 How does the narcissist react to failure? Narcissists are very impulsive. So they tend to fail a lot of the time because they don't make proper planning. They don't take the proper precautions. So in some ways, they are destined to fail. When they do fail, they get very mad. They can't accept it because they have a black-white mentality where everything is either a fail or a success. But they're either a winner or a loser. And being a loser is something that they cannot accept. So when they do fail, when things do go wrong, they will blame you or someone else. They will say that you are the cause of it. They will say you did something wrong. And that is the reason why they failed. As though it's not really their failure, it's yours. Because they just can't deal with failure. They can't deal with a loss. It's too painful for them to deal with. They can't deal with the shame. They are shame-based people who are doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on their shame. And that's what failure is to a narcissist. It's just a reflection of their shame. So of course they don't want to deal with that. Of course they don't want to accept it. They'd rather push it on to you and hold you fully responsible for it, even though you may have had nothing to do with it. They may have been more responsible for that than you. So you just walked into it. You just stepped into it unknowingly and aware. But they were fully aware of what was going on because they were the ones who were in control of it. They had the power in that situation. But that's the thing with narcissists. Yeah, they want the power and control. They just don't want to deal with the responsibility that comes along with it. It's like a child. They want control without responsibility, without having to deal with the consequences. They just want to be able to do whatever they want and get away with it. So yes, narcissists fail a lot. But when they do fail, they manage to pass on them to someone else so that it doesn't even look like a failure for them. When in actuality, that's exactly what it is. It's their failure, whether they choose to take responsibility or not, regardless of how they distort and reinterpret it inside their minds. That doesn't change the truth. That doesn't change the reality of what it actually is. It's their failure. It's their loss. And it comes as a lack of responsibility from them because nine times out of ten, if they were more responsible, a lot of the things that go wrong with them wouldn't even go wrong. It wouldn't even happen. Nine times out of ten, the reason why things go wrong is because they're the ones who are in control of it. Take them out of that position of control and watch how things get better. Some people are not meant to have power. Narcissists are not meant to have power because they abuse it. They misuse it. They use it for their own self-interest and needs. It's not good for anyone else. And that is why where every narcissist is in control, everyone else suffers. Everyone else takes a loss when it could have been a completely different situation if that narcissist was not in that position of power. But that's just how it is. Narcissists desire power and control. They will do whatever it takes to get it. At the same time, they will do whatever it takes to avoid taking responsibility for a loss, a failure. When they truly do, they will take responsibility. They will take action, but they will deal with the consequences because they accept that they were in control the entire time. So how can anyone else be responsible for it? Just want to show these fireworks here. I know it's a bit loud, but it's really nice. Good time to see this while I'm filming. That's all I've got to say for this video. I hope it was helpful. Please give it a thumbs up down below and I will talk to you in another one.