 can y'all see me i feel like it's dark hold on uh see now i got so it is what is it y'all the week before Thanksgiving was off yesterday he was like so when is Thanksgiving i said this is 22nd and he's like oh i'm off i'm sitting up here depressed hold on y'all i'm like you got me sitting up here all sad and you off girlie off so that is good i love this time of the year y'all i love fall i just do um i'm gonna eat some tea so my throat is it's just dry it doesn't hurt it's dry um so yes he's off sorry do you wrote my Thanksgiving dinner out i'm really excited that he's off we could spend time together as a family and i guess he's in a good mood girl because i i did a little twerk a twerk session so we y'all wrong so he's in a good mood now so he's like um we can go out to eat on on friday or saturday i'm like oh this week i don't know you're off so it's very rare rare that we go twice in a row you know two weeks in a row so i said so do you want jay b did the baby to go with us he said i don't know about that i said yeah we need to drop his ass off so i'll probably do a date night to get ready with me um video um i think we'll go out saturday because jay b has yeah we go out saturday because he goes to school on friday so anyway i got some stuff here let me show you what i got is the most wonderful time of the year to begin on my damn nerves girl and i'll be shopping so hold on y'all let me let me get my tea on all right y'all have to put my tea on i'm gonna let that sit there and see so yes um i guess my husband is off and it's slow at work oh my titties look big okay girl get your together um he's off wednesday thursday saturday no uh thursday friday saturday sunday then he's off dexterity and then myself and jay b we're off all next week yes girl so we're gonna have things going on we just not gonna be sitting around um like i said we're gonna go out this saturday and jay b has a craft class going on this saturday i'll probably do a little filming there um i went to go get my i went to get my flu shot last flu season was horrible those of you who in the states you know it was horrible and i was talking to the doctor and this this dog beats to get he's about to get these hands this dog's still a puppy and all is barking yeah the doctor agreed that this flu season is this bad she said that she had only five uh positive flu people last week and up until that it had only it had only been one positive flu a week last year she's like it was horrible including a bunch of healthy people who were dying and it was mostly women i'm not mostly there was a lot of women who were dying anyway girl let's let's not talk about that um it's fall thanksgiving i wrote my thanksgiving list of what i'm making so and i'll show y'all one what i i'm going to be buying um what i like to do so that i'm not getting my husband running out getting some cream cheese and he coming back with some sour cream and i'm cursing and yelling i make up my list i buy everything but certain things that i know are multiple dishes i buy double or buy more for example butter eggs sugar flour i make sure that i first of all i already have that stuff here i make sure that i either get double or get a larger size so that i don't run out one thanksgiving i ran out of eggs and girl i was about to lose it because i had everything going off at the same time and there's not a lot of stores that are open on thanksgiving long story short make sure that i have my list my list is there i'm gonna look over it i am cooking i'm making buttermilk hands the little small individual hands i'm gonna do four of those so we can have leftovers but buttermilk they're gonna be brining and buttermilk and i'm gonna roast those buttermilk pie which is a custard pie brown sugar toffee pound cake yes making that with a caramel bourbon sauce um balsamic green beans a course dressing butternut squash cinnamon brown sugar butternut squash you see the trend um homemade cranberry sauce with bourbon and i am going to be having a signature drink with bourbon i'm like yeah i'm not playing like cranberry vodka and bourbon i'm not even playing excuse me did i say dressing you know dressing and some rolls and that is it you guys i stop doing the big traditional because we don't have any family here so i don't do the macaroni cheese i don't do mashed potatoes and collard greens with pork and i don't do that you know there's so much or so many different types of foods out there out there so switch it up girl switch it up so yeah the only thing that i do that's traditional is the dressing at least you know southern black family traditional i should say ciao i i'm gonna have to edit all that out let me hurry up y'all because my husband's about to work out so this coconut milk was only a dollar which was 50 off so tomorrow when i go grow i'm gonna go grocery shopping officially grocery shopping two more days excuse me and i will be getting about three more cans of this and i'm gonna be making um some coconut milk infused whatever rice that's one of these for this i got some korean barbecue sauce which i'll add to some beef for tomorrow again a dollar went in and a banana nut muffin mix i like to keep mixes and stuff on here and y'all because i i thank for my um not only do i bake at home for my family but i