and complain like, oh, women don't like that women don't like this. And it's like, okay, yeah, some women do some women don't, you know, everybody's unique and individual. And it actually is even more so. And I hate making this more complicated. But it's even more so in different areas. You know, I have a good friend of mine is actually, you know, he's not, he's not a weak guy at all. He's very strong. There are definitely some very strong masculine components to him. And in some ways, he really wants to be the masculine force in his relationship. And in other ways, he doesn't. In other ways, he kind of wants to lean back and be able to take on some of the more feminine aspects of the relationship. And you know, so I really think it depends. I think it depends on the guy. Each guy is different. You know, if I were you, I would look at the way that he acts, right? How how what does he want? What does he seem like he wants? If we're talking about long term here, you know, one of the things that I talk about a lot in my videos, my programs, is that a man commits based on how much he's invested, right and investing, putting an investment in is effort, which is a masculine trait. And so the more effort he's putting in, the more likely he is to commit. But at the same time, you know, I know women, like very strong, very masculine women who are married to guys that are very feminine, that are the guys that are more submissive. I have a buddy actually who I was talking to not not too long ago. And you know, he's very, very feminine. And his wife is very, very masculine. And I was like, you know, we were talking about it. And I was like, man, you know, we're talking about that some other woman. And I was talking about how unattractive she is to me because of how masculine she is. And he was just like, Oh, I love women like that. That's just so hot to me. You know, and so it really depends. It depends on, you know, guys are very different, you know, and depending on how that guy is, depends on how submissive or feminine a woman who's with him should be if she wants to attract him. So I know that's not a, you know, cutting fast answer, but that's really, that's really where we're at. Thanks for watching this video. If you're ready to know exactly what to say and do to attract the man and the relationship you've always wanted, click on the button on the right hand side of this video and go to our website.