 I'm in a long distance relationship, I love my partner, but I'm getting attracted to someone else. I'm not going to do anything about it, but I feel so guilty. Is it because I'm falling out of love? Okay, so let's begin with the understanding that all of us through our entire lives are going to be attracted to a whole bunch of different people. Whether you're single or in a relationship, whether you're sat right next to your partner or you're a million miles away, you are going to find yourself attracted to somebody or the other at different stages of your life. It doesn't mean a thing, it is the most natural human instinct. But having said that, yes, I agree. It does become a little bit more of a challenge if you're in a long distance relationship because in a long distance relationship, we are a little bit more susceptible to loneliness and that automatically makes us a little bit more vulnerable. So for instance, let's say you're at a party and you find yourself getting attracted to somebody else. If you are with a partner when you leave that party, you find it much easier to compartmentalize that attraction because you have a different mental and physical space to go to. But if you're at a distance from your partner, that attraction will stay in your head for much longer and just that, the fact that it's in your head for a little bit longer, that can make it feel like the boundaries are getting blurred. And even though you know you're not going to do anything about it, you are going to think about it a lot more. You are going to fantasize a lot more than usual and you are going to find it a lot more difficult to shut off. And that is going to make you feel a lot more insecure about your feelings. So no, you are not falling out of love. You're not a bad person. Literally everyone in these circumstances goes through exactly the same feeling. So don't kill yourself with guilt over this either. Long distance relationships are a real challenge. Don't add to your stress. This is just an attraction. It means nothing. Just breathe. It'll pass.