also bake for my neighbors yeah i'm that neighbor but i also stopped by cbs and got some do not sleep on cbs or wall grids any of these like um what do you call them convenient store decorations i purchased a lot of decorations not a lot but the bigger harvest fall decorations last year it was 90 off this year 75 off let me show you what i got aren't these adorable a dollar each isn't that adorable so cute now i accidentally dropped this out in the garage this pumpkin i didn't know it was glass first of all but we're gonna turn her around like this and she's gonna sit up somewhere low so she won't break anymore and jay b won't get to it isn't that adorable 75 off it was originally um three dollars no four ninety nine this okay isn't this cute now this really isn't with my theme because but it's okay it's a little light it's okay isn't this adorable with feathers on the top five ninety nine isn't that cute but this is what really caught my eye let me let me get the mouse situated this is so adorable y'all how still hell isn't this adorable these little fall fabric and the cute thing about it is that they dual as ornaments isn't that adorable um is that it all of this stuff cost me um almost 10 bucks so that's it y'all um today i'm gonna get caught up on work i'm doing just some maintenance work in the system christine and i are talking about everybody i need to go ahead and fix my breakfast i didn't go to the gym today i was on my way but i said you know let me go see if i can find some jeans to wear um you know one of the things i'm going to do next week uh is do a lot of organ organ sorry y'all one of the things i'm going to do next week is organize a lot like organize stuff i need my bathrooms one just spread it out over the entire week but not every day so that way i feel like i'm not just sitting around um one day i'll probably do the bathroom the next day i'll do the guest bedroom the next the next day i'll do the uh jay b's room you know one day i may just wash my car so you know just do something different every day jay b and i will probably go to the park one day the the antham park the big train park up here but one thing i i do remember now the doctor the doctor just saw she said that the flu is going crazy up in scott stale because of the snow birds so when we're out on saturday night while we're up there i'm gonna be very careful i'm gonna let my husband know this too because where we go there's a lot of whole people in that restaurant so girl like no seriously i have to be very careful we all do so y'all i'm watching the marriage to medicine to give you an idea of my husband's temperament he's very much like dr. daemon uh heavenly's husband very quiet quiet yet deadly girl when he speaks it's something you better listen because he rarely speaks so my husband's very much like that so i'm watching the marriage to medicine right now and um they're talking about what happened in the previous episode and y'all i don't know i honestly i'm one of the few people that likes i like both doctor dr. heavenly and mariah however i think they both were wrong i mean let me quiet this now because contestants get on my nerves i think they both were wrong i think that heavenly dr. heavenly was wrong in interjecting with mariah was questioning quad uh quad doesn't need someone to come to her defense but mariah escalated when she broke that damn glass like what the hell you trying to do girl you know you're doing that on national tv you know that's not cool it's helpful so y'all real quick this is my planning this is today what i'm going to do because last week i was supposed to start it you know focusing on my goals this is the goals uh a booklet where i was started writing my goals last year which my goals span over five years but i try to get as much done of course every year i try to knock out something but this right here i know a hot mess this right here folder has a lot of planning worksheets my monthly task um i did purchase this goal planner for my uh 2019 planner but i don't like i don't like this so i'm gonna do something else um another thing i purchased through etsy was a youtube planning worksheet don't these cute so video planning you know i have an area for the idea i don't really need the script notes to do sox if i'm doing a hair related video you know gathering their products so maybe i need to buy something keywords collaboration and promotion which ain't no collaborations going on y'all i have tried to collaborate with other natural hair youtubers and some of them you guys have seen but it's very hard to get people to either agree um anyone who's come to me for collaboration i have said yes maybe not right now but eventually we will do it um so anyway enough of that some stickers here that i purchased just today from um walmart and this is my oh my god y'all y'all know i just started this y'all know i just started just a couple of weeks ago and look at the madness we have going on yeah this is a bit much so i need to go ahead and organize this so i do have a quite a bit of organization that i need to get done next week um and so i have some organized uh stickers with this is the mommy planner stickers but i don't want to use the stickers instead i'm thinking of using these post-its walmart sales planner accessories