 you're giving the job to the wrong person. Most guys are clueless to most of this content. They're winging it. And why is it critically important to understand this? Because let's face it, for those of us in midlife, do you realize that 65 to 75% of relationships? I was going to use the word fail, but they end. Why did they end? Because they're not consciously aware of the mechanics to a healthy, happy relationship. And this is why I sometimes sound agitated. I sometimes sound righteous. Sometimes I'm screaming at the top of my lungs. And it's merely just a wake up call for you, particularly the women who follow my work, because I believe you are the better directors of a relationship than men. Everything I've learned about emotional IQ, I've learned from a woman.