 Narcissus are not real. They're not genuine or authentic. They're an imitation. They're a figment of your imagination. They don't really exist. They fed you a script. They gave you a false character and they were detached from that character. So they were detached from you. They were never serious about getting to know you. They were just trying to learn you. They were trying to learn what you like and what you don't like. So that they could create a character that is attractive and interesting to you. So that you would trust them. They didn't really value you. They knew you were something special. You stood out from the crowd. But they didn't value it. It didn't mean anything to them. Because they're self-absorbed and they lack empathy. Everything revolves around them and how effective they are at manipulating and controlling you. They're the start of the show. And you're just their audience. You're just watching them play their role. And their character in this movie is based on whatever they think you like. Whatever they think you're interested in. Which they use to get your attention and admiration. And that's all it really is. It doesn't go any deeper than that. You're just someone who watches them perform without any participation. Without taking part in the activity. You're in the front row of the audience. And you're being entertained. So they don't think about you. They expect you to always be there. Without them giving you recognition. Because you're the audience. You're there to watch them perform. And they're the start of the show. So they're more important than you are. Because they're putting on a show for you. They're keeping you entertained. They're the cause of your happiness and joy. Because they knew that you were bored and lonely. So they provide what is missing and needed to make you dependent on them. Because they see it as though they're making your life better. They take everything you're doing for granted. They don't appreciate it. Because they get bored very quickly. Your supply loses its potency. It no longer has the same effect as it once did. Because you're not responding the same way. It's not new and exciting anymore. Because you've seen it many times before. When you first watch a movie. It may keep you on the edge of your seat. But if you see it again. It's not going to be the same as the first time you saw it. And that's how the narcissist sees it. You're not responding to their performance in the way that you once did. Because you've seen it before. It doesn't have the same effect on you. So it's no longer satisfying for them. They prefer to have a new source. Who doesn't know what they're about. Because in the beginning you were overwhelmed with joy and excitement. Which made them feel amazing. It fueled their performance. But the more time you spend with them. The more they will take it for granted. Because you're no longer excited about them. And they just see you as their audience anyway. They're the star of the show. But when you begin to expect more from them. It annoys them. It makes them feel like you're the one who is ungrateful. Because they expect you to see it as a privilege just to be around them. In their minds they're superior to you. You're there subordinate. So you should just be happy with whatever breadcrumbs they're willing to give to you. When you expect more from them. They see it as arrogance and audacity. As though you have no right to expect more. As though you should be grateful for their mere presence. Which is why it's so easy for them to get rid of you. Because in their minds you don't appreciate them. So eventually the curtains close. The show comes to an end. It's time for you to leave. And then they prepare for their next show. They prepare for the new audience. But none of it was ever real. It's all an act. When they first target you they marry your likes and interests. And then when the show is over they mirror what you don't like. Which is not what you signed up for. It's not what you thought you were committing yourself to. You didn't want to watch someone play a role. You didn't want to watch someone put on an act and pretend to be something they're not. Even the thought of that may sound crazy. To think that someone would go through all of that effort. Just to put on a performance. Just to entertain you. With no intentions of anything else. It's empty and meaningless. But this is it. They're on the spectrum to psychosis. They lost themselves a long time ago. They never got the attention they needed when they were children. So now it's the only thing that matters to them. And they will do whatever it takes to get it. Which means that they will never experience a normal relationship. They can only put on a show. They can only play their part. And you will only ever be their audience. You're not going to be their co-star. You're just going to be someone who watches them perform. While you're expecting more. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coach the inquiries. You can email me at coach.narksurvivor.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you