very affordable this was like 88 cents yeah so i'm either want to use these post-its or i'm going to use these that i just bought um i may end it up i may how many do i just have one sheet yeah these are cute yeah i don't know i think i'm gonna do these instead i'm gonna do these instead okay so let me i'm gonna organize that that's that's for next week 2019 i went ahead a couple of blocks ago i showed y'all this i went ahead and purchased some to-do accessories excuse me yeah uh not to do um these are just blank sheets of paper and so what i'm gonna have to do is basically configure this paper to fit this planner i purchased this planner planner from walmart very affordable but because of the spiral of course this isn't going to fit so i have a hole puncher here that i will punch additional additional holes in and then use scissors to just slightly put those in so i think i'm gonna have these to be for my goals and these are just random notes okay um so this is for 2019 and i've already decorated look how beautiful this is now this is a bit much i was just playing around this is just to see how how crazy i could get um for the month of january i did a black and white gold theme girl boss girl a sticker just flew off um some chanel perfume that these are the diy stickers i did even these glasses are diy but it matches because i this was part of my planner this is from the um 88 cent package that i got from walmart that i incorporated and all this but this girl boss this is part of my diy the purse is also part of it so yeah this is a bit much i would normally wouldn't go this crazy but um i i try to i'm trying to keep it simple when it comes to the weeks itself so like right here i won't be putting any stickers here unless i have something that yeah good morning good morning good morning everyone look it is officially cold in phoenix what in the hell is going on y'all cancel cancel um let me look up the weather real quick um y'all i'm country meaning my as soon as my as as soon as jay v gets up he's still asleep he needs to get up soon because it's 6 30 and we typically we're gonna have to leave in an hour anyway and it's still dark outside so let me look up the temperature whoo it's cold he's getting up girl come on baby you okay baby is this child this this is temperature for washington dc why is this y'all washington dc i am not in washington versus right now it's 46 degrees convert that for all my my people not in the states 46 degrees it's gonna be a high of 70 oh this is the desert oh it's gonna get even colder as we get into december it's gonna be a high of 60 i'm ready i'm ready so anyway y'all it is wednesday i am going to since my husband and i are having a date night on saturday i'm really going to bring up my feminine side and that's something i was really into since since this has came into my life i really i'm not on up to it i've kind of slacked off meaning that now when we go out i literally wear pants every time not saying there's nothing wrong with that i can't show you there's nothing wrong with horn slacks but there's something very sexy about a woman who wears a nice stop it baby a nice cute dress yes so i'm gonna bring up my feminine side jay we said no i'm gonna bring up my feminine side we're gonna take some breath control and i'll be very give my nails done all thought up i will say the few times that men have approached me they when they approach me they mention that that they like that i'm very feminine and um yeah good morning good morning good morning my glass is a dirty girl don't mind it can i can i i'll do this all right there we go girl i am looking like i'm about to serve you up some hot water cornbread hold on y'all y'all foolery foolery foolery in these youtube streets i'm gonna get to that in a minute right now it is the week before thanksgiving i am not running around i just dropped off jay b it is payday for me too so i'm really out running around so y'all um hold on i'm responding i'm responding to another another i'm not gonna say well i'm gonna get to this in a minute it's the foolery that's going on so right now um my stop by fries got some stuff and i'll show y'all cute purse i got that was 60 off and i've been itching to buy me something look it's cooler right now it's like 50 degrees and i'm like i want some boots but honestly boot season here will last for two months and then it's back up into the 70s i mean and the weather is really funky like it will be 40 or 50 degrees like it is right now and then warm up to the mid 70s your feet are all it's funky it's feeling like frito you know you're making frito pies in your boots so i'm like no i'm not gonna buy any more boots um because i have cute little sweater dress i'm gonna wear on saturday when we're going out take a eat because like i said y'all i wanted to bring out my feminine size so instead of getting my nails done which will be an ongoing expense i just went ahead and got a little purse you know nine dollars and a dress my budget was 30 so the dress in the purse was 30 together anyway y'all these youtube streets why do we continue to glorify ratchet behavior i don't know that it can be entertaining but for me at this point in my life i can only take i can only take ratchet behavior in dosages i can't do like like for example even when um the tea is madison bs i stopped watching this shit a long time ago i stopped watching it when kia got off the show and so whatever is going on right now i don't know um i'll hear about stuff and for me it's almost like background noise i don't have enough there's nothing in me at this point in my life to go and research it more unless it's someone i was already interested so get to the point girl and i'm gonna name drop because that's just how i am um a couple of weeks ago actually been a couple of months ago i told y'all about a new younger vlogger that was into her name is strong mommy crissy and i watch her videos off and on there are some things i do side-eye but i just chalked it up to um age you know she's young i think she's 28 28 29 and that is young you have a lot of growing to do real talk we're still growing in our 30s and damn they're 40s we're still growing if you are at that stage in your point it is what it is um there is a level of maturity that you hit after 35 and life experiences now they're that doesn't go for everyone that could be an almost blanket statement there are absolutely some 20 year olds that are mature mature but most people under the age of 30 or not that so again there's some things that i saw i um she has a lot of kids so she's has eight kids and she's currently pregnant with her next child now there is another young lady i also started following um living with the webs her name is olivia webs web and again ratchet behavior side eye but i i enjoy them you know and quiet as it kept i don't if you really don't like someone you don't have to watch them i always tell you guys that so i don't comment you know on the videos i just watch for entertainment purposes and there are some things that i do like about both young ladies um so both strongline crissy and olivia web with living with the webs have been going back and forth so you know there's accusations of of them you know copying each other content yada yada yada and it's just petty beef and it's i'm like this is the thing y'all youtube is way too big of a platform for us to shoot out you know this person's copy and other people there is so much there's so many people doing the same shit on here like i remember a couple of um vlogs ago i can't remember no a couple of videos ago i can remember what recipe i shared and someone wrote this is kimmy tubes leave in you need to give her props and i wrote them back and said this actually isn't kimmy tubes repeat uh recipe however i wouldn't be surprised if someone else has a similar recipe or a similar video there are what there are thousands of people on here and so i wrote and as a fellow youtuber you have to be very careful at least in my opinion if you want to keep the peace girl on your channel very careful and mindful when you go on someone else's channel and say something i edit my comments because i always want something to come from a place of light and love when i give construction constructive criticism is never with any ill intentions i'm not like that y'all know that or sometimes i may make a comment in a very a very lighthearted comment when i don't this when i don't agree with something like i've done plenty of times on funky daniva so i figured you know i could take the heat if i can handle quintons subscribers aka funky daniva i can handle her you know so i wrote on her video she had two videos that she posted about the videos were basically targeting this young woman the other girl alivia um she was sure and proved that she is pregnant so i wrote her back and said you know what i've been watching both of you guys for quite a minute i'm a lurker but i have been following you for you know a minute so i'm not no new subbie on here just giving my two cents basically um but both of you guys have potential again youtube is big enough for everybody to be successful however you put too much energy into negativity basically you get you receive what you put out there so change your focus and i also said in the same comment i don't understand why we as a as a society continue to glorify ratchet behavior move on that comment got like and like a few hours it got close to 100 likes and a couple of comments so far it had been good but she since has now taken a number of the videos y'all we have got to stop glorifying negative behavior i really do feel like i feel like a lot of these young women don't have that guidance they don't have the older cousin they don't have the um elders in their community to go to for that support and maybe they have had people to come to them and say hey you screwing up and they have ignored it but i found a lot of this a lot of the times that these young women don't have that guidance and there are so many women out there that you have a girl that's having multiple kids and she's not even 30 years old and now she's about to have her ninth baby she look she can have as many kids as she wants she's married her husband for unfortunately she ignores so now you potentially are putting yourself in a situation to where you may be a single mom of nine kids that is just so sad so i really do wish that they had someone that they can reach out to to help them because it seems to me that youtube has become their journal for their life if that's what you want to do by all means but be prepared for people to respond accordingly and that's what we're seeing right now so anyway y'all enough of that y'all let me go in here what am i going to get here some almond milk girl because i oh y'all i actually had some milk two days ago no yesterday i had milk and when i tell you my stomach has been on some yeah i'm in my closet oh my camera quality is fabulous finally finally got the sudden doing what i'm supposed to do y'all let me show you what i've been what i bought i bought so much stuff today like literally i don't know i don't want to talk about it but yeah i know more shopping is really bad when you do all your shopping in one day because you you got two weeks to the next pay period but it's okay i'm good i'm okay so let me show y'all um hold on let me put this purse right here all right so i purchased this i've been eyeing a certain makeup now technically um i already have these colors but it's just great to have to have everything in one this is by wet n wild isn't it beautiful and it is called um i think it's like candy or something what is it called i don't remember i'm sorry y'all i can't remember this is one of their new new formulas new look i got some more this is my favorite mascara falsies i'm gonna show you what this is this is a new got me some more bras y'all because seriously those you don't know i had a breast reduction in may i went from like a triple d double e to a full c small d um and i haven't been wearing bras i've been wearing sports bras and girl now that my titties are getting some hangage girl i was feeling like um we fall down but we get up yep my titties need to get back up so anyway y'all i'm sorry so inappropriate um this is so random and cute i got this shirt that says snow white and the seven dwarfs what the hell is that hold on y'all a piece of hair but it has a cape on the back so i figured and look it was only 99 99 cents for walmart on clint i figured that one day jay b and i can play dress up i play with my child and he has a cape and we can play dress up one day so i'll put this somewhere um i got a purse from fries i know fries of all places probably should have had it down already and y'all i have a lot of purses um about five down there some down here but most of my purses go up along i don't really have a lot i think i have about 30 purses which used to be at but isn't this look at this you know how much i paid for this look at that great purse great nine bucks on clearance for nine dollars today only i said oh yes let me go ahead and put that put that in a buggy j.b j.b was with me um this is the dress let me back up some this is the dress i got from ross the other day i thought it was very very cute very romantic has these bows on the side give it a very romantic feminine touch and it's a sweater dress i'm short y'all so it goes almost to my knees actually a little below my knees and i figured see this makeup palette so you have a good eye isn't that beautiful really really nice this is going to be my makeup and then i figure i could do these earrings and i'll do that purse this kind of cold gray purse see this gray on the pink you can see bits of pink on this gray purse right and then i'll do these brown i was thinking about the black bono staying neutral these brown boots yes all right y'all we're gonna go pick up jay b you guys look what came in this is this is a i always give myself a christmas gift give me my give me my toy look what came in for me it is my toy look at this y'all is this pre-seasoned hold on it is seasoned but i'm gonna put some oil in it season meaning that there's all in it 100 years look at that oh my god y'all this makes this this is how they used to cook back in the day okay this cook will last forever 100 years um you can bake in these you can stovetop cook in these you can meaning you can actually bake a cake in one of these but it's great for cooking on season mama those japanese yeah that's japanese boo boo how you do you do y'all jbd want to tell them about something that happened to you recently oh my god y'all i didn't even tell y'all earlier why don't you let them know oh my god y'all you hear him poor baby so yesterday he was playing with his legos now all of a sudden i hear some willing and crying and you know your child's different cries it was uh my feelings are hurt cry i'm like what is wrong he's in my teeth my tooth is loose so he has his first loose tooth can y'all believe that so we we just so happen to have it in this appointment next week i'm gonna have them check on it but he's going to be losing a tooth soon it's at the bottom yeah that one is so sweet why were you crying baby why were you crying you thought you thought you did something wrong were you afraid no i'm letting his hair grow out if i can't tell by and i've been cutting myself i'm getting better girl you know well you all up in my camera get off get off my dead job you can fall asleep in one more hour why do i have to be so extra you know i could have just had a bowl of ice cream or just some brownies but no i gotta make fudge brownies put fudge underneath put ice cream on top put caramel on sauce and then put toffee bit why look at this look at that oh my god why do why do i do this to myself i'm going to the gym in the morning